Boy have I got a good one...or bad one...whichever. So I, in the past few months, have befriended an Aqua female who is dating a Cancer female. Now my friendship with the Aqua has become very important to me. We have a strong cosmic connection, and understand each other very well. Being a Scorp, that doesn't happen too often with Aquas (for me anyway, I usually scare them). She has a Taurus moon and rising, which I think helps.... anyway, I know a little bit about this Cancer girl, past stuff, which to me doesn't matter. I know that she has slept with a male friend of mine prior to being in a relationship with my friend....still no biggie. Well, my Aqua friend thinks that her girlfriend has never been with a man. I don't think she would care if she knew. ?? Obviously the Cancer does, maybe to remain virginal in the eyes of her girl. She constantly brings up this man that I know and work with. I mean constantly. She watches my reactions when she brings him up. It makes me VERY uncomfortable, I do not want to get involved in this. I feel that this Cancer is playing a dangerous game with a sort of a lame ass piece. Who cares if you have been with a man? She exhibits some very odd behavior, and brings up this man to see if I know anything. I don't think that my friend has picked up on it. I know she wants to see if I know about it. So what if I do? I don't want to hang around my friend with her girlfriend anymore, if I tell her that she'll want to know why...any thoughts?
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So I, in the past few months, have befriended an Aqua female who is dating a Cancer female. Now my friendship with the Aqua has become very important to me. We have a strong cosmic connection, and understand each other very well. Being a Scorp, that doesn't happen too often with Aquas (for me anyway, I usually scare them). She has a Taurus moon and rising, which I think helps.... anyway, I know a little bit about this Cancer girl, past stuff, which to me doesn't matter. I know that she has slept with a male friend of mine prior to being in a relationship with my friend....still no biggie. Well, my Aqua friend thinks that her girlfriend has never been with a man. I don't think she would care if she knew. ?? Obviously the Cancer does, maybe to remain virginal in the eyes of her girl.
She constantly brings up this man that I know and work with. I mean constantly. She watches my reactions when she brings him up. It makes me VERY uncomfortable, I do not want to get involved in this. I feel that this Cancer is playing a dangerous game with a sort of a lame ass piece. Who cares if you have been with a man? She exhibits some very odd behavior, and brings up this man to see if I know anything. I don't think that my friend has picked up on it. I know she wants to see if I know about it. So what if I do? I don't want to hang around my friend with her girlfriend anymore, if I tell her that she'll want to know why...any thoughts?