I'm posting my question in here specifically because there seems to be many stories of Cancerians, particularly Cancer men who do the disappearing act. Idk what thread it was, but the topic was of how even though you love someone (SO, friends, family), that you don't like to be around them too much/communicate. It seemed like the majority of responders were women agreeing with the OP. Now my question is, why is it ok if a woman does this, but when a man does it, they are immediately called a douche or player? My crab used to do this A LOT, but he's gotten so much better. He did ghost on me last week (not completely), and I thought he was playing games, but it turned out that he was just really stressed out. So can anybody explain why the double standard, and is it only me that notices this?
