I need your support fellow crabs

Yes I know, Taurus and I were only together for 3 1/2 months but during that time I felt like I connected to my soulmate. You guys have no idea how difficult it is for a divorced mother with kids to date so comfortably and actually connect with someone on a deep level. I have so much on my plate, a lot of responsibility and needed patience. I'm grateful for everything. But having to start over again, it's becoming so draining and depressing. I need your advice fellow cancer's, cheer me up, tell me what I can do so that I'll feel better and yes I've already slept with someone... my ex Virgo man, and no that did not cheer me up LOL!
what else? 😢

Go shopping, pamper day, get ur nails don/spa day

Lol... I.FEEL.YOU. I've been through this. Rebound sex always make you feel worse. It's nothing like the one you want and it's nothing like not having the one you want while dealing with comical watered down versions of the one you want. Sorry about things with your Taurus.

😢 I can bring some plates over and we can smash them up

Better yet bring the plates... Lets cook something pretty yummy and talk about something irrelevant over dinner and wine... And desert will be chocolate gelatto... 😉

Posted by fullwaterpisces
Better yet bring the plates... Lets cook something pretty yummy and talk about something irrelevant over dinner and wine... And desert will be chocolate gelatto... 😉

Oww!! We can smash the plates after we devour the tasty food on them first lol 😛

Posted by StarMooney
Lol... I.FEEL.YOU. I've been through this. Rebound sex always make you feel worse. It's nothing like the one you want and it's nothing like not having the one you want while dealing with comical watered down versions of the one you want. Sorry about things with your Taurus.

So true... I've been comparing men to him lately... But the thing is... I am so afraid of opening up again. I mean, I was wide open to him. I can't have that type of hurt happen again. That pain hit me like a brick. I was in shock at first. Now I am realizing I will never see him again... Trying to erase him from my mind.

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Go shopping, pamper day, get ur nails don/spa day

Been there, done that... He's still living rent free in my mind lol

Yeah...when I was going through this phase it was hard to find comfort or peace. It stung. That was a very dark period of my life. And back then I just did a lot of things that I loved to do that didn't involve relationships with men. I did a lot of things in nature away from people in general. Read piles and piles of self help books. Chatting with others going through it too is comforting (helps to feel less alone with the issue).

Full water, that's funny! Save me a seat too, I may be right along with y'all reaaaaallll soon if I don't get my act together.

You realized you'll never see him again? Ok now I'm curious. What happened and did he just drop and disappear on you? Was he attached to your kids? I have one child and I'm pregnant now. I'm so nervous about this whole thing. Most of the problems were having is my fault but I'm trying to fix it and I may be too late.

Posted by StarMooney
Full water, that's funny! Save me a seat too, I may be right along with y'all reaaaaallll soon if I don't get my act together.

You are welcome!!! I'll cook for y'all... Love to cook, as much as love to eat tasty food... it always helps (i believe my cancer rising is a very strong influence)... And then if that makes you feel better... we can smash the dishes and yell OOOPPAA!!!!!

I'll do the cook you bring the plates lol!!!

Posted by StarMooney
You realized you'll never see him again? Ok now I'm curious. What happened and did he just drop and disappear on you? Was he attached to your kids? I have one child and I'm pregnant now. I'm so nervous about this whole thing. Most of the problems were having is my fault but I'm trying to fix it and I may be too late.

Girl, he disappeared after telling me that he wanted to focus more on his job and he felt that he couldn't give me what I needed at the time. I felt like I was dropped like a hot pocket. No emotion from him at all. It was as if he just completely turned off his feeling for me and it crushed me.