How do you know?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by herlimbicmind on Saturday, July 2, 2016 and has 3 replies.

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@herlimbicmind
11 Years

I'm horrible with picking up flirting.

There is a Cancer guy (I'm a Sag) that I knew forever ago. We chatted occasionally throughout the years.. but recently we got together for lunch to catch up. He bought me a drink and we chatted for a while and the conversation was deep at times.

He made comments here and there about me being attractive and I mentioned wanting to have a bonfire and he offered his place anytime.

We talk on and off through out the week, but sometimes it seems like he's flirting with me and then it seems like he changes gears mid conversation.

It is perplexing.

He also remembers things about me from years ago, like when I dances under the solstice moon and sends me articles and links for things I like.

We just made plans to take a day trip to watch the sunrise on a mountain and put our toes in the ocean. I call him my fellow hippy.

I'm just curious if there are tell tale signs lol

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by herlimbicmind
I'm horrible with picking up flirting.

There is a Cancer guy (I'm a Sag) that I knew forever ago. We chatted occasionally throughout the years.. but recently we got together for lunch to catch up. He bought me a drink and we chatted for a while and the conversation was deep at times.

He made comments here and there about me being attractive and I mentioned wanting to have a bonfire and he offered his place anytime.

We talk on and off through out the week, but sometimes it seems like he's flirting with me and then it seems like he changes gears mid conversation.

It is perplexing.

He also remembers things about me from years ago, like when I dances under the solstice moon and sends me articles and links for things I like.

We just made plans to take a day trip to watch the sunrise on a mountain and put our toes in the ocean. I call him my fellow hippy.

I'm just curious if there are tell tale signs lol

What tell tale signs are you looking for?

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@herlimbicmind
11 Years

Haha. Well, alright... maybe I am super oblivious.

I just wasn't sure how Cancer guys act when they are interested in someone.

Honestly, I sometimes have a hard time distinguishing if he's just being a good friend or if he's interested in more.

I suppose I just ought to ask him. Lol