Male Cancer roommate has completely stunned me....

We are strictly roommates. He is a cancer male (July 10th) I'm an Aries female, (March 31st) Thursday night I stopped at Olive Garden and picked up dinner and brought it home. Instead of being home at 5:30pm, I returned at 6:15pm When I arrived at home, he was sitting on the living room sofa and stated "you're late" He sat on the sofa for 5-10 minutes silent. He then went into his bedroom (man-cave) for the remainder of the night. I'm wondering why he is upset. How can I be late... when we had no plans? Should I read anything into this or just chock it up to a cancer thing.

@Koniucha No I did not.

Posted by AriesSpirit
We are strictly roommates. He is a cancer male (July 10th) I'm an Aries female, (March 31st) Thursday night I stopped at Olive Garden and picked up dinner and brought it home. Instead of being home at 5:30pm, I returned at 6:15pm When I arrived at home, he was sitting on the living room sofa and stated "you're late" He sat on the sofa for 5-10 minutes silent. He then went into his bedroom (man-cave) for the remainder of the night. I'm wondering why he is upset. How can I be late... when we had no plans? Should I read anything into this or just chock it up to a cancer thing.

Hmm seems like some pieces missing to this puzzle 🤔

Haha. I couldn't help but chuckle when I read the OP. I wouldn't read too much into any of this. He's clearly having a bad day, in a mood or both. Doesn't necessarily have to do with him being a cancer. Any cancer male would tell you the same.

@Koniucha I can say about 2 weeks ago. He was hanging out in the living room. He usually is always in his man cave. He came out and said he was going to have "some chick" over and said he did not invite her, she called and invited herself. As he said this a strange smirk came across his face. He made a point to make steady eye contact like he was looking for a reaction from me. I said ok and made myself scarce. She was only there 15 minutes....I feel lately he has been trying to get a reaction for something.

Posted by AriesSpirit
@Koniucha I can say about 2 weeks ago. He was hanging out in the living room. He usually is always in his man cave. He came out and said he was going to have "some chick" over and said he did not invite her, she called and invited herself. As he said this a strange smirk came across his face. He made a point to make steady eye contact like he was looking for a reaction from me. I said ok and made myself scarce. She was only there 15 minutes....I feel lately he has been trying to get a reaction for something.

And I think you know where this is going...

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by AriesSpirit
@Koniucha I can say about 2 weeks ago. He was hanging out in the living room. He usually is always in his man cave. He came out and said he was going to have "some chick" over and said he did not invite her, she called and invited herself. As he said this a strange smirk came across his face. He made a point to make steady eye contact like he was looking for a reaction from me. I said ok and made myself scarce. She was only there 15 minutes....I feel lately he has been trying to get a reaction for something.

And I think you know where this is going...

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I second this.

@Moonbutter I have no read on men.....sadly I have no idea where this is going

What do you think it is?

If you all are really just friends...there would have been some friendly banter after that remark.

You're looking for something more otherwise this would not have been anything to wonder about.

Because with true friends you just say what it is.

Maybe he was mad cause he was really really hungry lol

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I hate to say it but this sounds kinda true.

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Posted by happyface1
If you all are really just friends...there would have been some friendly banter after that remark.

You're looking for something more otherwise this would not have been anything to wonder about.

Because with true friends you just say what it is.

Maybe he was mad cause he was really really hungry lol

Yeah, I think he just wanted some of your Olive Garden lol

He is such a walking daily contradiction. Mood swings, sometimes talks to me at length and other times will walk past on his way to the kitchen and flat out ignore me and make a point to look away. When I moved in last August he's been friendly. It concerns me, he never seems to have friends over to visit or gets out of the house other than for work, banking and groceries. I have girlfriends stop by and we'll hang out, drink socially and play cards. I'm certainly more social and outgoing than he is.

Saying it looked like he was trying to get a reaction out of you let's it stand clear that you can read men just fine.

Stop it

Ok so cards on the table... Are you concerned about your safety?

that sounds really weird.

No, I'm not worried about my safety. We've been roommates since August and we've been cool and it's just his actions in the last few weeks have been so unlike how our interactions have been up until now. In March, he asked me if I would mind giving him a shoulder massage after he was sore after an intense work out. I agreed, since it was a reasonable request since I do have a massage therapist certification, I'm a skin care esthetician for a day spa by trade.and took the massage therapy course in conjunction All I know is that about 20 minutes into the shoulder massage he abruptly said. I'm done and went to his room. A week or 2 later he asked for a leg and foot massage and this time after 40 minutes he said that's enough and went to his room. And now weeks later he is acting differently

Sooo it seems like you are beating around the bush...are you wondering if he may have feelings for you?

What are your placements OP?

I do like him as possibly more than a friend and he is attractive but he seems so guarded.

I'm wondering in light of the recent events if he may have feelings for me. We do seem to get along well. It's just tricky since we are roommates.

Posted by AriesSpirit
I'm wondering in light of the recent events if he may have feelings for me. We do seem to get along well. It's just tricky since we are roommates.

So you have been wondering if he likes you due to his recent bizarre behavior and yet you will not admit it to us? Well I don't think this is going anywhere if you can't even admit to us how will you admit to him? He sure as shit ain't gonna lol

Posted by Moonbutter
What are your placements OP?

Sun Aries 10°48' Ascendant Aries 14°03'
Moon Taurus 8°30' II Taurus 21°18'
Mercury Pisces 19°11' III Gemini 16°18'
Venus Pisces 19°36' IV Cancer 7°33'
Mars Taurus 2°34' V Leo 0°02'
Jupiter Leo 26°33' R VI Leo 29°24'
Saturn Aries 14°47' VII Libra 14°03'
Uranus Virgo 26°35' R VIII Scorpio 21°18'
Neptune Scorpio 26°14' R IX Sagittarius 16°18'
Pluto Virgo 21°03' R Midheaven Capricorn 7°33'
Lilith Taurus 21°17' XI Aquarius 0°02'
Asc node Aries 18°40' XII Aquarius 29°24'

Time to rally some of that Aries courage and ask him if he wants to get dinner with you, but make it takeout so he doesn't think it's a date and really confuse the fuck out of him ‰

Moonbutter: Fair enough, I should have just said I have thought about his bizarre behavior and wondered if it was because he has feelings for me, The actual coming out and asking the question when it comes to this as I have a fear of rejection. I will just ask him myself tomorrow morning.

Posted by AriesSpirit
Moonbutter: Fair enough, I should have just said I have thought about his bizarre behavior and wondered if it was because he has feelings for me, The actual coming out and asking the question when it comes to this as I have a fear of rejection. I will just ask him myself tomorrow morning.

I know you knew, you just needed a bit of prodding... My bestie is Aries so I have great respect for you guys. Go get your crab girl! And be that confident girl who likes to lead.

Posted by Arielle83
If you say you gonna be home at 530 with my pasta and garlic bread, and you rock up at 615, I'd be telling you, you're late too!

I had to make a sandwich while I waited!

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Why are we so weird?

Dude was probably hungry which led to hangry so I get it. 😆

Did you pick up dinner for him and say that you'll be home at 5.30?

So yeah... He just don't like to wait. He's hungry and he want you at least tell him that you'll be late.
But it's ok. He will be just fine in no time. Just say sorry that your late.

Posted by kissmygrits
Dude was probably hungry which led to hangry so I get it. 😆

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I agree 100%

Such a cancer reason ‚‚‚