Men & STRIP CLUBS

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by krysrenee7 on Monday, January 4, 2010 and has 9 replies.

Opinions on Men Visiting Strip Clubs in Relationships

Men in relationships visiting strip clubs can be acceptable if they are transparent about it, respect boundaries, and it does not harm the relationship. The frequency, context, and reasons for going influence whether it is considered healthy or problematic. Communication with a partner is key to understanding boundaries and comfort levels.

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@krysrenee7
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Tell me...What is your opinion on Men in relationships who go to strip clubs? Does it depend: on how many TIMES he goes/how frequent he goes? WHO he goes with? Whether OR not he tells his girlfriend? Why he feels the NEED to go? What SERVICES he did OR didn't receive from the strippers? How LONG or strong the relationship/commitment is? Give me your OPINIONS & viewpoints on how you feel about committed men going to strip clubs

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@The-Dream
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If he going daily, not a good sign, but if he hanging with the fellas once awhile and they decide to go, i don't see the harm. If the woman doesn't feel comforatble, she should tell him. I saw every blue moon is okay but a constant thing is a red flag.

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@BaBy-GrL414
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I don't have issues with my man going to strip clubs. Men are visual where as females are not. I don't think it's a problem unless they are getting "services". Then, that's another story. Going for drinks and lap dances are harmless, and the sex when they get home.. Yikes is awesome!!! I actually enjoy going with him once in a while myself. It's fun, we have alot of fun together there.

I think the problem is because some women are insecure with their man looking at another women. If you as a woman are secure with yourself and your man, i think it can be exciting and opens a door of communication with your man, that really is priceless. If you give them that opportunity to share "other" thoughts with you, it warms them up and enables them to talk to you even more about other things (if you don't throw it in their faces).

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Posted by krysrenee7
Tell me...What is your opinion on Men in relationships who go to strip clubs? Does it depend: on how many TIMES he goes/how frequent he goes? WHO he goes with? Whether OR not he tells his girlfriend? Why he feels the NEED to go? What SERVICES he did OR didn't receive from the strippers? How LONG or strong the relationship/commitment is? Give me your OPINIONS & viewpoints on how you feel about committed men going to strip clubs

Welll...

Have you ever went?

Why not? Too cheap? Or afraid you might cum before your friends eyes?

What kind of man asks this stupid question? Just GO!

Unless your mommy said don't go! There are bad girls out there who will take your money we could use for food shopping tomorrow...

Seriously?

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
—7 yrs ago? I'll chime in tho if I'm in a relationship I don't see the need to go to a strip club unless it's a bachelors party.

I love you more every day...

Let's elope...but we have to talk Tena into this trip! Lol

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
—7 yrs ago? I'll chime in tho if I'm in a relationship I don't see the need to go to a strip club unless it's a bachelors party.

I love you more every day...

Let's elope...but we have to talk Tena into this trip! Lol

Lol why are you always dragging teena into this ?‍♂️

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I am too old to get you all for myself...

I need somebody who can match up to your beauty!

Unless you into geriatric sex...so let me know...

Lol