Hi Everyone, I was dating a cancer man since the last 5 months.I am a scorpio woman he was crazy about me. Initially in the starting everything was very good but then he started becoming distant and i was very suspicious so things turned , before he used to call me all the time then i started calling him all the time.This made him get irritated still he was very nice to me.There were days he would adore me then there were days when he would get mad at me but would always come back.About one and a half months before, we had to meet each other he called me to his place.but was not telling me the plan properly and i was constantly calling him when he was with his mom.I got irritated and angry and said alot of hurtful things to him.he blocked me from evrywhr after that and said he can never talk to someone like me.i tried apologising the next day but he just wasn’t ready to talk to me at all and would constantly not pick up my phone and ignore me all the time and also block me.After a few days i told his frnd to make him talk to me i was so helpless,he called me up then and started screaming at me that why are u embarrising me in front of my friends and you bloody idiot and what not i didn’t say a word and still kept on apologizing n saying i love him.He didn’t bother at all.in this middle ,he also made his frnd msg me that he is seeing someone else so that i don’t call him.After a few days i again tried to reach him but he had blocked me so i called him from an unkown no and said if u don’t talk to me or unblock me i will call up your mom.He called me and said what kind of a person you are and alot of shit like i have no interest in you.I thought i will be frnds with you but now i will not you are disgusting and what not but also said that he is not seeing anyone he told his frnd to tell me that purposely.Screamed and kept down the phone.After a few days i again called him up crying and apologizing and asking for one last chance and that i really love him and i will change for him and he again screamed and me and said that i am a blackmailer i was calling up his mom( which i never did i jus said it in anger cs iwas so helpless he blocked me from his phone), Also said that i am not of his level i am a dirty person he hates me his frnds hate me they all know what a bitchi am , i have no self respect, i come from a bad upbringing or family cs i keep on calling him.I kept on crying apologizing fr not hvng control on my lang when i am angry and he didn’t bother n said i am not a nice person and he doesn’t want to be with anyone like me and kept down the phone.I asked him to meet he said it is another one of my drama and refused n shouted on me.I am so helpless after that i didn’t do anything , its been two weeks he didn’t bother also abt me i am still blocked also.he alwys had issues with the words i used when i was angry but i have caught him talking to random girls twice so i called him a fuckboy.I hv begged fr an apology and one cha
how to get a cancer man back who you have hurt ?
@luckylibra979 -ice you out as in ?i also sometimes feel he is taking revenge from me its his birthday on the 7th july.I planned so much fr him i really miss and love him but he is not even ready to listen i deserve one chance atleast i accept my mistakes but weall are humans who make mistakes and learn.
.I hv begged fr an apology and one chance to improve my lang 1000 times.he doesn’t care what do i do ? i love him and miss him and reallywant to change he is not bothered its his bday on 7th july.pls help me i am very upset its been two weeks that i called him now.
PLS COMMENT CANCERS I REALLY NEED HELP I AM SUPER SAD
I agree with Admiral and luckylibra979. It's hard. I've been there. You have to walk away and let him go. Get yourself together. If he can ghost you without a word once
He would do it again. You have to take a lesson from this.
We can tell u. In time you will unferstand. It took me months to get over my cancer man. I still miss and love him which is natural. My life is moving forward. I'm happy. Even though he hurt me so much. I've moved on and which him well.
He would do it again. You have to take a lesson from this.
We can tell u. In time you will unferstand. It took me months to get over my cancer man. I still miss and love him which is natural. My life is moving forward. I'm happy. Even though he hurt me so much. I've moved on and which him well.
Hello guys...i know that the kind of person i am i definetly dont deserve this...but he has always misunderstood me n i think he always will but he will always be that one special person i wish someday i get him back i will always pray.For now i will try to divert my mind.It so difficultt i was so much into him i really think i have no life without him.Also guys one last thing i dont want him to misunderstand me always so its his birthday on 7th july should i wish him or not ?it hurts to not be with him on his birthday i made a scrapbook with all his family pictures for him for his birthday.
Im a cancer female and i can help you to clarify things
First of all hunny i will say it to u right away
he clearly doesn't love you he maybe like you but he may have rush things so fast thats why he keeps distant from you if he really loves you in the first place i swear he would not act like this we are extremely forgiving plus cancer guys are usually nice and very clingy to you he will keep calling you.. he just didnt breakup with you cuz he has no guts to do that.. he was waiting for any kind of problem to pop up and then baaam
And you must think right now "then why he keeps coming back to me even when he ignores calling" i say maybe he doesnt have any girl or anyone but you in his life that shows interest in him cancer guys are usually very sticky if they really loves you i know cuz i was in a relationship with one
Darling i say you leave his butt smashed into the ground and even if he comes begging
i advice you not to go over this again he clearly doesnt deserve you u deserve so much better 🙂
Notice " this is the toxic ones type of cancer guys the rest are really cool "
First of all hunny i will say it to u right away
he clearly doesn't love you he maybe like you but he may have rush things so fast thats why he keeps distant from you if he really loves you in the first place i swear he would not act like this we are extremely forgiving plus cancer guys are usually nice and very clingy to you he will keep calling you.. he just didnt breakup with you cuz he has no guts to do that.. he was waiting for any kind of problem to pop up and then baaam
And you must think right now "then why he keeps coming back to me even when he ignores calling" i say maybe he doesnt have any girl or anyone but you in his life that shows interest in him cancer guys are usually very sticky if they really loves you i know cuz i was in a relationship with one
Darling i say you leave his butt smashed into the ground and even if he comes begging
i advice you not to go over this again he clearly doesnt deserve you u deserve so much better 🙂
Notice " this is the toxic ones type of cancer guys the rest are really cool "
Thank you i am trying to move on it is difficult but i am trying and i will try hard i hope he really comes back begging one day and i do the same thing to him.
You are welcome
Just save all the good things in you for the right person dont waste your time and energy on someone like that
I hope u find someone as good as you are
Just save all the good things in you for the right person dont waste your time and energy on someone like that
I hope u find someone as good as you are

Never beg. Please, Please don't beg. You stated its been two weeks since you last reached out to him. I would send a happy birthday text on the 7th. Keep it light. We cancers can be very cold and heartless at times. But, he may reach back with a Thank you. Plus you took the higher road in the situation. Just let it go for now. Let him come around to you. I know its hard love. Me as a cancer female, I hate it because I fall so hard and find it so hard to move on, but then I realize how many better fish there are in the sea. It will probably take awhile until you can be around him in the same place, and feel absolutely nothing for him. But just keep busy, and focused. We're here to help you. 🙂 Stay positive, because remember there's reason for everything. Whether its good or bad. Everyone is put into our lives to show us something. Make sure you learn from this and take it with you into your next relationship.
Posted by SEXYSCORP70
.I hv begged fr an apology and one chance to improve my lang 1000 times.he doesn’t care what do i do ? i love him and miss him and reallywant to change he is not bothered its his bday on 7th july.pls help me i am very upset its been two weeks that i called him now.
thank yo everyone !! but what if i so not wish him only on his birthday will it affect him anyhow or will he get more offended ?i am confused but i really miss him and want him back.
happy birthday @islandgal24 🙂

Posted by SEXYSCORP70
Hi Everyone, I was dating a cancer man since the last 5 months.I am a scorpio woman he was crazy about me. Initially in the starting everything was very good but then he started becoming distant and i was very suspicious so things turned , before he used to call me all the time then i started calling him all the time.This made him get irritated still he was very nice to me.There were days he would adore me then there were days when he would get mad at me but would always come back.About one and a half months before, we had to meet each other he called me to his place.but was not telling me the plan properly and i was constantly calling him when he was with his mom.I got irritated and angry and said alot of hurtful things to him.he blocked me from evrywhr after that and said he can never talk to someone like me.i tried apologising the next day but he just wasn’t ready to talk to me at all and would constantly not pick up my phone and ignore me all the time and also block me.After a few days i told his frnd to make him talk to me i was so helpless,he called me up then and started screaming at me that why are u embarrising me in front of my friends and you bloody idiot and what not i didn’t say a word and still kept on apologizing n saying i love him.He didn’t bother at all.in this middle ,he also made his frnd msg me that he is seeing someone else so that i don’t call him.After a few days i again tried to reach him but he had blocked me so i called him from an unkown no and said if u don’t talk to me or unblock me i will call up your mom.He called me and said what kind of a person you are and alot of shit like i have no interest in you.I thought i will be frnds with you but now i will not you are disgusting and what not but also said that he is not seeing anyone he told his frnd to tell me that purposely.Screamed and kept down the phone.After a few days i again called him up crying and apologizing and asking for one last chance and that i really love him and i will change for him and he again screamed and me and said that i am a blackmailer i was calling up his mom( which i never did i jus said it in anger cs iwas so helpless he blocked me from his phone), Also said that i am not of his level i am a dirty person he hates me his frnds hate me they all know what a bitchi am , i have no self respect, i come from a bad upbringing or family cs i keep on calling him.I kept on crying apologizing fr not hvng control on my lang when i am angry and he didn’t bother n said i am not a nice person and he doesn’t want to be with anyone like me and kept down the phone.I asked him to meet he said it is another one of my drama and refused n shouted on me.I am so helpless after that i didn’t do anything , its been two weeks he didn’t bother also abt me i am still blocked also.he alwys had issues with the words i used when i was angry but i have caug

As a Cancer woman, he's doing all this out of hurt. The best thing to do is either let him be and wait OR just move on. If he really loved you, he would accept your apology and take you back. It'll get better, I promise!

^^ excellent answer, unfortunately for you OP 😢
@seanao1993 thank you it made me feel better lets keep the hope also being a cancer woman could you please tell me its his birthday on the 7th should i wish him or not ? what will affect him more ?
@admiral you made me feel a bit positive thanks boy

Posted by SEXYSCORP70You should leave him be for now. if he comes to you on that day or within a few days after then yes otherwise, no.
@seanao1993 thank you it made me feel better lets keep the hope also being a cancer woman could you please tell me its his birthday on the 7th should i wish him or not ? what will affect him more ?

Posted by SEXYSCORP70
@seanao1993 thank you it made me feel better lets keep the hope also being a cancer woman could you please tell me its his birthday on the 7th should i wish him or not ? what will affect him more ?
Of course you should! Cancers like it when you remember their special days. If he doesn't acknowledge that, honestly, fuck him. You're trying your best and he should see that. No one is perfect. :p

And anytime! ^_^


I just wanted to say I'm a female cancer and my birthday is July 7th. Of course he and I are two different people. He could be angry because of the mom thing. I've very protective of my mom and friends. He might be mad about you calling him all the time when he wants space. Most of the time I don't like clingy. If I'm angry I need space to deal with my emotions.
Regardless he has no right to treat you the way he has. It's selfish, immature, and cruel. I would never treat someone that way ever! You deserve someone who will treat you right. Scorpios are beautiful people. You have a lot to offer. Don't waste your time, energy, or love on someone that shuts you out. If your crying he should comfort you. He is being very cold to you.
If you really want to be with him still send him a text wishing him a happy birthday or a personal birthday card. However, if you don't hear from him soon he doesn't deserve you. If you send him a message see if he responds and if he doesn't walk away. All he will do is hurt you more. You deserve to be happy. There will be someone out there for you that treats you right. Best of luck to you! 🙂
Regardless he has no right to treat you the way he has. It's selfish, immature, and cruel. I would never treat someone that way ever! You deserve someone who will treat you right. Scorpios are beautiful people. You have a lot to offer. Don't waste your time, energy, or love on someone that shuts you out. If your crying he should comfort you. He is being very cold to you.
If you really want to be with him still send him a text wishing him a happy birthday or a personal birthday card. However, if you don't hear from him soon he doesn't deserve you. If you send him a message see if he responds and if he doesn't walk away. All he will do is hurt you more. You deserve to be happy. There will be someone out there for you that treats you right. Best of luck to you! 🙂

Posted by CancerIsInTheHouseBest advice.
Im a cancer female and i can help you to clarify things
First of all hunny i will say it to u right away
he clearly doesn't love you he maybe like you but he may have rush things so fast thats why he keeps distant from you if he really loves you in the first place i swear he would not act like this we are extremely forgiving plus cancer guys are usually nice and very clingy to you he will keep calling you.. he just didnt breakup with you cuz he has no guts to do that.. he was waiting for any kind of problem to pop up and then baaam
And you must think right now "then why he keeps coming back to me even when he ignores calling" i say maybe he doesnt have any girl or anyone but you in his life that shows interest in him cancer guys are usually very sticky if they really loves you i know cuz i was in a relationship with one
Darling i say you leave his butt smashed into the ground and even if he comes begging
i advice you not to go over this again he clearly doesnt deserve you u deserve so much better 🙂
Notice " this is the toxic ones type of cancer guys the rest are really cool "
The man had his friend send her a message to say that he was dating someone else for pete's sake.
Hi all, thank you for a great advice guys somehow i am not able to access my account sexyscorp70 even after trying and complaininh to dxp endless times...so i made a new account this one...thank you all for the advice...its more than 2 weeks he hasnt called at all no contact...guys i wanted to check i made a scrapbook kind of a thing for him having all the pictures of his family members and us and screen shots of our memories together..i wanted to give it to him on his birthday but he refused to take it last time wen i spoke to him and told him about it...he said it must be one of my dramas n things n that he doesnt want to meet me at all...i also wrote a poem in it with an appology letter... i really want to give to him..keeping it with me hurts me even more looking at it everyday....since he hasnt made any contact and also said he doesnt want to meet me i was thinking that i should jus go and drop it to his house to his guard and he can give it him...is it a good idea? i am not calling or messaging or begging him just going to drop it and come back...should i do it on his birthday or should i do it this week only before his birthday on 7thor should i not drop it at all..?i dont want him to call me needy or clingy or with no self respect...again..i just made this with a lot of love and heart and so wanted to give him...or may be i can get it dropped wishing him success in his life..and a advance happy birthday this week only...
what do u guys suggest and think? cancer men and females tell me from ur point of you is it ok to do that and what would be your reaction to i?
anyone there guys crabs?
@arielle83 i never said that i will do exactly the same thing when he comes back to me...pls read my post one more time...and everyone makes mistakes we are human beings n i appologized 100 times for my mistakes n begged fr an appology when he didnt do it even once...for anything...n just cut me off and said so much of shit..also i saw today morning him liking all the pictures of his ex gf on social media...are all crabs really like this?...one goes the ex comes or many other...
Infact i am trying to mend things between us and can do anything to get him back..i havent heard from him in 2 and a half weeks and its his birthday on the 7th..i never want him back for my pride thats not the type of person i am..i know i have made mistakes but noone is perfect.
Infact i am trying to mend things between us and can do anything to get him back..i havent heard from him in 2 and a half weeks and its his birthday on the 7th..i never want him back for my pride thats not the type of person i am..i know i have made mistakes but noone is perfect.
@arielle83 i feel that u have everthng against evryone other than crabs...n if i am unstable there can be noone unstable than my crab man who used to break up wit me at night n would come back crying in the morning..and call me up from random nos if i dont take his calls....if i am unstable and a physco then he has also done many things like that just that u crabs never see that even other can feel bad. no offence arielle but we arre al human beings who make mistakes and learn one of the main things i hv seen in you crabs is that u guys are very judgemental and the same shows with you too...i didnt do anythng to say anythng to u that ukeep on saying anythng to me and i will take it..we scorpios also feel bad and get hurt...
@kissme i agree with you and thats excatly what i did he last time i spoke to him he screamed at me like crazy and then i wrote him a simple msg to which he replied " i am sorry if u felt bad but u were not understanding,may god bless u with everythng in life". I never replied to that...and didnt call or msg him even once after that ....i dont need my pride back but i dont even want to piss him off cs he said so much shit to me last time that it really hurts so i might try avoiding wishing him on his bday but that is not out of pride but because i felt very bad and it hurts me too...just curious did ur girl ever come back or unblocked you or tried contacting you ?
@arielle83 i am sorry i am just not in the right frame of mind. and maybe you are right i dont like ppl judging me and saying things to me that i am actually wrong at so i judge back...but i am really trying to improve my self and learn from my mistakes cs i am sincerly sorry and trust me it takes alot on my ego to say sorry to you or anyone else but i am trying and being a better person if nothing else.Hope u understand.Tc.
@Kissme thank you for your advice and help 🙂
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