HELP- cancer man goes silent after i criticized him

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Virgals on Thursday, March 30, 2017 and has 2 replies.

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@Virgals
9 Years

Well, i have a situation here. I have cancer bf and he does push-pull things to me. And i don't really like it. So 2 days a go i text him telling abt my day and so on. But he just like, hmmm ooookay. He seems doesn't interested. Like he does the pushing. So i asked him, why are you being like this? I don't like it. It's disrespectful, and he just READ my text not replying till now.

So what do i do? Just let him be? Or should i asked him "hellooo do you feel like apologizing to me now" ?

What should i do? And why does he go silent?

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@ScorpSunGemMoon
9 Years

Simply put, you guys aren't compatible. If you don't feel like he's respecting you, seems uninterested, ignores you, you should know you deserve better. Don't ask anymore questions or text him. Have respect for yourself and dump him. If he comes around again, it's only because it's convenient for him and he won't change to respect you any better if you accept him.

Dated three Cancer men. Dumped all of them. Not my cup of tea.

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@Virgals
9 Years

He ignore me because he play GTA. But i just wondering do you not have that few seconds to text me back? I just want him to be nice to me. Like at the beginning of the relationship. Why do i end up doing all this pursuing and initiating and he just get lazier?

Is it bcs he doesn't interested anymore or bcs i try too hard in my relationship?