IS MY CANCER FRIEND JUST USING ME?

SRY,long story.
i dated a cancer back when we were liek 14 for a short while, we broke up jsut becuase, and we stayed firneds ever since. we had a love/hate kind of friendship, but we talked bout everything,but we were never affectionate. then one summer he got drunk n started tlelin me how much he loves me, and im his girl for life. and ever since, i got alittle closer to him. id go over to his house and we'd lie down together and watch movies, at this time i had someone. he made a move on me one day and when i went home he apologized. we didnt see much of eahocther. he got a gf ( a taurus aswell) and we didnt speak. to try n sum it up, we started tlakn again, and chilled, and one thing lead to another and we got intimate. after this he was being rude, and then called me to say his gf found out, n he never wnats to speak to me ever again, that im his past. and not to even bother calln him ,he wnats nothign to do with me. id dint contact him for the sake of my own relationship. but then i started contacting him,and hed tell me to stop claln him. then finally he started tlakn again. we discussed everythign that happened. didnt hear form him for a long time. thne i calle dhim, n we talked all day while he was at work. he asked me a million questions, all pretty mcuh sexual, and he kept aksing me why i wnat him, or why im tlkaing to him. or hwo was the sex etc. then he offered ot pik me up form school,i let him,. and he starts hittn on me. im telln him to stop. he says: cmamon just lil. i dont kno wut it is about u, but whenever im with u, i get all weird. and i said no.. we jsut firneds. and he said: cmamon, we always been alilmore than that n u kno it. thne after that we went for a wlak n he made me sit on his lap,he was touching me constantly, asking I WAnted to "do sumthing". and he was syaing things like: are u afraid im going to hurt u again? and im like: i kno u will. and he holds me and he slike: im losing to many frineds. and then i asked him if he cared bout me. he said: as a friend yes, i said thats it? he said: well considering the circumstances, thats all it can be. i said: and if there werent any circumstances? then he said : maybe. then we btoh went our seperate ways.. then the next day.. i get a msg form him saying: i was thinking and its not worth it for me to tlak to u, i dont wnat to see u no more.

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What a JERK!
He's not using you but he attempted to! ... and knowing he had hurt you and would hurt you again!

you should do this to him

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lol i kno i should want to kill him, every single one of my frineds believes hes just using me, but for some dman reaosn i liek to believe hes just protecting himself. DAMMIT, I WANNA LET GO!!!!!!

yah, he doenst give a shit bout me ne more, not liek he used to.. ic alled him after i got that msg and im like : wtf was that about? n he slike: i was doing alot fo thinking, and my gf is soooo much better than u, so i dont think we should chill or tlka on the phone ne more, we cna still talk on msn. and im like: why— and he slike: u kno when it hit me? when u were aksing me taht quetsions, i relasied that ur alreday gettn the wrong impression, u always think we will be more than just frineds. but it will never ahppen, cuz i love my gf soo much more.

u kno wut, after writing that........ i think its pretty clear. im jus a friend, n the only time he will wanna egt together is if hes feeln lonely/horny.

yeah i agree with u mercinAries

he's not worth your energy. he's a dog and he's trying to lower your self esteem so you'll feel almost obligated to sleep with him. forget about this douche.

Even i am a better cancer than that one. BOOOOYA

A FRIEND TOLD ME: YES HE WNATS SEX, BUT HE ALSO MAY AHVE STRONG FEELINGS THAT HE CANNOT COMMIT TO, AND/OR IS SURPRESSING.
hes a jerk becuase it makes it easier for him to not have to deal with his feelings.
hes insecure.

I BELIEVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!