I must admit guys I am falling in love with my cancer boy, and us being in a cancer-cancer relationship I seem to be the one to express my feelings more. I didn't tell him that I was falling in love with him though; I am waiting until the time is right but I am sure he knows because my actions show. I can say that he cares about me because he takes my feelings into consideration and he no longer gives me his nochalant attitude, also he's slowly letting his guard down with me so that's definitely a plus. Him and I spoke on the subject of "love" I asked him "if you loved someone would you tell them?", he said no because he has a hard time expressing his feelings and he doesn't want to be considered soft (you know how some guys can be. I am just wondering since he said that he would not express it what are some ways that cancerian men show someone that they love them. And also, should I tell him that I am falling in love with him or shall I wait until I know for sure he feels the same? What do you think?
Thanking you all in advance for your opinions and advice. Take Care!
Uhh...Let him be the first. That's my opinion If he truly loves you, he will say it. Any man will. Or at least they will say stuff like "I plan to stick around", "I love everything about you" and actually go on and tell you everything they love about you, or do all those little things, remember the details. Love humbles anyone. And if he doesn't do it, then he's not worth it. (how can i being a cancer say this...i would probably say it anyway) But yes, its better that you demonstrate it, till he realizes and tells you. Then you go on ahead and reaffirm what its already there.
Hope that helps 🙂
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My cancer man has come back into my life again!!!! After my last post (cancer men - help needed!) i had not spoken to my Cancer Man. During this time he has given me a few missed calls which i have ignored. Anyway last week i get an abusive phone call
I know there's been a series of posts dealing with the issue of game playing and other funny stuff going on with the guys. So what I'm going to ask is this: Do you think it really could be game playing or is it something else inside?
Thanking you all in advance for your opinions and advice.
Take Care!