Does this cancer man like me?

Hi! I am a cancer woman, leo moon, cancer venus and mars. I've liked this cancer guy for 2 years now, he has a cap moon, leo venus and cancer mars.

So 2 years ago i had to sit next to him in my german classes (since i'm in a school, where we learn mostly german, that meant that we were together most of the time) *also i'm from Europe and now i'm in my last year of high school which means i'm 19* and we just had this instant connection. He had this amazing sence of humour and he had this aura around him that just made me feel secure. Back then I didn't really like him that way tho but I was pretty sure he did like me. He used to always defend me, tease me a bit ,make nice gestures and talk to me about his family (it took me a long time to get him out of his shell) but at the end of the school year we got in a mini fight and i overreacted and after that when he didn't talk to me and when i asked him what was wrong he always told me he was sick.

During summer break i realised I actually missed him a lot and when the new school year started i wanted to start things over with him but when i saw him he acted straight up cold. After a month or so our class made a party and I got drunk (the legal drinking age in my country is 18) and so did he. His best friend (also a cancer) asked me to go out of the club for a walk and we just talked but then my guy came and he started acting really rude. I'm not sure if that was jealousy or smth else. For the rest of the school year he straight up ignored me.

So, this year he's emotions are really on and off. We texted a bit and he initiated the conversation but then he just stopped replying (he's got a habit with doing that, but i think that if he really liked me, he wouldn't treat me like everybody else). This Christmas we decided to make a secret santa and he had to give me a present so he asked all of my friends what do i want and he was really worried if i would like it. When he gave me the gift he started reminding me of things I said to him 2 years ago and he remembers EVERYTHING. Later we texted a bit and he said that we used to have a great time when we were sitting next to each other but then he stopped replying once again. 2 days ago he came to me and said he saw something on fb that reminded him of me but he forgot to send it me (i could see he was so ashamed, while he said this to me) and i told him to text me later (which he didn't do).He said that thing he saw had smth to do with astrology ( he has always denied astrology btw). I kind of ignored him afterwards because i'm just afraid that he'll start acting hot and cold again.

None of has been in a relationship ever since we met each other.

My questions are: Does he actually like me and why is he acting this way?

Thank u so much for the help xx

Hello, I'm a Leo girl who likes a Cancer man too. One thing that struck me about your post is that you said you overreacted about something. My Cancer has also told me I overreact. When I do that, he withdraws. Which makes me feel even worse. My Leo advice would be to have a proper chat, tell him how you feel and leave the ball in his court. You will have to be patient! Get on with your life and if he comes back to you then great. If not, at least you did all you could. Good luck 🙂

I think it's more of a friendship to be honest.

Posted by Leo19813007
Hello, I'm a Leo girl who likes a Cancer man too. One thing that struck me about your post is that you said you overreacted about something. My Cancer has also told me I overreact. When I do that, he withdraws. Which makes me feel even worse. My Leo advice would be to have a proper chat, tell him how you feel and leave the ball in his court. You will have to be patient! Get on with your life and if he comes back to you then great. If not, at least you did all you could. Good luck 🙂

Yeah, i guess our leo placements make us kind of dramatic lol! I am going to just let him make a move and hope for the best! Thank you so much for the advice! xx

Posted by pinkbird03
I think it's more of a friendship to be honest.

This might be possible but i really don't think that that's the case. I mean, I know him and I know how he acts and that's why i know it's not just a friendship but i'm still pretty confused. I guess cancer men are just complicated lol

Posted by sumoo
it depends, he does remember everything..i think a cancer man makes it pretty obvious when he likes you. atleast in my past experiences, the cancer man make you sure that he wanted to date you.

I think you shouldn't get your hopes up yet if you're still unsure, give your heart a break. he might have something on his mind

i've noticed that cancer men show their interests, but his cap moon makes him really hide his emotions and i've noticed this quality in him. He never talks about how he feels about anything with anyone and this drives me nuts!

Posted by ap1605

Posted by pinkbird03
I think it's more of a friendship to be honest.

This might be possible but i really don't think that that's the case. I mean, I know him and I know how he acts and that's why i know it's not just a friendship but i'm still pretty confused. I guess cancer men are just complicated lol

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Im not in your situation so I really don't know. But as a cancer woman, I attract a lot of guys with my kindness. I'm a friendly person and I do believe this gets mistaken for interest a lot times, which then sometimes becomes a very big problem. First I try to distance myself or even hide, but I'll still talk to them usually only if they talk to me first unless I do have something to say. We are friends after all. Then eventually if they don't stop pursuing me, I have to have that awful talk that makes me feel terrible for hurting them. The part that sucks the most is that i really enjoyed the friendship, but now it is too awkward and uncomfortable.

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Posted by sumoo
it depends, he does remember everything..i think a cancer man makes it pretty obvious when he likes you. atleast in my past experiences, the cancer man make you sure that he wanted to date you.

I think you shouldn't get your hopes up yet if you're still unsure, give your heart a break. he might have something on his mind

i've noticed that cancer men show their interests, but his cap moon makes him really hide his emotions and i've noticed this quality in him. He never talks about how he feels about anything with anyone and this drives me nuts!

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I started dating a cancer sun cap moon recently and he tells me his feelings about me.