who don't have the time or inclination to read through all the posts but either want to know what's going on in here or why we are all ganging up on one person...
"I thought if you were not miserable within yourself. You would ignore my posts. I rest my case, your misery is far beyond me and my input on your cheap, easy to fuck ass. "
it is comments like the above which we have ALL had to endure that sparked this little rebellion.
"cheap easy to fuck ass"
would any of you put up with that ? because the rest of us have put up with it for months......
Do you insist that I say the word FU--! Well there it is. She is easy to FUC-! That what all those intense feelings that you insist on bragging about, label you as Easy!
NOW IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE TRUTH, DON'T READ THE POSTS!
"Do you insist that I say the word FU--! Well there it is. She is easy to FUC-! That what all those intense feelings that you insist on bragging about, label you as Easy!"
damn, now that i think of it I am cheap. Krobe...can i text U?
To ease your pain. I get my information from professional men. The very exact things that you ladies sit on these boards bragging about, it exactly what men say they don't want in a women. If that offends you. Don't read my advice. My advice is not a NEED or to soothe over sensitivity. I don't NEED you or anyone else to take my advice.
Oh, and to soothe you again, the cheap and easy and expensive also came from a man. And to make it better for you, men love women who have other men. Take that from a MAN!
Sorry the truth hurts, but I am not here to soothe sensitivity. Happiness is not my responsibility. Happiness is found within you. I cannot make you happy and neither can any man. If you are looking for happiness. Look inside YOU!
ooohhhhhh.............I think she means male prostitutes??
That is why I say, you will never get the biological makeup of men. Everytime I post on the boards. Your feelings will be hurt. Oh, and you will continue to be lonely.
yeah - I'm pretty sure I didn't say naything in that last comment about being hurt or offended.....just wondering how one becaomes a "professional" man - is there a manual ??
I don't know - but apparently not all men are professionals at it and therefore have no business telling you what THEY want...apparently only the men who charge women money for their books on what men want are considered "professional".... anyone else see a problem with men praying on the insecurities of women in relationships to get money ??
well Angel, only she knows how it is truely affecting her, but from a bystander and short answer interjectionist (i think i just made a word) this is truely one for the books. I might even make yall a case study for my Internet Communities Psych class.
it wasn't supposed to be entertaining...it was supposed to open krobe's eyes to how she bulldozes people....clearly it is not working.....
If I am bulldozes, XF, you get ignored. Like I said, find someone else to make you happy. It won't be krobe. I truly see why you are not on the boards bragging about any men. You are looking for happiness, not only from me, but, I bet men can pick up this attitude and they leave you.
Krobe you keep saying you dont read her post but you reply to every one of them...just say "I read your posts and I dont think you know what you're talking about" why do you have to go into what she is or isnt and what she has and doesnt and what she's done and hasnt...happy, comfortable people, secure people dont have to call anyone unhappy, uncomfortable or insecure to defend their own happiness, comfort or security.
well Angel, only she knows how it is truely affecting her, but from a bystander and short answer interjectionist (i think i just made a word) this is truely one for the books. I might even make yall a case study for my Internet Communities Psych class.
Yeah, I hope you get an A+ on the paper. I wish you the best of luck sweetest!
Krobe you keep saying you dont read her post but you reply to every one of them...just say "I read your posts and I dont think you know what you're talking about" why do you have to go into what she is or isnt and what she has and doesnt and what she's done and hasnt...happy, comfortable people, secure people dont have to call anyone unhappy, uncomfortable or insecure to defend their own happiness, comfort or security
I will call her, you and anyone else on the boards who appear so insecure within themselves that they have to sit up posting on the boards about 1 particular person. I don't feel bullied. I am happy. I get attention. I am not posting on the boards to make any one HAPPY! I have not answer to her posts anyway. Just the recent ones.
XF- is assuming my personal information. I don't care. It is evident that she must be envious and jealous because she is not getting the same outcome. If you don't like my posts and your are sensitive don't read them. Yesterday, I complimented you, on your posts. I admitted that you have good advice. I don't need a compliment from you, or anyone else. I don't NEED it. It is not a desire. But, for so many women to get so defensive on posts that I am reading from men, and how they feel about particular women you are a unhappy group of women.
If truth hurts. Don't read my posts. I am not catering to sensitive feelings.
Krobe dont get defensive and please dont insinuate that you would even have a reason to call me insecure. I didn't attack you I simply asked a question...now if that question made you feel the need to get defensive...then you are trying to protect something....I can only imagine what it is, but there is a quote that I wrote myself, I hope you weigh it and find it to be as accurate as I do "He who tries the hardest to hide(insecurities, faults, and shame)behind big words, loud declarations and flashy exits is often the most transparent".
lol Angel stop Im trying to handle this in the most mature DrPhil-esque way I can. I read his book...he's a professional man so Im SET..wait didnt someone say DrPhil is a Cancer?
Krobe dont get defensive and please dont insinuate that you would even have a reason to call me insecure. I didn't attack you I simply asked a question...now if that question made you feel the need to get defensive...then you are trying to protect something....I can only imagine what it is, but there is a quote that I wrote myself, I hope you weigh it and find it to be as accurate as I do "He who tries the hardest to hide(insecurities, faults, and shame)behind big words, loud declarations and flashy exits is often the most transparent".
SF, I don't get defensive. If you feel I am then you have a feeling that I don't intend on changing. I don't have a NEED to be insecure. If my post offend any woman or man on the boards. Don't read the posts. I am not catering to sensitivity.
I didnt say anything about you being insecure, please reread my posts when you paste them. I said you have fear behind your superiority complex...I could say the same about you, but I am not going to waste unwanted energy. Good luck in the psych class.
you could say I have a superiority complex? You can say anything you want but I dont think you'll find any evidence to back it up....I don't need any evidence. People with superiority complex may need evidence. But, I don't live in a world of fear, anger, insecurity. That is a NEED! Not anything I have to have in my life. When you call it call it correct.
I have agreed with you basically on everything you have given advice on. If I agree with someone and they still dispute a their own agreements, then that is considered a superiority complex.
I have agreed with ALL of your advice, and you still insist on finding something to be on the defensive. I have complimented you on your advice yesterday, and you still continued with feeding into a circle of insecurity. If I did not make anyone on the boards feel comfortable. I will continue to say, ignore my posts. I am not here to make anyone happy. Not my job.
Hun, I would have to say that you need to look up what a superiority complex is. Just because you agree with my advice doesnt mean that Im not going to call the orange an orange or overlook how you type to these other women. I haven't typed anything to you about what you say to or against my advice. I havent typed anything to you about my happiness or unhappiness so lets skip discussing something that doesn't exist.
I have typed to you about calling names, ranting and raving about being worshipped then seemingly chasing down attention, I have typed to you about your contradictions and your superiority complex.
and I've never gotten defensive typing to you because netiher the ranting raving and name calling nor the unsolicited contradictory advice was directed towards me.
I have typed to you about calling names, ranting and raving about being worshipped then seemingly chasing down attention, I have typed to you about your contradictions and your superiority complex.
Reverse psych doesn't work on me. If reverse psychology does not work on you. Work on yourself. You fed me attention just like the rest of the ladies. I love every minute of it. If you can fed me attention, another woman, then you have some insecurities darling.
Guess what. I am done? I won't feed you the attention you have given to me. I agree with whatever you say.
Hun I can feed you attention because I know that not only do you want it, but I also know you need it. Unlike most of the attention you probably recieve Im going to opt out of being negative and instead of jesting your issues Im thinking them through and trying to figure out the best way to possibly help you. Feeding you attention has nothing to do with my insecurities (yes as I human, I like every other human has insecurities). Unlike some I admit my insecurities and work on them until they are attributes that I can delight myself in. You cant critisize my insecurities because they are the fuel that help me to become a better me with another reason to love myself. I accept my insecurities and I work on them Insecurities are only burdens when you try to hide them or ignore them, or even worse project them on others instead of working on them and making them strengths. Alienation is a cookiemonster and Im just trying to help you avoid that.
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"I thought if you were not miserable within yourself. You would ignore my posts. I rest my case, your misery is far beyond me and my input on your cheap, easy to fuck ass. "
it is comments like the above which we have ALL had to endure that sparked this little rebellion.
"cheap easy to fuck ass"
would any of you put up with that ? because the rest of us have put up with it for months......