taurusgirl9000
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It's over
You guys weren't even together. And if you were, you were busy cheating on him with multiple guys anyways.
Posted by taurusgirl9000
I have posted a lot about this Cancer guy to the forum because he confused me so much.
Recently he flat out lied to me in an attempt to shift responsibility for his past actions. He told me that I had said and did things that I 100% did not. (He told me that I was the one that was unsure about a relationship, that he had waited and waited for me for over a year because of that, that I told him at one point I wanted to date other people [that's a hard "no" captain], etc.). He knows damn well that HE was the one that wasn't ready, that he never told me he was interested in dating me until JANUARY of this year, and that I NEVER said I wanted to date other people... When I confronted him about it, he backed off and admitted that he made it up...
"I don't understand. Why did you do that?" I said.
"I was angry and I just said things that weren't true," he said.
This all came about because I shared with him that I felt scared he would pull away from me again, and I wasn't sure how we should continue.
Uh, wtf? This is a first for me, I've never had a guy flat out lie like that, especially about something I could disprove so easily!... What really bothers me is shifting the blame and not accepting responsibility for his behavior. That is probably my number 1 no-no with people, because I have a family member that did the exact same thing to me.
In any case, not only are we DONE, I'm not even sure I want to speak to him based on how he treated me in this argument.... He keeps texting me apologizing and saying he's stupid, he's a jerk... I still haven't texted him back.
let him suffer sus.. we need that sometimes to get us out of our bad mood.
They say Taurus and Cancer is a good match, but I beg to differ. The hot/cold/sure/unsure/vague stuff get old quickly, and truly is not worth the headache or heartache.
He'll probably come back. You sound like you might not be as done as you say. Either way, good luck to you.
I'm talking to a Cap now. It's a huge difference. There was no vagueness. I've known him for a couple years. Once he found out that I'm completely single, he told me he wants to court me. Clear. No bs games. It's refreshing.
He'll probably come back. You sound like you might not be as done as you say. Either way, good luck to you.
I'm talking to a Cap now. It's a huge difference. There was no vagueness. I've known him for a couple years. Once he found out that I'm completely single, he told me he wants to court me. Clear. No bs games. It's refreshing.
Posted by TaurusFlower22I was with a Cap for 8 years. It began so easily and ended only because of outside circumstances beyond our control. I think Cap and Taurus is a great team. Glad you're moving on :x
They say Taurus and Cancer is a good match, but I beg to differ. The hot/cold/sure/unsure/vague stuff get old quickly, and truly is not worth the headache or heartache.
He'll probably come back. You sound like you might not be as done as you say. Either way, good luck to you.
I'm talking to a Cap now. It's a huge difference. There was no vagueness. I've known him for a couple years. Once he found out that I'm completely single, he told me he wants to court me. Clear. No bs games. It's refreshing.
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This all came about because I shared with him that I felt scared he would pull away from me again, and I wasn't sure how we should continue.
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