I need a girl's opinion

Whenever my girlfriend has problems going on, she usually pushes me away and shuns me from her problems and never opens up, she'll never talk about it with me, thats how she is I guess, so do I tell her that bothers me? We agreed that we should be honest with each other when it comes to our relationship, but I dont want to ruin everything, because other than those few akward moments, everythings perfect, or very close to perfect. what should I do?? Her best friend thinks I should talk to her but I need more opinions, chances are I'm going to talk to her Monday or whenever we get to see each other again. Please help me out, thankyou.

Well, whenever I use to have problems, I would try and talk about them, (with SO)and was told to shut up! So now I have a hard time opening up, because I think that people dont want to hear it. I feel like I am bothering them. Maybe someone has made her feel like that, or she just doesnt want to make you worry. Sometimes I will fake it, so people dont worry about me. People have enough of their own problems. I think you know what to do. You sound very understanding and she will come around to you. Keep trying and it sounds like you two are very happy! Nice to hear about it!!!

Good Luck to you both,
SuzyQ

Communication is the most difficult when there are problems of some type bugging someone. I can relate to her. I sometimes have to sort things out for myself before I can talk about it. Sometimes it just feels too intense and I don't want to break down and cry...which I might do if I talk about it before I am ready. I don't think I would have a problem if someone close to me told me they wished I would open up to them though...although, it doesn't mean I would until I was ready to. Maybe you could kinda ask her about what I said and if that is how it feels for her?? She may be like I am and need a bit of space and some time alone before she can talk about it...just a thought. I do think that your relationship is a good one...from what you have posted before...hang in there!