How to tell a Cancer guy you're in love with him?

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jl_fiona
@jl_fiona
20 Years

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Hello guys,

I need tips and/or suggestions. What places makes a Cancer guy feel comfortable other than their homes and the ocean or nearby the water? I've decided to have a talk with him in regards to where our "friendship" is heading because I need to know. He called me over the weekend but never left a message and I've been trying to get a hold of him since then and finally after 3 days he sends me a message saying that he's been busy and that he might move back to the city where he used to live. I sent him a message asking why he's moving back there and I told him that I don't want him to move back there but he never replied. I also called him and I got no answer, so I just left him a message indicating that I want to meet up with him. See, we both have feelings for each other but no one has made a move yet......we're both shy people and scared of getting hurt. All this time we've been just giving hints to each other, but I've decided to take the initiative to let him know that I am in love with him and that I don't want to lose him. Where should I take him where he'll feel at ease while we talk about matters of the heart? How should I approach him about this without making him uncomfortable? PLEASE HELP. Thanks so much!
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Tiamat
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20 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

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Although I don't think you should rely on astrology that much to say where he'd be most comfortable.I'm in the same boat as far as being to shy to take the initative with a cancer guy friend that im interested in so can't help you there.But being as you said he's shy too and based on female cancer friends I have that are shy,anywhere quiet and personal should work.I've noticed when alot of other people are around,they can be easily distracted from being nervous but that will be due to the other people not you,either way,crowds are bad it will make it very hard for them to answer anything,hints or otherwise.So bars,resterants,parks(definately),sitting in a car alone(definately) could work but only if small and noncrowded.The definately ones are marked because those places will most likely be private enough to get them to center on you and your conversation.