Is he looking for something on the side?

I now found out he has a girlfriend, he was once married and divorced, but now lives with someone. He also has told me a few things that tells me he?s not happy with this one either, he seems to be embarrassed of her, I?ve seen her and she looks just like a man, walks like one, dresses like one, she?s very outdoorsy kind of girl, hiking, camping which he loves?but I guess he wishes he had a ?woman? who enjoyed doing all these things not a boy!
Anyhow, he?s show interest in me and well I don?t know what to think of it?! I?m just wondering if he?s looking for a little something on the side? Or more of a better soul mate?

I don't have any answer for you.I would just like to point out, he must have fancied the outdorsy type enough to start living with her in the first place.

To me it seems like either his taste has drastically changed since then b/c he now wishes for a "woman" as opposed to a "boy" OR he's just looking for a little variety to spice up his life maybe?

I don't think the first case is very likely, people don't change so easily...it's most likely to be the second case (but I maybe wrong).Now if that's okay with you then no problem, but if you're looking for soulmate material I'd ask you to be careful.It's always better to err on the side of caution.

No you see, he was married to a real "woman" once had two boys, but after he went with his now girlfriend and well SHE's very different, she likes the outdoor like him but she's not very womany... but he likes a feminine woman... not like a butch!

I just think he likes the fact that she's outdoorsy, but he wishes she was more a woman, feminine woman, pretty clothes, who can cook, make the house warm... you know what i mean?

this woman looks just LIKE a man, flat chest, walks like a man, has short short hair, no makeup, no frills! i think he misses that

I think he's fucking insane and lost. Avoid.

Well, you might have a point there, he might look for a different sort of woman when he wants to get married again.But are you sure you're reading his signals correctly?
Cancerians are known for being enigmatic...they're also very attached to the past.so just be careful and good luck!

he's a very very nice man, very high values, very fair, I think he just hasn't found the right one yet... "I think he's looking for a woman, he's missing a "woman's" touch! I don't think he'd play games with me, or play with my heart, hurt me on purpose... I can see that he truly likes me, anyhow I guess I'll wait and see what happens

He's also older than me, a 52 yearold... I don't think he's into "flings" ? what do you think?

I think that you shouldn't start anything romantic with him, until he's single (unmarried and not living with another female that's not his relative). Sometimes the answer is just that simple.

I agree with STD.

You think he isn't into flings but you've your doubts, otherwise you wouldn't feel the need to ask for anybody else's opinion.

Anyway, Seeing that he's 52,you might also want to take into account the mid life crisis factor...I've seen a few of those cases...not very nice.

I'm sorry for being so negative, it's just that you never know.

Yeah I agree with Sexually Transmitted Disease too... Opps I meant seizetheday 😉. Just kidding.

Yeah.. I don't mind being associated with other people's private parts.

you down with OPP? (yeah you know me!!)

Sorry.. had an early 90s moment.