Somebody talk to me I'm at work on my blackberry! I don't feel like working today! So how is life everyone! Let's vent!
I just bought a car a few weeks ago. Next weekend I am moving into my own place me and my daughter! I feel accomplished! We don't have any furniture but I am happy just getting my independence back after goin back and forth with baby daddy! I got sales person of the month award for the month of september! Yes those are the good things! The bad me and my sisters are constantly fighting because i'm moving out and doing my own thing! I feel like nobody wants me to do good! Everyone wnts me to fail and depend on them for the rest of my life! I'm 30 with a one year old daughter don't I deserve this! My sister wants me to live wit her so I can help her with her bills! Not fair! I need my own!
hey Honeygirl.. congrats for your achievement..! 🙂 Follow what your heart tells you... i believe moving out and try to live on your own will do you and your daughter good..
I have been dependent on my family in the past few years because my daughters father left me when I was pregnant my sister helped me out but I have been independent all my life I had this one downfall and now my sister is riding me with a a guilt trip because she wants me to stay with her and help her! I can't even function at here house! Her kids have no respect for me or my belongings and she does nothing about it! I'm used to bring alone and am happy alone where I can write and work on things for myself I can't do it there because I have no privacy! So therefore I would rather live alone! I can't teach my daughter anything without everyone else babying her and spoiling her when I try to tell her right from wrong! The only person supporting my decision is my mom! I have had nothing up until now! And I know I deserve everything God has given me thus far! I told my sister from jump that my goal was to not depend on her or anyone if I came back here! She doesn't understand! I have postponed my life for the past 6 months trying to help her and offered additional time and that wasn't good enough either so I am just up and leaving!
Hey Honey! It's always so good to hear of women who strive for their own independence. Continue to do your thing girl! Your achievements are for the benefit of you and your daughter and that is all that matters. In life their will always be people who want to see us down and feel happiest when we stay that way. Unfortunatly, our families or the ones closest to us can be our biggest enemies.
Keep your head up girl and work harder knowing that there are people who are watching your every step. Step harder, and watch them tremble when you make the ground shake with your unstoppable drive 🙂
"Unfortunatly, our families or the ones closest to us can be our biggest enemies." ...that's as real as it gets! Being out on your own will open all kinds of doors, both mental and concrete. I too am on a quest to distance myself from people who (swear they're looking out for me but) love to keep me down. I wish you the best with that... the kid will always give you a reason to smile... even after pissing you off 🙂 I promise.
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I just bought a car a few weeks ago. Next weekend I am moving into my own place me and my daughter! I feel accomplished! We don't have any furniture but I am happy just getting my independence back after goin back and forth with baby daddy! I got sales person of the month award for the month of september! Yes those are the good things! The bad me and my sisters are constantly fighting because i'm moving out and doing my own thing! I feel like nobody wants me to do good! Everyone wnts me to fail and depend on them for the rest of my life! I'm 30 with a one year old daughter don't I deserve this! My sister wants me to live wit her so I can help her with her bills! Not fair! I need my own!