HELP!!!!!!!!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cheeky14u on Tuesday, August 3, 2010 and has 3 replies.

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@PiscesArgie
16 Years500+ Posts

hi there!!! it sounds as if he got suddenly afraid and overwhelmed with the situation and unsure of what to do, he might be inside his shell!!!
He will surely come off when he has thought over what he wants to do with you.
Tell us something else, what is his age? that is important.
Are you two just close friends, are you flirting? more info will help!!

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@justSophs
16 YearsCancer

Posted by cheeky14u
I have been talking to a cancer for the last 3 weeks, pretty regular contact....almost everyday....been trying to keep it light....however I thoroughly screwed up the other day and made a point of saying we should do something and we need to make sure he enjoys his time off.....blah blah blah......anyway....never got a reply....he just deleted every previous message....so I in a panic said Ouch....I apologized for pushing and have no idea what to do now.....

Not sure what to do....and would appreciate any help you can give.....he is cancer sun aries moon....I am aries sun...taurus moon....

Thanks 🙂

You did nothing wrong in my opinion, sounds like he just leading you on or occupying his time.

A guy who is interested would want to see you and not delete messages and all that foolishness.

NEVER apologize for liking someone, its his loss. I say cut your losses and move on. Clearly he's not mature and he will keep on hurting you like this. Remember you allowed him to disrespect you like this and it will only continue. Have some self esteem and stop apologizing for the natural order of things. 2 people who like each other hang out, date and all that stuff. Clearly he's not that interested.

It ain't a cancer thing. He's just a retard.

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@domanb
17 YearsCancer

Maybe he has a gf or is married and he didn't want to get busted so he deleted all the evidence?