Have I finally figured out cancerian?

So after a turbulent year last year....With my rocky relationship. I decided to give up. We had a fight...He cancelled our weekend away and left the country...i decided it was to much.... i wasn't doing this anymore. I went off to spend a wonderful December with family. I think he realised I was missing on Xmas day. 2 days later he was sending messages asking for us to spend a weekend together and doing all the cooking etc.

I have now noticed when I try to get closer and bond...He steps away. When I pull away he tries to get closer. Like I ignore him all day and he will call...etc

Have I finally figured cancerian out? Is that why he was running after me...when we first met and I was an enigma capricorn that only sometimes felt like answering my phone?

The cancer men I dealt with have been like that. Hot cold hot cold..it's there emotional roller coaster..whoever puts up with that has to be strong emotionally because I have very little patience with that. My mars in sag and Venus is aqua will not deal. So I deal with them from a distance meaning hey how are you hope all is well.