I am a gemini woman who have been in a relationship with a cancer man for 5 years he cheats and lies and drinks and gets until he gets drunk. He will cry and tell you he loves you and beg you to take him back when he has had his phone off all weekend! We have had a long distance relationship for most of those years every day he will call and text me all day to tell me he loves me and want to spend the rest of his life with me. He has women calling his phone telling him they love him and crying for him all the time he loves it! It makes him feel secure that everybody wants and love him " he is the Man" We made plans to spend new years together he turned his phone off all weekend last week and when I called and confronted him because I had a gut feeling that he was cheating he said I am making things up in my head. Its been a tense week with us and the agruments, he finaly cancelled his flight and told me he want to put the relationship on pause. Pause means he met some new woman that he wants to get in the bed and dont want to feel guilty about cheating again!!! I fell right into the trap, make an agrument so you can cancell for the new years eve plans. This way you can have all the fun you want beacause you are now Single! By the way he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me last week and I thought new years eve was going to be proposal night> Guess not!!! I am giving advise to someone out there dont do it. They are emotionaly unstable men and have to much insecurities. Dont take him back when he begs I did for 5 years it did'nt get me anywhere. I loved him with all my heart and yes I was his freak in the night and his lady in the day, but it dont matter to them. They need to know that they still have it all the time and if they get a little attention somewhere else they are gone to come back at a little date. Move on with your life dont loose your self loving him. He will only hurt you again!!!!!!!!!
