Lost with a Young Cancer Male

Hiya~ Could use some help with a new Cancer guy I thought I was dating. I'm a Piscean woman, and he's a younger Cancer guy I met online. We went out for 3 dates and he treated me so sweetly, but platonically. I waited until date 3 to ask him why he didn't want to kiss me. He did, then things heated up pretty quickly from there. We did not have sex, but I allowed him to spend the night as it was very late and he hadn't slept in a long time. He was fine in the morning, but a little overwhelmed I think. (I'm older and may have been too sensual with him...he seemed a bit inexperienced.) Needless to say, he withdrew quickly. No text, so I waited a couple of days and asked him if everything was ok. He said he was sick. I let it go, waited a couple more days to see how he was, again he said he was still sick and thinking about going to the doctor. I replied nicely just saying I hoped he got well soon, and I missed his sunshine. That was last Thursday and have not heard anything at all from him. What did I do wrong?

"He seemed inexperienced," no no no sweetheart. Us cancers know what we are doing. Shy is the better term. If we like you or want you to be ours forever, our nurturing side takes over. We cant help it. Thats where the sweet stuff comes from. Him being sick sounds like an excuse. On your 3rd date you started to make decisions for him which could of scared him off. I couldn't tell you as a cancer man myself why he's being distant. But it could be things just started going too fast for his comfort zone. some of the best spiritual, emotional and physical connections with women I've ever had where with pieces ladys. That could of scared him off as well. Every cancer is different. I just go with the flow and live life like I love it........

We Cancers are shy, maybe he was intimidated .He need to be a mature crab and suck it up.

Cannedcappie88: Thank you for the advice. But....coming from another with my Moon in Scorpio, you sound like you may just have the experience to back up your claims: "no no no sweetheart. Us cancers know what we are doing." My Cancer guy is just a 26 year old Southern born boy, who's had a rough life. That rough life has led him to be convinced that only an older woman (he prefers 40 plus, to quote him), who also has to be (yeah, I know about Cancer's weird "thing" about what they want...exactly) a sophisticated, well-educated, classy, beautiful, vibrant, RED-HEADED, single, never-married, silly woman. Hmmm, who also loves animals. (I could actually go on, but I won't). He, in all his wildest dreams never thought he'd meet one...but he did. Me. So now, can you kinda see my predicament? Or am I being too Piscean and too vague? 😉

Both, Too Piscean and Too vague, But im a moonkid so I understand it all. We do like our women to be smart, sillyand cute. You got me there. I love my puppy's and you better as well =; By 24 years old I started taking my relationships more serious and by then I knew what I wanted. It sounds more like your cancer is holding on to his past relations and being hesitant. I have placements in my chart that allow me to learn and walk away from old relationships more easily then most. Theirs so much other things involved with this kinda stuff. The way you were raised as a cancer is huge. Good relations with mom and dad equals good boyfriend. Bad equals clingy and them wanting to be babyied. I'm the sooner one rather than later one. My mom is a Virgo and dad's a pieces. Very supportive loving and kick you in the ass type parents. That rough life part could be difficult for him too overcome.

He sounds inexperienced and scared

Yes, his father abandoned them. That's all he has to say.

Posted by Cannedcappie88
Both, Too Piscean and Too vague, But im a moonkid so I understand it all. We do like our women to be smart, sillyand cute. You got me there. I love my puppy's and you better as well =; By 24 years old I started taking my relationships more serious and by then I knew what I wanted. It sounds more like your cancer is holding on to his past relations and being hesitant. I have placements in my chart that allow me to learn and walk away from old relationships more easily then most. Theirs so much other things involved with this kinda stuff. The way you were raised as a cancer is huge. Good relations with mom and dad equals good boyfriend. Bad equals clingy and them wanting to be babyied. I'm the sooner one rather than later one. My mom is a Virgo and dad's a pieces. Very supportive loving and kick you in the ass type parents. That rough life part could be difficult for him too overcome.

Wow. You sound so smart, for your age! Honestly, his lack of aggression did it. I need to feel hunted, or I don't feel it.

I think you did what i do from time to time. Read fast ask questions later. Im 29 at the moment. 24+5=29 but you already knew that. My birthday is opposite of Christmas so im pure evil.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
How old are you.? Maybe he needs it to slow down

I think you guys are incompatible

Yes, I think you're right. Hate to admit it but I think the age difference (not just a few years) is a big part of it. I just wanted to have fun. Oh well, now I know better.

Posted by Cannedcappie88
I think you did what i do from time to time. Read fast ask questions later. Im 29 at the moment. 24+5=29 but you already knew that. My birthday is opposite of Christmas so im pure evil.

Did not see where you mentioned your age, but you still are pretty young to me. (I normally won't even consider a guy who is not at least in his early 30's.) But, you do bring a more relevant perspective. I appreciate that, and you sound like you have your life together. But I think my adventure with this Cancer guy is over. I texted him to see how he was doing health-wise and got no reply. Me, getting sick of this crap, (I hate being ignored. Wonder if that is a Pisces thing?) so I basically told him I enjoyed our time together and wished him luck. This has been going on for over 2 weeks. Our measly 3 dates together were very nice, and I liked him, but no one is worth this aggravation. In any new relationship, both people should be on their very best behavior. If this was his best, then that's terrible. As for your birthday....you are too funny! Never heard of a birthdate opposite of Christmas being evil. There's that silly Cancerian sense of humor....

He doesn’t seem inexperienced he just doesn’t seem interested in you.

Posted by OneKnight
I think he was gay.

Ha! Highly, I mean highly unlikely. He totally was ready to have sex with me, I just told him no. If anything, I believe I am TOO MUCH woman for him.

Posted by pinkbird03
He doesn’t seem inexperienced he just doesn’t seem interested in you.

The reason I say inexperienced is because he was quite taken aback by my kissing....he was not very good at it, but very willing to learn! I know he liked me a lot. I think as another Cancer guy here said, I went too fast on the 3rd date and freaked him out. I'll take that blame, and learn from my mistakes and move on.

Posted by HearttofTopaz
Title sounds like a bad porno

Lol!

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Posted by Cannedcappie88
I think you did what i do from time to time. Read fast ask questions later. Im 29 at the moment. 24+5=29 but you already knew that. My birthday is opposite of Christmas so im pure evil.

Did not see where you mentioned your age, but you still are pretty young to me. (I normally won't even consider a guy who is not at least in his early 30's.) But, you do bring a more relevant perspective. I appreciate that, and you sound like you have your life together. But I think my adventure with this Cancer guy is over. I texted him to see how he was doing health-wise and got no reply. Me, getting sick of this crap, (I hate being ignored. Wonder if that is a Pisces thing?) so I basically told him I enjoyed our time together and wished him luck. This has been going on for over 2 weeks. Our measly 3 dates together were very nice, and I liked him, but no one is worth this aggravation. In any new relationship, both people should be on their very best behavior. If this was his best, then that's terrible. As for your birthday....you are too funny! Never heard of a birthdate opposite of Christmas being evil. There's that silly Cancerian sense of humor....

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I'm happy too have helped you out a bit...

Being ignored bothers the living hell outta me. Its a water sign thing and or our Scorpio moons kicking in for us that wants them too call or text back so we can tell them to go to hell...politely of course. Lol no eff that burn ahole haha....

Your correct, my life is pretty solid at this time. There's some things I wanna change but it takes time, which I'm ok with. I'm a crab, we go slow in life matters anyways.

I think you were too nice too your canny kid. Bring out those moon sign stingers 😉 he'll probably try too come back now you told him too eff off. We like second chances and all, but no, just no. There's something else I wanted too add but I forgot. I really hope you meet a good cancer. Believe me when I say we're awesomely lovey dovey sweethearts. Where have you been all my life?? Just sweet shit all day everyday.

Posted by HearttofTopaz
Title sounds like a bad porno

Porno isnt fun without a bad title bossgirl 🤣

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Posted by pinkbird03
He doesn’t seem inexperienced he just doesn’t seem interested in you.

The reason I say inexperienced is because he was quite taken aback by my kissing....he was not very good at it, but very willing to learn! I know he liked me a lot. I think as another Cancer guy here said, I went too fast on the 3rd date and freaked him out. I'll take that blame, and learn from my mistakes and move on.

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Cancer men love to go fast. They love the neediness and clinginess of a relationship only if they really like you. He’s not texting you anymore, which is a major sign of not being interested. Also, if you felt he was taken back by your kisses, it’s probably because he didn’t enjoy kissing you. Now it’s possible he just doesn’t like you, but it’s also possible he’s still in love with another girl and doesn’t want to move on yet. Regardless, it’s not likely he’s coming back to you any time soon. Sorry.

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Posted by pinkbird03
He doesn’t seem inexperienced he just doesn’t seem interested in you.

The reason I say inexperienced is because he was quite taken aback by my kissing....he was not very good at it, but very willing to learn! I know he liked me a lot. I think as another Cancer guy here said, I went too fast on the 3rd date and freaked him out. I'll take that blame, and learn from my mistakes and move on.

Cancer men love to go fast. They love the neediness and clinginess of a relationship only if they really like you. He’s not texting you anymore, which is a major sign of not being interested. Also, if you felt he was taken back by your kisses, it’s probably because he didn’t enjoy kissing you. Now it’s possible he just doesn’t like you, but it’s also possible he’s still in love with another girl and doesn’t want to move on yet. Regardless, it’s not likely he’s coming back to you any time soon. Sorry.

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I think you did what i do from time to time. Read fast ask questions later. Im 29 at the moment. 24+5=29 but you already knew that. My birthday is opposite of Christmas so im pure evil.

Did not see where you mentioned your age, but you still are pretty young to me. (I normally won't even consider a guy who is not at least in his early 30's.) But, you do bring a more relevant perspective. I appreciate that, and you sound like you have your life together. But I think my adventure with this Cancer guy is over. I texted him to see how he was doing health-wise and got no reply. Me, getting sick of this crap, (I hate being ignored. Wonder if that is a Pisces thing?) so I basically told him I enjoyed our time together and wished him luck. This has been going on for over 2 weeks. Our measly 3 dates together were very nice, and I liked him, but no one is worth this aggravation. In any new relationship, both people should be on their very best behavior. If this was his best, then that's terrible. As for your birthday....you are too funny! Never heard of a birthdate opposite of Christmas being evil. There's that silly Cancerian sense of humor....

I'm happy too have helped you out a bit...

Being ignored bothers the living hell outta me. Its a water sign thing and or our Scorpio moons kicking in for us that wants them too call or text back so we can tell them to go to hell...politely of course. Lol no eff that burn ahole haha....

Your correct, my life is pretty solid at this time. There's some things I wanna change but it takes time, which I'm ok with. I'm a crab, we go slow in life matters anyways.

I think you were too nice too your canny kid. Bring out those moon sign stingers 😉 he'll probably try too come back now you told him too eff off. We like second chances and all, but no, just no. There's something else I wanted too add but I forgot. I really hope you meet a good cancer. Believe me when I say we're awesomely lovey dovey sweethearts. Where have you been all my life?? Just sweet shit all day everyday.

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Wow. Some of that was very confusing to me. That "canny kid" use to confuse me a lot. Sure hope that's not a Cancer thing. That would suck. And yeah....he said in his online profile exactly that he was "lovey dovey". What a coincidence. Never did get to the real lovey dovey part of him. Wonder if it's a ruse of some kind...

I couldn't be mean to him. He's too innocent. If he were a real a-hole, believe me...those pinchers, with a dash of poison would be at his throat in an instant.

For now, I don't think I have the time to go out and find another Cancer guy. Strange things happen with me. Suddenly an old fellow merman Piscean is trying to swim back into my life. Odd things like that ever happen to you? This whole Scorpio moon thing is new to me. Of course, I find it fascinating.

Posted by MysteriousMermaid
Cannedcappie88: Thank you for the advice. But....coming from another with my Moon in Scorpio, you sound like you may just have the experience to back up your claims: "no no no sweetheart. Us cancers know what we are doing." My Cancer guy is just a 26 year old Southern born boy, who's had a rough life. That rough life has led him to be convinced that only an older woman (he prefers 40 plus, to quote him), who also has to be (yeah, I know about Cancer's weird "thing" about what they want...exactly) a sophisticated, well-educated, classy, beautiful, vibrant, RED-HEADED, single, never-married, silly woman. Hmmm, who also loves animals. (I could actually go on, but I won't). He, in all his wildest dreams never thought he'd meet one...but he did. Me. So now, can you kinda see my predicament? Or am I being too Piscean and too vague? 😉

Just STFU and get your old ass older man! Mermaid...my ass

Posted by MysteriousMermaid
Yes, his father abandoned them. That's all he has to say.

That’s why 90% of men are impotents?

Common!

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
How old are you.? Maybe he needs it to slow down

I think you guys are incompatible

You think? 😂😂💦💦🤣

Posted by OneKnight
I think he was gay.

He was? And now he will turn straight?

Lmao

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Posted by OneKnight
I think he was gay.

Ha! Highly, I mean highly unlikely. He totally was ready to have sex with me, I just told him no. If anything, I believe I am TOO MUCH woman for him.

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Too much woman? Like you have 2 vaginas or more?

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Posted by pinkbird03
He doesn’t seem inexperienced he just doesn’t seem interested in you.

The reason I say inexperienced is because he was quite taken aback by my kissing....he was not very good at it, but very willing to learn! I know he liked me a lot. I think as another Cancer guy here said, I went too fast on the 3rd date and freaked him out. I'll take that blame, and learn from my mistakes and move on.

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IF he likes you a lot...you did helloova job to kill it!

Are you narcissistic person with crazy high selfesteem and not such a good life understanding? Maybe sociopath? I bet!

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Posted by Cannedcappie88

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Posted by Cannedcappie88
I think you did what i do from time to time. Read fast ask questions later. Im 29 at the moment. 24+5=29 but you already knew that. My birthday is opposite of Christmas so im pure evil.

Did not see where you mentioned your age, but you still are pretty young to me. (I normally won't even consider a guy who is not at least in his early 30's.) But, you do bring a more relevant perspective. I appreciate that, and you sound like you have your life together. But I think my adventure with this Cancer guy is over. I texted him to see how he was doing health-wise and got no reply. Me, getting sick of this crap, (I hate being ignored. Wonder if that is a Pisces thing?) so I basically told him I enjoyed our time together and wished him luck. This has been going on for over 2 weeks. Our measly 3 dates together were very nice, and I liked him, but no one is worth this aggravation. In any new relationship, both people should be on their very best behavior. If this was his best, then that's terrible. As for your birthday....you are too funny! Never heard of a birthdate opposite of Christmas being evil. There's that silly Cancerian sense of humor....

I'm happy too have helped you out a bit...

Being ignored bothers the living hell outta me. Its a water sign thing and or our Scorpio moons kicking in for us that wants them too call or text back so we can tell them to go to hell...politely of course. Lol no eff that burn ahole haha....

Your correct, my life is pretty solid at this time. There's some things I wanna change but it takes time, which I'm ok with. I'm a crab, we go slow in life matters anyways.

I think you were too nice too your canny kid. Bring out those moon sign stingers 😉 he'll probably try too come back now you told him too eff off. We like second chances and all, but no, just no. There's something else I wanted too add but I forgot. I really hope you meet a good cancer. Believe me when I say we're awesomely lovey dovey sweethearts. Where have you been all my life?? Just sweet shit all day everyday.

Wow. Some of that was very confusing to me. That "canny kid" use to confuse me a lot. Sure hope that's not a Cancer thing. That would suck. And yeah....he said in his online profile exactly that he was "lovey dovey". What a coincidence. Never did get to the real lovey dovey part of him. Wonder if it's a ruse of some kind...

I couldn't be mean to him. He's too innocent. If he were a real a-hole, believe me...those pinchers, with a dash of poison would be at his throat in an instant.

For now, I don't think I have the time to go out and find another Cancer guy. Strange things happen with me. Suddenly an old fellow merman Piscean is trying to swim back into my life. Odd things like that ever happen to you? This whole Scorpio moon thing is new to me. Of course, I find it fascinating.

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Why do I feel like shooting myself?

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Posted by MysteriousMermaid
Yes, his father abandoned them. That's all he has to say.

That’s why 90% of men are impotents?

Common!

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Idiot!

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MysteriousMermaid
Yes, his father abandoned them. That's all he has to say.

That’s why 90% of men are impotents?

Common!

Idiot!

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You are old ass narsisstic sociopath who need to find a website where they cam themselves because they think they kiss and fuck good! And most of them ugly, fat and fuck fat and ugly!

Doesn’t stop them from broadcasting! Whew! Mermaid...lmao!

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MysteriousMermaid
Yes, his father abandoned them. That's all he has to say.

That’s why 90% of men are impotents?

Common!

Idiot!

You are old ass narsisstic sociopath who need to find a website where they cam themselves because they think they kiss and fuck good! And most of them ugly, fat and fuck fat and ugly!

Doesn’t stop them from broadcasting! Whew! Mermaid...lmao!

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Funny. I was thinking about doing that. And no. I am not fat and ugly. Quite the opposite. Whoopsies! There I go broadcasting again.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MysteriousMermaid
Yes, his father abandoned them. That's all he has to say.

That’s why 90% of men are impotents?

Common!

Idiot!

You are old ass narsisstic sociopath who need to find a website where they cam themselves because they think they kiss and fuck good! And most of them ugly, fat and fuck fat and ugly!

Doesn’t stop them from broadcasting! Whew! Mermaid...lmao!

Funny. I was thinking about doing that. And no. I am not fat and ugly. Quite the opposite. Whoopsies! There I go broadcasting again.

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The policy here...picture or you ARE fat and ugly that’s why boyz running away from your sloppy kisses! 🤢

Dunno whats Genitali's... oups Gemitati s problem... missing genitals probably.

Keep your tail up Mermaid! Most cancer men, especially young ones are still total babies and immature. You need a real man (not talking of his age). Maybe with some earth energy?

Posted by Cannedcappie88

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Posted by Cannedcappie88
I think you did what i do from time to time. Read fast ask questions later. Im 29 at the moment. 24+5=29 but you already knew that. My birthday is opposite of Christmas so im pure evil.

Did not see where you mentioned your age, but you still are pretty young to me. (I normally won't even consider a guy who is not at least in his early 30's.) But, you do bring a more relevant perspective. I appreciate that, and you sound like you have your life together. But I think my adventure with this Cancer guy is over. I texted him to see how he was doing health-wise and got no reply. Me, getting sick of this crap, (I hate being ignored. Wonder if that is a Pisces thing?) so I basically told him I enjoyed our time together and wished him luck. This has been going on for over 2 weeks. Our measly 3 dates together were very nice, and I liked him, but no one is worth this aggravation. In any new relationship, both people should be on their very best behavior. If this was his best, then that's terrible. As for your birthday....you are too funny! Never heard of a birthdate opposite of Christmas being evil. There's that silly Cancerian sense of humor....

I'm happy too have helped you out a bit...

Being ignored bothers the living hell outta me. Its a water sign thing and or our Scorpio moons kicking in for us that wants them too call or text back so we can tell them to go to hell...politely of course. Lol no eff that burn ahole haha....

Your correct, my life is pretty solid at this time. There's some things I wanna change but it takes time, which I'm ok with. I'm a crab, we go slow in life matters anyways.

I think you were too nice too your canny kid. Bring out those moon sign stingers 😉 he'll probably try too come back now you told him too eff off. We like second chances and all, but no, just no. There's something else I wanted too add but I forgot. I really hope you meet a good cancer. Believe me when I say we're awesomely lovey dovey sweethearts. Where have you been all my life?? Just sweet shit all day everyday.

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Hey Cappie....just wanted to let you know how right you were. He wrote me a novel last night to answer all the texts he missed. I have no idea what I should say or do. I really should ignore him. I will, at least for now. This is getting so complicated.