He wants to hook up

I thought cancer men don't have sex right away? This cancer guy messaged me that he's in town and wants to meet and proposed me to stay with him. We never met yet and I was taken aback with his forwardness. Of course I told him casual sex doesn't interest me and he still was trying to convince me to at least meet for a drink. He is a businessman who is 38 and I'm 25. Why is he being so forward?

Posted by Ikyfl
Who said they don’t have sex right away?

He’ll have sex with you right away and probably develop feelings immediately but then he’ll constantly think about how easy it was to bed you and that will make him feel insecure and he likely won’t take you seriously for a long term relationship. But he won’t leave you alone because he will have developed feelings.

So how do I go about with this? I am attracted to him but I don't have sex either on first dates

Posted by Ikyfl

Posted by Gemini25

Posted by Ikyfl
Who said they don’t have sex right away?

He’ll have sex with you right away and probably develop feelings immediately but then he’ll constantly think about how easy it was to bed you and that will make him feel insecure and he likely won’t take you seriously for a long term relationship. But he won’t leave you alone because he will have developed feelings.

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So how do I go about with this? I am attracted to him but I don't have sex either on first dates

Have a drink with him and see how it goes?

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Hmmm but would that suggest that I'm being open to sex?

Ok but wanted to know is this how cancers behave

Posted by Ikyfl
Who said they don’t have sex right away?

He’ll have sex with you right away and probably develop feelings immediately but then he’ll constantly think about how easy it was to bed you and that will make him feel insecure and he likely won’t take you seriously for a long term relationship. But he won’t leave you alone because he will have developed feelings.

this is a mind fuck.

That's the thing now he keeps saying I want to kiss you