Folks are always complaining!!

1. Folks are always complaining that Cancers are too clingy...So we back off, and they say we're distant. What?

2. Then we're too emotional... Prompting us to pipe down about how we "feel", Now we don't know how to communicate.

3. I've even heard we're lazy!.... Most Cancers I know including myself, have multiple degrees, excel in an art form, love physical activity, and take care of others. Lazy? Check another astrological sign for the lazy trait...

I just had to vent. Cancers are awesome! And don't let anyone convince you otherwise!

smooches =)

def not lazy.

1. Clingy? Yes they are and this is smth i personally ADORE about cancers. 2.emotional? Yes, and this is smth that turns me on as well. Cos their emotions just show how tender, vulnerable, imaginative human beings they are inside. 3. Lazy? I would say 'on their own pace'. From what i saw, they wont rush doing things just cos they need to, but more whenever they feel its right time doing that, carefully thought out before. 🙂

Posted by Springmood
1. Clingy? Yes they are and this is smth i personally ADORE about cancers. 2.emotional? Yes, and this is smth that turns me on as well. Cos their emotions just show how tender, vulnerable, imaginative human beings they are inside. 3. Lazy? I would say 'on their own pace'. From what i saw, they wont rush doing things just cos they need to, but more whenever they feel its right time doing that, carefully thought out before. 🙂

i fully agree. either they are not into you enough or dont understand you. i think that you all are great. might not understand everything about cancers, but love finding out.

I have been thinking the same things as well>.> Most people just don't understand us.

@Scorchedearth: I bet it was a Gemini who said it lol not an Aquarius.

Some people don't like us because they cant figure us out and that bugs the bug shytttt outta them. We really arent complicated like were made out to be. Its like the expression "Treat people the way you want to be treated" and "eye for an eye tooth for a tooth" You treat us great and we will do the same, if we feel were treating you better we feel resentment because we feel like we deserve better... fu*k with someone we love or hurt someone we care about, get pinched to death. Its pretty damn simple. If you dont like to cuddle,feel appreciated,feel loved,be accepted,be secretive,be patient,be fun,be honest,or understanding than its simple, go away, or get fkn pinched. Its simple!!! 🙂

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Some people don't like us because they cant figure us out and that bugs the bug shytttt outta them. We really arent complicated like were made out to be. Its like the expression "Treat people the way you want to be treated" and "eye for an eye tooth for a tooth" You treat us great and we will do the same, if we feel were treating you better we feel resentment because we feel like we deserve better... fu*k with someone we love or hurt someone we care about, get pinched to death. Its pretty damn simple. If you dont like to cuddle,feel appreciated,feel loved,be accepted,be secretive,be patient,be fun,be honest,or understanding than its simple, go away, or get fkn pinched. Its simple!!! 🙂

Thank you!! It's as simple as that.

I'm a virgo and i have SO MANY cancer friends. Its strange.. i've always had cancers all around me growing up and even now!! They are a bit clingy, but i like that about them. The ones who complain about it are commitment-phobes who just wanna point fingers for the heck of it. Cancer folks can get a little loony sometimes but they're sweet souls. And almost all the cancers i know are adrenaline junkies.. all into adventure sports and stuff. Wonder what's up with that.. :/

Cancer here, I agree with most on this topic. On the clingy I really don't see it. What people don't see is cancers have to spin time and there shell ,it a mediation for ther selves, also they are moody most of the time when they are in a fuck up mood they go to be alone.I think what people see is when we like u , trust u and see u is a friend or a partner we went to spoil u with conversation ,advise,be touchy in some cases which be honest I'm not a touchy person only with my boyfriend. But we do what we do to. Show that we care. Like someone said already as soon when we retrieve back no communicate then people have issues.

Emotional, true but one of the tuff signs I have ever seen, I don't think people get what is going down with us speak on my self cause I dnt no all cancer. I feel thru everything,image a person who is a emotion detector can feel emotions ez and is so dam intuitive of what going on around them, it hard having these dam emotional signals. I see thru people and my intuition is most of the time is right which get on people nerves.

Lazy , I can be lazy, but evry person I no that a cancer they do what they have to do,when it need to be done.

I Agree ecent, i am not clingy either. They really need a differant word for that. I am not clingy, i show my man i care by being there for him mentally emotionally and physically but i dont smother him, I think a Saggie came up with that one, Or an aquarius

I agree as well. I am not clingy at all ,but I choose to be there for my boyfriend. He is a Virgo and somewhat clingy,but I love that about him.