i told cancer man i love him and he broke up w/me

I've been with my cancer man (July 15th) for about a year. I told him I loved him and he didn't call or text me the next day....then I called him and we talked and he said he cares but doesn't love me😢( and broke things off

He is a really good guy close to his mom works hard etc...he then told me we can't be together because how I feel. He says it's not fair for me because he states he made the decision that the relationship is going nowhere...what I'm confused is that in the beginning of the relationship he told me he loved me and I asked him if he was sure. Then I put my guard down and the next month he said we should take things slow.....now that it's been a year I know I truly love him and I want him back. I know he cares because we talked and as hard as it is he says he will be there for me..so I'm assuming we are friends😢 ...what can I do to get my cancer man back— Everything was OK until I told him how I felt. ..he said he was happy with everything and now he had to make that decision. .

i really want him back idk what it is going to take. right now he said hell be there as a friend..i dont have much happiness in my life because i live on my own lost my mother at a young age. he was my main happiness. everything was great before i told him..i know there isnt any other person but im scared my losing him and i want him back

My first boy friend was a cancer and I am a Libra We were in a relationship for 4 years but the the last year of our relationship becomes blurry for him. He also has been cheating many times but i always forgave him. Whenever i want to know if he loves me he just say do not ask me that question.. If i ask him if he wants to break up he can not decide. So It is actually good that your cancer decided for himself not waited for you to just give up. Most of the time men in general once then ended a relationship it is done. I also noticed that time we finally broke up.. he still tells me he cares for me and he will get jealous once i finally met the right one. He said we are just not meant to be.. well he has a lot of reason..he actually likes the fact that i am so in love with him even if he knew he do not love me. I think you are lucky that your cancer decided and it is final. Do not try to get him back because they will not like that either. Just try to move on and learn to be happy even if you are single. I realized so much when i was finally free from loving him.

Awww, man. That really sucks!

But, why would you want him back? Why do you want someone that says they don't love you? Getting him back won't change that.

I say, focus on the positive side. This way you know how he feels and you have your answer and you can move on and stop wasting time on him. Now you have an opportunity to find someone that loves you back and has the same feelings you have about them. Life is too short to waste on wishy washy men.

Posted by adlibra22
I've been with my cancer man (July 15th) for about a year. I told him I loved him and he didn't call or text me the next day....then I called him and we talked and he said he cares but doesn't love me😢( and broke things off

He is a really good guy close to his mom works hard etc...he then told me we can't be together because how I feel. He says it's not fair for me because he states he made the decision that the relationship is going nowhere...what I'm confused is that in the beginning of the relationship he told me he loved me and I asked him if he was sure. Then I put my guard down and the next month he said we should take things slow.....now that it's been a year I know I truly love him and I want him back. I know he cares because we talked and as hard as it is he says he will be there for me..so I'm assuming we are friends😢 ...what can I do to get my cancer man back— Everything was OK until I told him how I felt. ..he said he was happy with everything and now he had to make that decision. .

i really want him back idk what it is going to take. right now he said hell be there as a friend..i dont have much happiness in my life because i live on my own lost my mother at a young age. he was my main happiness. everything was great before i told him..i know there isnt any other person but im scared my losing him and i want him back

If he's telling you he doesn't love you then believe him and take him for his word and move on. Cancer men would not go out of their way to tell their girlfriends that if they truly didn't mean it. Sounds like he does not want to be with you, and has possibly moved on. Give yourself time to heal and be with a man who truly adores and loves you for you.

Trust me when I say you WILL NOT be able to change his mind. Good Luck!

Making someone responsible for your own happiness is not the responsibility any person wants. You should first work on being content and happy on your own. Be the person he first fell in love with. You have to learn to be happy without the notion of him coming back. Don't contact him anymore. Give him space to and time to miss you.

It's not easy when relationships break off but at least he was respectful enough to be honest with you. Not everyone gets that treatment.

You've got love to give and you'll find someone who deserves it,