Kiss on the forehead

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TrueTaur57
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I am Taurus and he is a Cancer sign.

We saw each other for two weeks in November and he was the most caring and romantic guy I have met so far, then I was on vacation for five weeks (dec-Jan).

He called it off during my vacation as he was not fully satisfied with sex we had in those two weeks.

I returned and spent a night at his place, we had anal sex (it was fun) but he mentioned how he is scared of commitment, I called it off. I am looking for serious, not playing around.

I did not talk to him for whole February. But I texted him to come for dinner ( I don't know why) at my place yesterday and I was pretty scared about what is going to happen, he said he will be there for dinner.

He hugged me and ate what I cooked. And I really want to know what his behavior could mean. We did not have any serious talks. Just watched tv and ate. He kept on asking me if I am okay and I said yes. It felt that he wants to sit closer but I did not want to throw myself on him (what if he is seeing someone) so I had my distance. He did touch me hands and kept his hand on my thighs occasionally, constantly looking at me, in a loving way but I did not react. He praised my food few times.

While leaving he hugged me and it was a very long hug and he kissed me on my forehead. His touch gives me lot of sensations but I don't want to do anything if he does not want to have anything serious. Plus, he is not satisfied with sex, I felt rejected. He said he would like to come over again if I cook again.

Gosh, what should I do! I am 27, he is 29.

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I’d like to derail this thread a bit and ask why women do this? I think this man is clear. Am I the only one who thinks he’s clear or this woman has a language barrier of some sort and not understanding?
I kinda was thinking the same thing. wondering why women do this to themselves and why they don't just move on.

Although to me he's not being clear, but it would be clear to me that if a man is causing confusion or not making you feel secure, then you should find someone else.
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I’d like to derail this thread a bit and ask why women do this? I think this man is clear. Am I the only one who thinks he’s clear or this woman has a language barrier of some sort and not understanding?
I kinda was thinking the same thing. wondering why women do this to themselves and why they don't just move on.

Although to me he's not being clear, but it would be clear to me that if a man is causing confusion or not making you feel secure, then you should find someone else.
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No, this man is crystal clear as to where he stands with her. If she wants to set her hopes up and entertain him, that’s her prerogative.

Of course, he will take what he can get. If someone wants to give me a present after I’ve told them that I’m not looking for a relationship (with them that is 😏), I’ll take the present if it’s not of high monetary value.
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Posted by aquarius09
I’d like to derail this thread a bit and ask why women do this? I think this man is clear. Am I the only one who thinks he’s clear or this woman has a language barrier of some sort and not understanding?
I kinda was thinking the same thing. wondering why women do this to themselves and why they don't just move on.

Although to me he's not being clear, but it would be clear to me that if a man is causing confusion or not making you feel secure, then you should find someone else.
No, this man is crystal clear as to where he stands with her. If she wants to set her hopes up and entertain him, that’s her prerogative.

Of course, he will take what he can get. If someone wants to give me a present after I’ve told them that I’m not looking for a relationship (with them that is 😏), I’ll take the present if it’s not of high monetary value.

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You are correct. Had to go back and re read. It's right at the top. Thanks for checking me follow aqua.

I still think he shouldn't take advantage of her stupidity. I don't like people who prey on the weak.

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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by STILL
Posted by aquarius09
I’d like to derail this thread a bit and ask why women do this? I think this man is clear. Am I the only one who thinks he’s clear or this woman has a language barrier of some sort and not understanding?
I kinda was thinking the same thing. wondering why women do this to themselves and why they don't just move on.

Although to me he's not being clear, but it would be clear to me that if a man is causing confusion or not making you feel secure, then you should find someone else.
No, this man is crystal clear as to where he stands with her. If she wants to set her hopes up and entertain him, that’s her prerogative.

Of course, he will take what he can get. If someone wants to give me a present after I’ve told them that I’m not looking for a relationship (with them that is 😏), I’ll take the present if it’s not of high monetary value.


I still think he shouldn't take advantage of her stupidity. I don't like people who prey on the weak.

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+1000 on this sentiment. Ironically, in my Aqua moon video I emphasized this point that the strong should not oppress the weak. Where is your moon?

Not everyone in this world has integrity and do right by others. Unfortunately, you gotta protect yourself...and your heart.

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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by STILL
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by STILL
Posted by aquarius09
I’d like to derail this thread a bit and ask why women do this? I think this man is clear. Am I the only one who thinks he’s clear or this woman has a language barrier of some sort and not understanding?
I kinda was thinking the same thing. wondering why women do this to themselves and why they don't just move on.

Although to me he's not being clear, but it would be clear to me that if a man is causing confusion or not making you feel secure, then you should find someone else.
No, this man is crystal clear as to where he stands with her. If she wants to set her hopes up and entertain him, that’s her prerogative.

Of course, he will take what he can get. If someone wants to give me a present after I’ve told them that I’m not looking for a relationship (with them that is 😏), I’ll take the present if it’s not of high monetary value.


I still think he shouldn't take advantage of her stupidity. I don't like people who prey on the weak.


+1000 on this sentiment. Ironically, in my Aqua moon video I emphasized this point that the strong should not oppress the weak. Where is your moon?

Not everyone in this world has integrity and do right by others. Unfortunately, you gotta protect yourself...and your heart.

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I believe it was my upbringing not my moon. Most people from my moon sign have no moral compass.

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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by STILL
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by STILL
Posted by aquarius09
I’d like to derail this thread a bit and ask why women do this? I think this man is clear. Am I the only one who thinks he’s clear or this woman has a language barrier of some sort and not understanding?
I kinda was thinking the same thing. wondering why women do this to themselves and why they don't just move on.

Although to me he's not being clear, but it would be clear to me that if a man is causing confusion or not making you feel secure, then you should find someone else.
No, this man is crystal clear as to where he stands with her. If she wants to set her hopes up and entertain him, that’s her prerogative.

Of course, he will take what he can get. If someone wants to give me a present after I’ve told them that I’m not looking for a relationship (with them that is 😏), I’ll take the present if it’s not of high monetary value.


I still think he shouldn't take advantage of her stupidity. I don't like people who prey on the weak.


+1000 on this sentiment. Ironically, in my Aqua moon video I emphasized this point that the strong should not oppress the weak. Where is your moon?

Not everyone in this world has integrity and do right by others. Unfortunately, you gotta protect yourself...and your heart.


I believe it was my upbringing not my moon. Most people from my moon sign have no moral compass.

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Those people are the dark side of your moon. The good side are the ones I’m friends with.
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by STILL
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by STILL
Posted by aquarius09
I’d like to derail this thread a bit and ask why women do this? I think this man is clear. Am I the only one who thinks he’s clear or this woman has a language barrier of some sort and not understanding?
I kinda was thinking the same thing. wondering why women do this to themselves and why they don't just move on.

Although to me he's not being clear, but it would be clear to me that if a man is causing confusion or not making you feel secure, then you should find someone else.
No, this man is crystal clear as to where he stands with her. If she wants to set her hopes up and entertain him, that’s her prerogative.

Of course, he will take what he can get. If someone wants to give me a present after I’ve told them that I’m not looking for a relationship (with them that is 😏), I’ll take the present if it’s not of high monetary value.


I still think he shouldn't take advantage of her stupidity. I don't like people who prey on the weak.


+1000 on this sentiment. Ironically, in my Aqua moon video I emphasized this point that the strong should not oppress the weak. Where is your moon?

Not everyone in this world has integrity and do right by others. Unfortunately, you gotta protect yourself...and your heart.


I believe it was my upbringing not my moon. Most people from my moon sign have no moral compass.


Those people are the dark side of your moon. The good side are the ones I’m friends with.

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Trying to understand why we had to know about the anal sex...and why we had to know it was fun?
Because the anal didn’t make him change his mind. LOL


Guess it wasn't fun for him. Lol
Should have stuck to titty fuck with a Cancer man.

Just kidding! Don’t do that, OP!

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lol

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so the word anal is not sensored on this site? lol

it means he sees you as sex , nothing more. I dont see and cancer guy telling someone they like they're not satisfied with sex

it's not a transaction, one night stands dont even file a sex complaint

and he said he doesn't do commitment and you guys are having sex.

sex without commitment ? simple, f buddy ya?
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NEVER have anal without commitment girl!

unless you for sure don't want to be taken seriously as a potential gf.

sounds like he is using you....for sex and company

thinks you are cute but not cute/hot enough to be his gf

doesn't want to hurt you or feel like an asshole so is trying to be tender towards you

but really doesn't respect you.



THATS RIdiculous

So vanilla sex until commit

So guys respect on vanilla sex

Pst

Seen plenty commit with wild sex prior to the talk.

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actually i'm even an advocate for no sex until commitment

super old school

just so everything is clear

women get hurt because of mix matched expectations.

if a guy only wants sex and she wants commitment and that 's known from early on

they can both move on and save time

no feelings hurt
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Posted by aquarius09
I’d like to derail this thread a bit and ask why women do this? I think this man is clear. Am I the only one who thinks he’s clear or this woman has a language barrier of some sort and not understanding?
I kinda was thinking the same thing. wondering why women do this to themselves and why they don't just move on.

Although to me he's not being clear, but it would be clear to me that if a man is causing confusion or not making you feel secure, then you should find someone else.
No, this man is crystal clear as to where he stands with her. If she wants to set her hopes up and entertain him, that’s her prerogative.

Of course, he will take what he can get. If someone wants to give me a present after I’ve told them that I’m not looking for a relationship (with them that is 😏), I’ll take the present if it’s not of high monetary value.


I still think he shouldn't take advantage of her stupidity. I don't like people who prey on the weak.


+1000 on this sentiment. Ironically, in my Aqua moon video I emphasized this point that the strong should not oppress the weak. Where is your moon?

Not everyone in this world has integrity and do right by others. Unfortunately, you gotta protect yourself...and your heart.


I believe it was my upbringing not my moon. Most people from my moon sign have no moral compass.

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So what is your moonsign and what is his ?