Guide to dating a Cancer Man/Lady. (Page 2)

Please have a job
Please don't be a fool with money
Please know how to read my signals
Please tell me how much I mean to you everyday
Please don't ever ignore me

I realize I broke the one rule per post, but these things are crucial! 😉

smile
look into their eyes
give amazing hugs
love to cuddle
pearls + a little cleavage + heels go a long way
validate validate validate
emoticons help!! (because tone is difficult via e-communication)
safety is KEY ... gotta make a crab feel safe when they're outta that shell

Virgal dating Cancer man
You know... Sometimes after we get jiggy with it I want to turn over n just fall asleep, or maybe eat some food n then go to bed, but no... He wants to cuddle!

Cuddling is a must for these guys.
Don't be afraid to b all touchy feely ladies (& gentlemen)

Intimacy is a Cancers drug.

Intimacy *and food* are cancers drugs.

Haha sry had to correct that before anyone lashes out at me.

For a cancer woman:

She will misunderstand you (sooner or later) and she has strong tendencies to be dramatic and over react. Accommodate that.

^^^^ true, so true. *hanging my head in shame*

Whenever someone is interested in my mom, I want so badly to give him a heads up that she's hypersensitive...and well, hyper period. lol

Keep things interesting with me and please don't be needy.

I am cancer sun (Virgo moon) female

I would give these dating tips for dating a sun cancer female

- understand and try relate to her need to take care of friends and family
- if trying to get her out of her shell, be soft, gentle and reassuring
- try to say criticism in a more positive and constructive gentle way (with still being honest of course)
- remember that her moods change more then you know so be ok with that

Also let the cancer girl be affectionate, caring, and mothering to you ... We can't help it... We need to look after you and shower you with love and attention or else we feel disconnected from you 🙂

Yes this might be annoying if you don't like being fussed over... But don't let us over do it if you are the type that becomes easily lazy and would use this part of our nature... Try to keep it balanced and help her take care of herself too... Tell her it's not selfish!

I am Venus-Mars virgo conjunction for me a perfect lady would be someone who is fun, goofy, and loving. It is a deep relationship where we hit the core of ourselves. We truthfully are in tune with each other. Someone who is loyal. I can learn from her and she can learn from me. Also sex naw I call it love making. Turn on some Shai, Ginuwine, Tyrese, Marvin Gaye, Jodeci, Blackstreet, Jagged Edge, Miguel, Weeknd, Silk then just take her body and consume it. Head to Toe exploration and Every Atom will be made love to. Nothing like it. I love being romantic. Love is my weakness yet a ride I love taking.

Yes don't play games. If you are all affectionate then use us then disappear for days on end like we don't exist... you are going to have a bad time.

Be patient, show lots of interest and be consistent. Cancers expect alot but give alot in return. You're either all in, or your wasting our time. Hot and cold men don't hold our attention for long. And we can see thru a player pretty quick. You can't fool a Cancer for long. But Cancers can fool themselves pretty well. Still we're cautious and guarded about giving away the keys to our heart. No matter how crazy we feel about you, you gotta earn that trust. Sometimes we'll push you away to test your resolve and that's messed up and inevitably we lose good partners that way. But we take matters of the heart very seriously because once you've won our heart, we're 100% in your corner and put your interests before our own, even when maybe we shouldn't. The motto of a Cancer should be "for serious inquiries only." Anyway, that's my take on my sun sign.

On dating a Cancer Woman...

I'm giving a DON'T how-to here.

Apparently you're a man dating a Cancer woman,
DON'T be so talkative!!!

You're not giving enough space to let Cancer express herself in the way she wants her to.
Don't be too self-centered talking and babbling about things because it just turns her off.
In your POV it breaks the ice, but NO. You're ruining everything.

Cancer gals can handle dating situations pretty perfectly.

DON'T worry too much that it'll lead you to do the wrong things.

Dating a cancer man: "always introduce him as your man at the party and don't leave his side"

yep we are emotional,, but emotional security is not enough.. financial security should be equal

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by DolphinSaver
Dating a cancer man: "always introduce him as your man at the party and don't leave his side"

claim us. i like

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Yes I liked to be claimed so to speak it makes me feel wanted loved and validated. simple.

I really like it when men really show affection. Also, I love cute texts or messages/phone calls randomly just to tell me how much I mean to them. I need someone to be entirely faithful and loyal. I will not accept anything less. If any guy ever dares to cheat on me I would drop them faster than they could blind an eye. I'm telling you we cancers don't mess around. Definitely need to be appreciated as well. I am very sensitive, and that's why it's important for anyone that's interested be understanding of that. I hate being made jealous. If a person feels like they need to make me jealous then I am up and out. I don't need that and neither do any other cancers. Games are not favored and if a person can't grow up then we're on to the next.

Also, I really dislike if people come in and out of daily life. Pulling a disappearing act will make me shut out that person completely. I don't want or need someone who feels the need to disappear from my life.

Do I sound crazy yet? Haha!

My cancer man has made me needy, so not me. It don't help when he does a disappearing act & doesn't talk to me for days, everytime feels like a slap in the first. Everytime he does this, then decides to come out his shell. I feel to give less of myself emotionally, advice pls.... Should I walk or be patient—

Posted by justswimming
My cancer man has made me needy, so not me. It don't help when he does a disappearing act & doesn't talk to me for days, everytime feels like a slap in the first. Everytime he does this, then decides to come out his shell. I feel to give less of myself emotionally, advice pls.... Should I walk or be patient—

I can't imagine pulling a disappearing act from someone I truly love. When I really love someone I want to be near them all the time and talk to them as much as I can. He seems a little hesitant and not on the same page as you are? If I were you I had a conversation with him and ask him whats going on between you two. Only, the one problem is if he's keeping you in the stables per say just incase something else doesn't work out he wont be honest with you.

What do you believe you should do as of right now?

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