it's all too obvious now. no tossing around ''i love you'' yet but suggesting things like moving in together, using his home loan to BUY the house we are to move into, and purposefully buying that house in the same neighborhood as my work... yeah. i'd say he's pretty serious about me. i can be oblivious sometimes but that is just heavy. he also wants me around constantly and has admitted that he doesn't want me to see anyone else.
i know the time has come. we are nearing the point of ultimatum (he even said he couldn't do the fwb forever) and i'm still undecided. i have my reasons but i don't feel like writing it all out. i'm usually very decisive so this is quite confounding for me. i wanna figure things out within myself asap so as not to lead his sensitive heart on. i'll probably tell him all of this matter-of-factly like i always do. at least he won't be left wondering...
Well dear this is good news then!!! Im sure your heart will find the right answer I hope everything works out fine for the two of you..!! 🙂
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it's all too obvious now. no tossing around ''i love you'' yet but suggesting things like moving in together, using his home loan to BUY the house we are to move into, and purposefully buying that house in the same neighborhood as my work... yeah. i'd say he's pretty serious about me. i can be oblivious sometimes but that is just heavy. he also wants me around constantly and has admitted that he doesn't want me to see anyone else.
i know the time has come. we are nearing the point of ultimatum (he even said he couldn't do the fwb forever) and i'm still undecided. i have my reasons but i don't feel like writing it all out. i'm usually very decisive so this is quite confounding for me. i wanna figure things out within myself asap so as not to lead his sensitive heart on. i'll probably tell him all of this matter-of-factly like i always do. at least he won't be left wondering...