I'm a female scorpio.Hoplessly falling for a cancer.I don't know much about him. I know him through his mom. He is too shy. Trouble is I'm been badly hurt and don't want to look like fool again so i'm wonna play it safe.
So, here little things that happened.
1)I was helping his mom out. It was a busy day and lots volunteers showed up! He randomly came to me asked if I needed the light I said 'no, its fine'.He went away and in a second he was back again, stood behind me and again asked me about the light. When I agreed. He helped me to sort out tiny boxes. He placed each box in my hands and not in the bag that were next to. Than he left quietly and didn't speak to me or anyone else. At the end, I was the last one to go home he was busy,he stopped, went up to me, shaked my hand in a v.formal manner and thanked me formaly for helping out.
2) He was doing the dishes in the kitch, I went in. I couldn't find a cup, he washed 1 for me and reasured me it was clean soon after 2 other people came into the kitch. He swiftly left, stood behind them, I think he was looking at me.When I was asked who he is and he rushed out the front door. Later on I went bk to the kitch. and he was there (we the only ones on the 1st floor)he put the kettle on saw and silently went into the next room, stood silently, I got offended when the kettle boiled, I left and when I was opening the front door I saw him quickly rush into the kitch.
3)I wanted to go into a room, the door was closed and he stood by the door in a group of men. He physicly stopped and started to joke whats behind the door.He was looking into my eyes and I indulged in his glare. I asked who's in that room and he just stared into my eyes and asked me 'what' I repeated my question stilling looking at him but then I just gave in and pulled away and left. I never got out stared.
it have been noted he stares at me when I not looking, I never noticed tho. I'm just afarid its all in my head. I mean when I say hello he dn't reply when I leave he all formal or overly friendly. HE don't talk to me its soo hard to strike a convo.
He's immature and not as interested as you may want him to be, if he can stare than he can say let's go get some coffee at Starbucks, for the most part it's harmless flirting, I would suggest stop making ANY eye contact, it should force him over to you, it will motivate him to open his mouth and stop being so lazy.
Ooo youre in the cancer shell house -Moon_eyes I know! Its wicked, I mean I get along with the mum and sis pretty well and my brother is a cancer too and we are best of friends. Its him, he is a bit random.lol I just thought maybe cancer men get too shy, they don't grab the bull by the horns(oh, dear pardon my expression).
LeoKitten you mentioned abnormal behaviour, it kinda striked me too but I looked passed it and thought maybe he is just too darn shy...maybe I intimited him.0.0!!!
Tiki33, oh honey please dont say that. The last 'Dude' I went for was sorta like this one characteristics wise but it didn't end too well and he was a Taurus!!!
Thank you guys for your time and help. x
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He is too shy. Trouble is I'm been badly hurt and don't want to look like fool again so i'm wonna play it safe.
So, here little things that happened.
1)I was helping his mom out. It was a busy day and lots volunteers showed up!
He randomly came to me asked if I needed the light I said 'no, its fine'.He went away and in a second he was back again, stood behind me and again asked me about the light. When I agreed. He helped me to sort out tiny boxes. He placed each box in my hands and not in the bag that were next to. Than he left quietly and didn't speak to me or anyone else. At the end, I was the last one to go home he was busy,he stopped, went up to me, shaked my hand in a v.formal manner and thanked me formaly for helping out.
2) He was doing the dishes in the kitch, I went in. I couldn't find a cup, he washed 1 for me and reasured me it was clean soon after 2 other people came into the kitch. He swiftly left, stood behind them, I think he was looking at me.When I was asked who he is and he rushed out the front door.
Later on
I went bk to the kitch. and he was there (we the only ones on the 1st floor)he put the kettle on saw and silently went into the next room, stood silently, I got offended when the kettle boiled, I left and when I was opening the front door I saw him quickly rush into the kitch.
3)I wanted to go into a room, the door was closed and he stood by the door in a group of men. He physicly stopped and started to joke whats behind the door.He was looking into my eyes and I indulged in his glare. I asked who's in that room and he just stared into my eyes and asked me 'what' I repeated my question stilling looking at him but then I just gave in and pulled away and left. I never got out stared.
it have been noted he stares at me when I not looking, I never noticed tho. I'm just afarid its all in my head. I mean when I say hello he dn't reply when I leave he all formal or overly friendly. HE don't talk to me its soo hard to strike a convo.
Thnx soz its kinda long!!!