libra confused over cancer

am a female libra goin out wit a male cancer...the relationship seems fine btu now it tends to get me more and more confused...one day he'll be all over me..and then the nxt,he'll leave me hangin and the reason for it is that he is confused bout himself...he goes on and off...u knw wat i mean?...and yeah,he's younger than me..it goes on one day fine then the nxt i wont even hear from him..we've been out for 10 mnths now,i just dunno wat he wants sumtimes..or am i just being needy..i dunno wat to do..am i suppose to jst let him be/pretend nuthing is up?..hmmmm,am really happy most of the time,its just that its tiring wen it goes up and down like dis...am lost...any advice?

the cancer is 20 and me 23...yh,been goin out for almost a year now..

he's fine sumtimes..he's all over me..but recently he's just abit distant saying that he is confused bout himself...bcz of his confusion,he's makin me confused...then he starts saying that he don't deserve me and all..

is it cz he's scared /...i dunno..

thanx furryleo for the input...appreciate it..

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Nah, the real reason he's acting like that is because you're not giving up that kitty. And he's getting tired of that bullbutter and thinks you're just milking him for all of his money and kind heartedness without giving anything in return.

LOL! Crazy, pure crazy. Teddybear, do you really think he would keep trying. If she gave him the kitty all day, 24/7 he would think she was easy. She was too easy to get without being challenging and he would disappear on him anyways.