"I am a leo woman who works with a cancer male. He approached me one morning while I was eating breakfast. He had to go so we agreed on lunch. I couldn't make the two lunch dates we agreed upon because of working. He started coming to see me on my job. He invited me to come to a club. Of, course I couldn't go when he wanted me to go so I just dropped in. When he came back to work he was upset because he said I didn't tell him I was coming. He wanted me to go out with him afterwards. I am involved in a ten year relationship with a capricorn man. I have been absolutely faithful to him from the beginning but for some reason he doesn't trust me which makes me feel insecure. Back to the cancer male, I asked him the next time could I come to the club, and he stated it was OK. When I finally saw him after 11 pm, first he played like he didn't know me then I asked him so you gonna play me like that. I slipped him my cell because my mate doesn't look into my phone. Back to my capricorn mate-at times his accusing me makes me just want to up and leave him. It becomes overbearen. So I find myself intrigued by this darn cancer. I stayed aloof from him since he played me like that at the club. I just didn't speak to him. He heard from the grapevine my situation but never confronted me. One day out of the blue he called my cell phone early am when I was still in the bed and laying next to my mate. After about a month of pure humiliation and emotional outbursts from him we started back talking. I slipped him a little cheap gift. I also called myself loaning him a little cash i didnt get back. I called him a couple times and he didn't call back. I would see him at work but still speak because I really wasn't pressed for him to speak to me cuz I felt he wasn't obligated to answer my calls. He stood me up once and then he started asking me for sex. We were supposed to hook up but since I didn't answer his call right away he started ignoring. I got offensive bcus I felt like he was direspecting and violating me. I started texting asking him to be patient and wait. Then I started text sex stuff, he called back. He also called for more money Help! Im not varnible, but I do want to support him "
I slipped him a little cheap gift. I also called myself loaning him a little cash i didnt get back. I called him a couple times and he didn't call back. I would see him at work but still speak because I really wasn't pressed for him to speak to me cuz I felt he wasn't obligated to answer my calls. He stood me up once and then he started asking me for sex. We were supposed to hook up but since I didn't answer his call right away he started ignoring. I got offensive bcus I felt like he was direspecting and violating me. I started texting asking him to be patient and wait. Then I started text sex stuff, he called back. He also called for more money Help! Im not varnible, but I do want to support him "
You HAVE to be kidding me. He acts like he doesn't know you in the club, You have to SLIP HIM your number, you give him a gift, loan him money, continue after him after he stands you up(which I told yall is a Cancer thing anyway), he's still asking for money...and you need someone to tell you what to do?.....I wouldn't GIVE this type of person advice much less take theirs
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"I am a leo woman who works with a cancer male. He approached me one morning while I was eating breakfast. He had to go so we agreed on lunch. I couldn't make the two lunch dates we agreed upon because of working. He started coming to see me on my job. He invited me to come to a club. Of, course I couldn't go when he wanted me to go so I just dropped in. When he came back to work he was upset because he said I didn't tell him I was coming. He wanted me to go out with him afterwards. I am involved in a ten year relationship with a capricorn man. I have been absolutely faithful to him from the beginning but for some reason he doesn't trust me which makes me feel insecure. Back to the cancer male, I asked him the next time could I come to the club, and he stated it was OK. When I finally saw him after 11 pm, first he played like he didn't know me then I asked him so you gonna play me like that. I slipped him my cell because my mate doesn't look into my phone. Back to my capricorn mate-at times his accusing me makes me just want to up and leave him. It becomes overbearen. So I find myself intrigued by this darn cancer. I stayed aloof from him since he played me like that at the club. I just didn't speak to him. He heard from the grapevine my situation but never confronted me. One day out of the blue he called my cell phone early am when I was still in the bed and laying next to my mate. After about a month of pure humiliation and emotional outbursts from him we started back talking. I slipped him a little cheap gift. I also called myself loaning him a little cash i didnt get back. I called him a couple times and he didn't call back. I would see him at work but still speak because I really wasn't pressed for him to speak to me cuz I felt he wasn't obligated to answer my calls. He stood me up once and then he started asking me for sex. We were supposed to hook up but since I didn't answer his call right away he started ignoring. I got offensive bcus I felt like he was direspecting and violating me. I started texting asking him to be patient and wait. Then I started text sex stuff, he called back. He also called for more money Help! Im not varnible, but I do want to support him "