Is it possible to love two men at the same time

I was just wonder is it a normal Cancer trait to be able to love two men at the same time.

I'm sure you love one more than the other.....and for different reasons.

uuuhh yeah, complex our sign is.. but it depends if one islacking something it's a human trait to look elsewhere for that extra zing, but i love my cancer they tend to ummmm,, show lots of affection,he he he

Posted by ReddmannScorch
uuuhh yeah, complex our sign is.. but it depends if one islacking something it's a human trait to look elsewhere for that extra zing, but i love my cancer they tend to ummmm,, show lots of affection,he he he

Yes we are very affectionate.

imma cancer cancer leo so i know,lol.

Posted by ReddmannScorch
imma cancer cancer leo so i know,lol.

Are you on the leo cusp or do you have a leo moon?

I'm not a cancer but I think it's possible to love two people at one time.

For plenty of reasons.

I never experienced being "in love" with two people.

With these emotions smdh there is no telling!

I once had to choose between lust vs love, McSteamy vs McDreamy. Then I grew up and married both of them and he is cancerian. 😄

Oooops didn't realize this question is for cancer girl. Sorry!

Posted by VirgoDragirl
I once had to choose between lust vs love, McSteamy vs McDreamy. Then I grew up and married both of them and he is cancerian. 😄

The good thing that I noticed about Cancer men is that they accept you as you are they don't try to change you. I had a Cancer ex-boyfriend who wanted to marry me I move half way across California with him, but i left him.

cancerleo u a hot chick,whoa!!!

Posted by ReddmannScorch
cancerleo u a hot chick,whoa!!!

Thanks

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Posted by canerleo101
I was just wonder is it a normal Cancer trait to be able to love two men at the same time.

u re representing a Leo trait here.

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I was surprised when a lot of the cancer women said no.

To the people who said no what if you are in love with one of them. And the other one you just love in an intensely passionate way. However, i could see my self having sex with both of them. (not a threesome or anything like that)

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Posted by canerleo101
To the people who said no what if you are in love with one of them. And the other one you just love in an intensely passionate way. However, i could see my self having sex with both of them. (not a threesome or anything like that)

u re a leo not that caner wouldnt sometimes trot a sideway path for the sake ofsomefling bing

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I get it, with cancer it would be a fling, no love involved.

u A FREAK cancerleo me likey!!!

Posted by ReddmannScorch
u A FREAK cancerleo me likey!!!

This is the first time i have ever felt this way about two men at the same time.

well let go ur inhibitions...let freedom reign or rain i say,lol

Shit. I'm lucky to be in love with one man. Two men is just asking for trouble. I don't know whether it's possible or not. I just know it ain't me. I'm a one-man woman who understands commitment is a choice and that you give up options when you commit.

Posted by Este8
Shit. I'm lucky to be in love with one man. Two men is just asking for trouble. I don't know whether it's possible or not. I just know it ain't me. I'm a one-man woman who understands commitment is a choice and that you give up options when you commit.

Well at this point I think that both of them are a lost cause. So I guess I'll just move forward and not back track.

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Posted by Este8
Shit. I'm lucky to be in love with one man. Two men is just asking for trouble. I don't know whether it's possible or not. I just know it ain't me. I'm a one-man woman who understands commitment is a choice and that you give up options when you commit.

Well at this point I think that both of them are a lost cause. So I guess I'll just move forward and not back track.

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Be patient. When it's right, you won't be in this dilemma and yeah more often than not when there's more than 1 in the picture it means "none of the above." When the man is right, you'll be clearing the decks for him. Just make sure he does the same for you. One heart. One womb. One love.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I can only see being in love with two men if i was bored with the relationship i was in.

so it's not love, but lust...

anyways its rare i love a man anyways.

I have dated several men but only loved three of them.

Posted by aurora
If you had that experience, to love more than one man at the same time, than it's possible. And no, it's not a cancer trait, maybe gemini? That doesn't mean that someone who has cancer sun or moon or whatever won't be at that situation.

personally, not only i can't love 2 men, i can't even date more than one man. I just can't fokus.

I always thought that cancer women were huge cheaters. Maybe i was wrong.

Posted by aurora
I don't know, maybe we are. If we were able to count cheaters all over the world, i'm sure we would have a winer.
but i think cheating is more complicated than to make its relation just to sun sign.

Oh, I thought some sign were more prone to cheating than others. For instance I once heard an astrologer say that it was not in a libra man nature to be with one partner. I have dated three libra men and have found this to be true in each case.

Posted by aurora
Ok then, i've never read on any site that cancers are prone to cheating.

I haven't either but I know two other cancers that have been cheaters.

I can at least speak for the women because that's what I have experienec with. The cancer lady I'm interested in definitely does not love 2 men or more at the same time. We had a huge incident that lead to our downfall but before that all happened she was clearly in love with this other dude. I guess they weren't in a committed relationship according to what she told me. We would go out on dates and have a good time but she never let me cross the line that the other dude got to cross. She told me it was because she didn't want to be fucking more than 1 dude at a time but I think it was because she was in love with him and wouldn't allow herself to love me or for me to love her in that way. She would let me hangout late with her, whine and dine her, make art together but i always got that "friendly" vibe from her. I think you will know if a cancer loves u based on how they treat u. they treat everyone with kindness but you will just know if they really love you like that. Love from a cancer woman...hmmmmmmmmmm.....seems like....oh, you cut yourself? Let me clean and bandage the cut, kiss it for you, make you some dinner with dessert and then put you to sleep by making passionate love to you while I make you forget about your cut.....and no love feels like...oh, you cut yourself...I'm sorry about that, you gotta watch those sharp edges. there's a first aid kit in the closet. I didn't realize this until it was to late and i was to far in

And I think the reason she was dating me while messing around with the other dude was because the due was a fucing total asshole fuckboy

Posted by japansbestkeptsecret
And I think the reason she was dating me while messing around with the other dude was because the due was a fucing total asshole fuckboy

So your saying that she didn't love you. In a way do you think that she was using you.

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Posted by aurora
If you had that experience, to love more than one man at the same time, than it's possible. And no, it's not a cancer trait, maybe gemini? That doesn't mean that someone who has cancer sun or moon or whatever won't be at that situation.

personally, not only i can't love 2 men, i can't even date more than one man. I just can't fokus.

I always thought that cancer women were huge cheaters. Maybe i was wrong.

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Wrong. Cancer women are really the mothers of the zodiac and tradition is very important to us. People of all signs cheat. Apparently Pisces are the biggest cheaters out there, not Cancers, but we're still talking about a small portion of the population so I would never say "all pisces cheat." Two of my three real and deep loves were pisces and I had no reason to believe either stepped out on me. Just saying.

Posted by japansbestkeptsecret
And I think the reason she was dating me while messing around with the other dude was because the due was a fucing total asshole fuckboy

Why would she even allow you to take her out spend time with you ect... If she knew that she would never allow herself to love you. Its sounds very selfish to me. My nice is a cancer she use to do this kind of stuff to men all of the time. I also have a close friend who would have these close boyfriend like relationships with men. But she would never allow herself to love these men because she had a husband.

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Posted by aurora
If you had that experience, to love more than one man at the same time, than it's possible. And no, it's not a cancer trait, maybe gemini? That doesn't mean that someone who has cancer sun or moon or whatever won't be at that situation.

personally, not only i can't love 2 men, i can't even date more than one man. I just can't fokus.

I always thought that cancer women were huge cheaters. Maybe i was wrong.

Wrong. Cancer women are really the mothers of the zodiac and tradition is very important to us. People of all signs cheat. Apparently Pisces are the biggest cheaters out there, not Cancers, but we're still talking about a small portion of the population so I would never say "all pisces cheat." Two of my three real and deep loves were pisces and I had no reason to believe either stepped out on me. Just saying.

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My cousin is a pisces and she has no problem cheating on her husband. Well these two cancer women that i know don't have kids. Maybe once they have children they will act more traditional.

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Posted by japansbestkeptsecret
And I think the reason she was dating me while messing around with the other dude was because the due was a fucing total asshole fuckboy

So your saying that she didn't love you. In a way do you think that she was using you.

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I used to think she was using me too until I saw more of her personality and thought through some things. She never really denied dates with me but I realized that she's just a super social person and really doesn't deny anyone of dates...male or female. I guess this is why she always made a big fuss about paying her own way.

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Posted by japansbestkeptsecret
And I think the reason she was dating me while messing around with the other dude was because the due was a fucing total asshole fuckboy

Why would she even allow you to take her out spend time with you ect... If she knew that she would never allow herself to love you. Its sounds very selfish to me. My nice is a cancer she use to do this kind of stuff to men all of the time. I also have a close friend who would have these close boyfriend like relationships with men. But she would never allow herself to love these men because she had a husband.

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This exactly what confused me. She saw me as a friend and I guess she saw it as friends hanging out. She never let me touch her in a inappropriate way. When I would come in for hugs she would back up. I would try to grab her booty and she would give me the evil look and tell me to never do it again or else she will never come out. I thought she was just playing hard to get.

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Posted by japansbestkeptsecret
And I think the reason she was dating me while messing around with the other dude was because the due was a fucing total asshole fuckboy

So your saying that she didn't love you. In a way do you think that she was using you.

I used to think she was using me to until I saw more of her personality and thought through some things. She never really denied dates with me but I realized that she's just a super social person and really doesn't deny anyone of dates...male or female. I guess this is why she always made a big fuss about paying her own way.

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I didn't mean that she was using you financial. I was talking about emotionally. Just from what you told me it seems like it was emotionally abusive to you.

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Posted by japansbestkeptsecret
And I think the reason she was dating me while messing around with the other dude was because the due was a fucing total asshole fuckboy

Why would she even allow you to take her out spend time with you ect... If she knew that she would never allow herself to love you. Its sounds very selfish to me. My nice is a cancer she use to do this kind of stuff to men all of the time. I also have a close friend who would have these close boyfriend like relationships with men. But she would never allow herself to love these men because she had a husband.

This exactly what confused me. She saw me as a friend and I guess she saw it as friends hanging out. She never let me touch her in a inappropriate way. When I would come in for hugs she would back up. I would try to grab her booty and she would give me the evil look and tell me to never do it again or else she will never come out. I thought she was just playing hard to get.

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This reminds me of this guy who was in the same shoes as you he acted as if he was in love with me. For years he would always offer for me to take all of his credit cards and buy what ever i wanted ect. I always refused. I never let him touch me but he was super in love with me for years. I finally just stopped talking to him all together because I felt bad.

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cancerleo101 she never led me on. It was me who kept trying to push her closer towards me. She always treated me more friendly like and always backed away (disappeared or told me she wasn't into me into me) when I pushed too hard for her love and affection. I was the one that kept pushing her. Times when I would take risks and push way too hard she would disappear and not speak to me for months at a time. Something told me she was just playing hard to get but really she was just generally a friendly person.