My cancerian man....

My boyfriend is a cancer 7/17 I'm sure many of you read previous threads of mine. Yesterday evening he called me from a number in which I did not recognize and we talked for a bit while he was ordering take out. I told him I wanted to see him and all that good mushy stuff. He told me that he was with his cousin (which is a male) and that he would call me back. Now somehow the phone that he used to call me dialed my number back without him knowing. At first I'm yelling his name and he doesn't respond, so something told me to listen. I heard him get back into his car and he started talking to this female that sound like she was close to him perhaps in the passenger seat. So you hear him talking to her about her body, and some other stuff, and as I am listening I'm literally shaking and saying to myself "I hope it's not what I think it is". So I hung up and called the number back in which he called originally and he didn't pick up so I finally had my best friend call the number back on 3 way and he answered. I asked him who is that girl that you are with and he pretended as if he had no clue what I was talking about. Now let me point out the whole time he was having this converstation with this female I did not hear his cousin speak at all. So I told him what I heard and he said yea it's me my cousin and his friend (why didn't he mention the other friend when he was telling me who he was with before?) I decided to hang up because all he did was laugh and say "oh my god" I can't believe this. About 30 min later he calls from his phone trying to explain it's not what I think it is they were all having a conversation and I am sorry his story did not sound believable. What do you guys think about this, put yourself in my shoes and tell me how would you react? This is really bad because I have fallen really hard for this guy and I just hope it's not what I think it is. I want us to be together but it's going to be extremly hard to go through things like this. Please help guys, I need as much feedback and advice as I can get.

Thanks

i'm also in a similar situation. these cancer men are ridiculous. the boy i'm sort of seeing always says sexual things to some of his female friends that he's hooked up with before and he actually hooked up with her once because he was apparently mad at me, but he would never tell me when he's mad. they have a problem with holding their frustrations in. i would just say, if you feel strongly that he's being unfaithful, trust your intuition. don't accuse him, though, until you get more facts. ask enough questions to ease your mind but not too many questions to where it frustrates him.

Is there anyone else who would like to share their opinion or advise? Please as much feedback as I can get. Thanks

Seems suspicious to me (ya no shit! ha ha) Well ok, one time that I caught my bf in a lie he just kept sayin 'ah shit, ah shit' and other times when I'm just confronting him to get a reaction he just gets annoyed at me for not trusting him (i do, i just want a reaction lol) then he may go into some lenghthy explanation. If I'm being stubborn he gets mad and ends it, but since he doesn't want me to think a wrong way he'll later bring it up when I've cooled off until I tell him that I'm not mad at him anymore. If they're lying they don't want to really go into it and have a tendency to laugh (unless they're the type of crab that is a chronic liar, they're nice but lie about the smallest things)