Do you feel identified with ALL the characteristics of your sign?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Rainbow87 on Monday, November 9, 2020 and has 27 replies.

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@Rainbow87
7 Years

Ok, so I’m a Cancer here 🙋‍♀️ My sign is considered to be maternal. Actually we are called “the mothers of the zodiac” for some reason I’m not one of those women that is desperate to be a mom. I have all the other Cancer traits though. I’m extremely emotional, sensitive , moody, and a homebody. I’m just wondering why I’m lacking maternal instinct, especially being a Cancer woman. I don’t have anything against children but having kids is not one of my top priorities in life. I actually enjoy freedom and having hobbies and interests. I’m sure I would be a good mom if I have kids, but I’m not crazy about the idea.

How about you?

Is there something about your sign that you don’t relate to? Or do you relate to all your characteristics?

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@applecherrypie
7 Years

My BFF is a cancer and for the looongest time did not want kids! Even though she would literally be the BEST mom. She was more career focused and also her parents had a surprise baby so she saw all the down sides of having kids. Now, she wants to have kids and will even raise one as a single mom Mindy Kaling style . Has anything happened that could have turned you off having kids? Common ones are having an unhappy childhood, having abusive/negilgent parents and having too many responsibilities as a kid. Or you could just not want kids which is fine.

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@applecherrypie
7 Years

And to answer you question, yeah I don't relate to the whole 'Taurus don't like change' thing. Might be the aqua moon speaking, but I dislike monotony and crave new experiences and novelty.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Nope. I'm aqua sun but only relate to a small portion of what is described about that sign. I am not aloof, unemotional, cold or distant. If anything I am warm, bubbly and can be clingy when i really care for someone -things most do not relate to an Aquarian.

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@RollergirlOrc
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I know Cancer placements that are great nurturer to pets and animals. I'd say if you looked up Capricorn in the dictionary, my picture would be there.. I do know a Libra who has a sailor mouth and doesn't mind messes but he's very polite otherwise. I do know an unfair Aquarius..

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@malloryor
12 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

• My sun, moon and rising yes! My Aqua Venus not so much.

• It took time for me to grow into my Aries Moon. But as a kid I was always the creative, sensitive, dreamy Pisces. And I was always super outgoing, friendly and bubbly like my Leo Rising.

But I wasn’t very passionate or into debates, or calling people out on their bs that my moon sign seems to breed. My moon sign has made me feisty, but it took 20 something years of living, and harsh, reality checks, for me to develop that feistiness.

• Also, I use to be way more patient and at peace with the timing of things as a kid. I didn’t worry so much or get anxious if things moved to slow in my direction. Now, my Aries Moon makes me super impatient when it comes to the things I want. Thankfully though, this doesn’t really manifest in the material realm of like finances and spending.

• I absolutely, DO NOT identify with my Aqua placements in Venus. Mars, I get, because I can be opinionated yet open minded on things most wouldn’t think I’d be into. So my views can be rather varied. But my Aqua Venus placement only seems to resonate in bringing me ALOOF, cold, detached partners, which frustrates my Aries Moon side that likes to be super touchy feely and passionate.

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

I'll break it down

Cancer rising: yes

Leo sun: no

Scorpio moon: yes

Virgo Merc: yes

Cancer Venus: yes

Taurus mars: no

Cancer Jupiter: yes

Capricorn Saturn: yes

Capricorn Uranus: yes

Capricorn Neptune: yes

Scorpio Pluto: yes

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@MikeNYNYC
7 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Rainbow87

Ok, so I’m a Cancer here 🙋‍♀️ My sign is considered to be maternal. Actually we are called “the mothers of the zodiac” for some reason I’m not one of those women that is desperate to be a mom. I have all the other Cancer traits though. I’m extremely emotional, sensitive , moody, and a homebody. I’m just wondering why I’m lacking maternal instinct, especially being a Cancer woman. I don’t have anything against children but having kids is not one of my top priorities in life. I actually enjoy freedom and having hobbies and interests. I’m sure I would be a good mom if I have kids, but I’m not crazy about the idea.

How about you?

Is there something about your sign that you don’t relate to? Or do you relate to all your characteristics?

You have to consider the rest of your chart; first place I'd look is your moon sign

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

No never.

In fact its why I avoided astrology for so long. My sister would read our daily horoscope damn near every day and I'd be, that's you maybe but not me.

But once you dig in deep past sun sign it starts to look a bit more accurate.

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

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I did it once with an Aqua man....but never again after that with anyone else

getting back with the aqua was because of the moon in taurus or because of your sun in scorpio?

or because of his sun in aqua?

im asking for myself 😄

Are you asking about a Scorpio/Taurus moon person?

a taurus moon, yes

Sun?

whose? the taurus moon?

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@virgoOPPP
7 Years10,000+ Posts

one time a guy thought i had a crush on him.

uhmm i don't.

but i didn't wanna disappoint. yet at the same time didn't want anything to happen so i started to act like i did while moaning over how it will be 'forever unrequited.' then every time he asked me out, i act like it's a joke, can't be real coz am just a poor girl with unrequited love lol.

i've always had a different approach in dealing with things.

but whatever works, right?

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@MyStarsShine
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I did it once with an Aqua man....but never again after that with anyone else

getting back with the aqua was because of the moon in taurus or because of your sun in scorpio?

or because of his sun in aqua?

im asking for myself 😄

Are you asking about a Scorpio/Taurus moon person?

a taurus moon, yes

Sun?

whose? the taurus moon?

Yes

Aries ♈️

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Strange combo

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@Aquarius3189
9 Years1,000+ Posts

If its my sun sign,I thought im more of a cap since im a cap dom but to be honest when i want to i can be cold af and detached especially when im hurt and sometimes it scares me when i can be so intense and passionate then shut off completely and doesnt care the next,one of my friends told me how scary i am because when i had enough you can bet your ass your like dead to me when i say no it means no that it shocks the people i love how i can be so heartless(according to the few people who saw that side of me)

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by Sailor_Mars based on my experience Aquarius can be very socially manipulative

^ what do you mean by that

she meant aquarius men are douche bags and have no balls or courage so they have to manipulate people.

lets wait for her opinion first, what do you say? coz the way im understanding it is: aquas manipulate mobs of people into following them blindly into the streets, jacking cars and setting window shops on fire

you, on the other hand, are whining that we use our minds, instead of our fists

is all about perception, babes

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I'm not whining I was just trying to trigger you lol and it seems I failed, I wasn't expecting that response 👏 well done sir

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@Timone
5 Years1,000+ Posts

Libra sun - yeh it's definitely there but not all characteristics. I'm more of an introvert and definitely wouldn't describe myself as a social butterfly. I hate small talk and libras are supposed to be queen of small talk. 👸

I do identify with my chart, especially moon and rising so as cliché it may seem to say but you have to look at the whole chart.

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@Chessmess
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Posted by Sailor_Mars

No one believes that I am an Aries when they meet me, but I feel very Arian. I am creative, innovative, I start a milion projects and hobbies only to abandon them along the road, I am masculine in my mind and behaviour even though very girly, I am promiscuous in certain cases, when I get angry I am aggressive.

I suppose my Libra Ascendant fools people...and that's the thing...I act as a Libra until I feel comfortable with someone. I don't do it intentionally

I'm an Aries with libra ascendant but I hate it. Sometimes I wish I could be more like an Aries...bold.....

I work with an Aries and she's talkative, popular with everyone.....I wonder what's her ascendant.....

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@Chessmess
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Posted by Sailor_Mars

No one believes that I am an Aries when they meet me, but I feel very Arian. I am creative, innovative, I start a milion projects and hobbies only to abandon them along the road, I am masculine in my mind and behaviour even though very girly, I am promiscuous in certain cases, when I get angry I am aggressive.

I suppose my Libra Ascendant fools people...and that's the thing...I act as a Libra until I feel comfortable with someone. I don't do it intentionally

Aries is the outsider, as much as Aquarius is considered to be. I know Geminis can be outsiders, but they can play the social game much better.

I think Aries and Libra have grudging respect for each other so it must be conflicting. Most of the Aries women I've met are feminine were the masculine side comes out is in competition or hobbies one Aries woman I know is a petrolhead, another one I went paintballing with.

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I have the same ascendant and I find it conflicting - I don't like it at all.

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@Pisces321
5 Years

Yeah, I'm a Pisces sun and we are known to be gullible but I am very stubborn, though that may be due to my Taurus Moon. I think you just have to look at the other aspects in your chart to fully piece it together.