Cancers and Blocking.

So, let me clarify. I think my Cancer ex is a turd now. Had some shit come to light and I was an idiot. A lot of you called me out on that, thanks. haha

But I just read two Cancer man posts about crazy blocking of mutual friends. What is the deal with that? I dont understand the point. This dude legit blocked 26 of our mutual friends. Over seemingly nothing. No one did a thing to him. Its quite embarrassing. A lot of these people hes know for like 15 years. Can anyone explain why people do this? Ive never blocked anyone in my life. 26 friends!!!!! he blocked anyone who knows me!

Nah, Im straight with that fool. I was definitely sweating for a second though. A SECOND.

Like Mona said, tantrum. And it probably has nothing to do with them, and everything to do with you. He just is pissy about you ending it. Blocking and/or removing people you mutually know, prevents you from accessing his FB based off his settings. He probably has it set so that "Friends of Friends" can see his shit.

Its dramatic. He said like a kid "You can keep all my stuff and keep all of our mutual friends.. its all yours."....

Like What?! Then I get random texts like "John deleted me, did I do something?".... Im 31, its just wild to me.

LOL, I just got rid of a Cancer named John hahahaha

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LOL, I just got rid of a Cancer named John hahahaha

I remember something about you and a Cancer in some threads and posts... This the same one?

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Yep. I care about him, and possibly always will. It wasn't on bad terms. He just needs to fix his mental demons, and I feel like he is stagnant. He's an amazing human being, if he could see it. But we are just in two different areas of our lives.

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So, let me clarify. I think my Cancer ex is a turd now. Had some shit come to light and I was an idiot. A lot of you called me out on that, thanks. haha

But I just read two Cancer man posts about crazy blocking of mutual friends. What is the deal with that? I dont understand the point. This dude legit blocked 26 of our mutual friends. Over seemingly nothing. No one did a thing to him. Its quite embarrassing. A lot of these people hes know for like 15 years. Can anyone explain why people do this? Ive never blocked anyone in my life. 26 friends!!!!! he blocked anyone who knows me!

what came into light? and did you dump him? i missed that, how was it possible to dump him when he's not talking to you?

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Him messaging an ex 5 days after came to light.

He took it as me dumping him when I said "I feel like this relationship isnt progressing...blah blah" He basically hung up and blocked me after. I wanted him to talk to me again to rectify the situation, because I was shocked by his immediate shut down. Shit was a blessing.

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LOL, I just got rid of a Cancer named John hahahaha

I remember something about you and a Cancer in some threads and posts... This the same one?

Yep. I care about him, and possibly always will. It wasn't on bad terms. He just needs to fix his mental demons, and I feel like he is stagnant. He's an amazing human being, if he could see it. But we are just in two different areas of our lives.

That good to hear! I mean parts where it was a clean and mutual split.

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Yea, and he knows if he needs me as a friend, I will be here. Just a year of seeing him going through it, and the fact that he honestly, didn't know how long he was going to be in that "place", I did what was best for me, since I put him first way too often. He has my loyalty still, just as a friend now.

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LOL, I just got rid of a Cancer named John hahahaha

I remember something about you and a Cancer in some threads and posts... This the same one?

Yep. I care about him, and possibly always will. It wasn't on bad terms. He just needs to fix his mental demons, and I feel like he is stagnant. He's an amazing human being, if he could see it. But we are just in two different areas of our lives.

That good to hear! I mean parts where it was a clean and mutual split.

Yea, and he knows if he needs me as a friend, I will be here. Just a year of seeing him going through it, and the fact that he honestly, didn't know how long he was going to be in that "place", I did what was best for me, since I put him first way too often. He has my loyalty still, just as a friend now.

Seems like you know where your head is at. Life sometimes and time though still. :/

Hope you good (don't mean in a condescending way, lol).

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I'm actually content tbh. Didn't believe in Venus Retrograde, but man did it kick in and make me re-evaluate stuff. lol

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LOL, I just got rid of a Cancer named John hahahaha

I remember something about you and a Cancer in some threads and posts... This the same one?

Yep. I care about him, and possibly always will. It wasn't on bad terms. He just needs to fix his mental demons, and I feel like he is stagnant. He's an amazing human being, if he could see it. But we are just in two different areas of our lives.

That good to hear! I mean parts where it was a clean and mutual split.

Yea, and he knows if he needs me as a friend, I will be here. Just a year of seeing him going through it, and the fact that he honestly, didn't know how long he was going to be in that "place", I did what was best for me, since I put him first way too often. He has my loyalty still, just as a friend now.

Seems like you know where your head is at. Life sometimes and time though still. :/

Hope you good (don't mean in a condescending way, lol).

I'm actually content tbh. Didn't believe in Venus Retrograde, but man did it kick in and make me re-evaluate stuff. lol

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On the realest level!!!!!

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Sorry it turned out so bad OP. 😢

Now you're free though! After a bit of venting and releasing the bad from your life you can find someone who can understand and appreciate you.

Thanks! I actually feel really good 🙂

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LOL, I just got rid of a Cancer named John hahahaha

I remember something about you and a Cancer in some threads and posts... This the same one?

Yep. I care about him, and possibly always will. It wasn't on bad terms. He just needs to fix his mental demons, and I feel like he is stagnant. He's an amazing human being, if he could see it. But we are just in two different areas of our lives.

That good to hear! I mean parts where it was a clean and mutual split.

Yea, and he knows if he needs me as a friend, I will be here. Just a year of seeing him going through it, and the fact that he honestly, didn't know how long he was going to be in that "place", I did what was best for me, since I put him first way too often. He has my loyalty still, just as a friend now.

Seems like you know where your head is at. Life sometimes and time though still. :/

Hope you good (don't mean in a condescending way, lol).

I'm actually content tbh. Didn't believe in Venus Retrograde, but man did it kick in and make me re-evaluate stuff. lol

Nice.

Yeah, I hear ya there. This years wasn't much for me personally, but that ok because last years was crazy. Suppose stuff sorts and evens itself out.

But then again it's not done... Yet! Lol.

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Well I hope this year continues to be good for you!

He's mentally a baby. Let go of him. He needs time to grow the fck up!