My ex added me back on snapchat

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Mschaniam on Wednesday, November 9, 2016 and has 30 replies.

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

So I was on snapchat yesterday and I see that he has added me back on snapchat. We "broke up" and I use this loosely. We haven't officially broke up but to me i feel that it's over. He got mad that I went to a murder mystery dinner on Halloween. I was on the phone with him while I was walking there and he hung up on me then blocked my number and blocked me on snapchat. I called him like 6 times and that was it and it all went straight to voicemail. I haven't talked to him since that Monday. Then yesterday I see he added me back on snapchat I accepted but I am not gonna message him at all. I don't understand cancer men at all what was the purpose of blocking me then unblocking me the next week. Did he think I would be begging for him to talk to me as soon as he added me back?

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@Virgous
9 Years

Lol, jeezus. He does not care if you speak to him or not. You added him back, that proves he's still got the juice.

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

Posted by Virgous
Lol, jeezus. He does not care if you speak to him or not. You added him back, that proves he's still got the juice.

I don't see how it proves that he still has the juice... cause he doesn't. If he did I would of been in his message trying to talk to him but that's not what I'm doing. I just added him so he can see that I moved on.

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@TxOgal
12 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Mmm it could be the one thing i hate about cancer men.. Silent treatment.. Its what got me breaking up with my ex.

And yeh he added me back on fb after 2 years of silence.. But i ignored it.. Whats the use?!

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Cancer men can be very selfish. They sometimes want to string you along without wanting something too serious. They only do this until they find someone else.

To their defense, it is hard for them to move on because they are emotionally attached.

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@Ssuperman
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Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by Virgous
Lol, jeezus. He does not care if you speak to him or not. You added him back, that proves he's still got the juice.

I don't see how it proves that he still has the juice... cause he doesn't. If he did I would of been in his message trying to talk to him but that's not what I'm doing. I just added him so he can see that I moved on.

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Send him a snap of the new boyfriends dick.

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

He told my friend the real reason why he got mad. He got mad because he heard a guy in the background of our phone conversation. ??

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

Posted by pinkbird03
Cancer men can be very selfish. They sometimes want to string you along without wanting something too serious. They only do this until they find someone else.

To their defense, it is hard for them to move on because they are emotionally attached.

Do you think he will get over me easily? If he can block me so easily I wouldn't think he would be emotionally attached.

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by pinkbird03
Cancer men can be very selfish. They sometimes want to string you along without wanting something too serious. They only do this until they find someone else.

To their defense, it is hard for them to move on because they are emotionally attached.

Do you think he will get over me easily? If he can block me so easily I wouldn't think he would be emotionally attached.

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It's a coping mechanism. He's trying to move on, but he only will when he finds someone else. Until then, he will still pop in and out of your life.

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
He told my friend the real reason why he got mad. He got mad because he heard a guy in the background of our phone conversation. ??

Who was the guy in the background?

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He is gay first of all. I'm in college and he lives on my floor so we were going to the dinner at the same time cause he was in it.

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
He told my friend the real reason why he got mad. He got mad because he heard a guy in the background of our phone conversation. ??

Who was the guy in the background?

He is gay first of all. I'm in college and he lives on my floor so we were going to the dinner at the same time cause he was in it.

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Well you could try to explain that to him, but he does seem totally insecure and jealous. I'm not sure if you're interested in such a sensitive cancer. It screams trouble. Trust me. I was like him too when I was in college. It took me awhile to learn to control it and overcome it. He may or may not get better. I say run...

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
He told my friend the real reason why he got mad. He got mad because he heard a guy in the background of our phone conversation. ??

Who was the guy in the background?

He is gay first of all. I'm in college and he lives on my floor so we were going to the dinner at the same time cause he was in it.

Well you could try to explain that to him, but he does seem totally insecure and jealous. I'm not sure if you're interested in such a sensitive cancer. It screams trouble. Trust me. I was like him too when I was in college. It took me awhile to learn to control it and overcome it. He may or may not get better. I say run...

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This is not the first time he heard this guy in the background with I was on the phone with him. So he kinda doesn't like him already. I decided not to talk to him since we broke up.

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
He told my friend the real reason why he got mad. He got mad because he heard a guy in the background of our phone conversation. ??

Who was the guy in the background?

He is gay first of all. I'm in college and he lives on my floor so we were going to the dinner at the same time cause he was in it.

Well you could try to explain that to him, but he does seem totally insecure and jealous. I'm not sure if you're interested in such a sensitive cancer. It screams trouble. Trust me. I was like him too when I was in college. It took me awhile to learn to control it and overcome it. He may or may not get better. I say run...

This is not the first time he heard this guy in the background with I was on the phone with him. So he kinda doesn't like him already. I decided not to talk to him since we broke up.

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He's jealous of a gay guy who poses no threat whatsoever. What about your other guy friends? Does he dislike them too?

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Mschaniam
He told my friend the real reason why he got mad. He got mad because he heard a guy in the background of our phone conversation. ??

Who was the guy in the background?

He is gay first of all. I'm in college and he lives on my floor so we were going to the dinner at the same time cause he was in it.

Well you could try to explain that to him, but he does seem totally insecure and jealous. I'm not sure if you're interested in such a sensitive cancer. It screams trouble. Trust me. I was like him too when I was in college. It took me awhile to learn to control it and overcome it. He may or may not get better. I say run...

This is not the first time he heard this guy in the background with I was on the phone with him. So he kinda doesn't like him already. I decided not to talk to him since we broke up.

He's jealous of a gay guy who poses no threat whatsoever. What about your other guy friends? Does he dislike them too?

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I got to a majority girls college so it's him and another guy but I barely talk to him.

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

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Posted by Mschaniam
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Over nerdy ass mystery dinner theater? Jeebus Crisps.

Can I start a gang/group called the bullet dodgers?

What's wrong with murder mystery dinners? I always wanted to go to one.

Nothing. In the OP she said derp ghosted her because she said she was on her way to one. People like that needto be cannon shot into space.

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Oh you're the OP. Nothing wrong with going to anything like that. I consider this a close call of future immaturity. Regardless of zodiac.

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

Posted by tiziani
He obviously has trouble expressing himself but he also sounds like he needs to grow up in his own time.

Exactly and I always like to confront people when I have a problem. He would just keep it to himself until he can't take it anymore. Then when he randomly blocks you, you won't even know what you did wrong.

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@Mschaniam
9 Years

Posted by kissmygrits
Posted by kissmygrits
Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by kissmygrits
Over nerdy ass mystery dinner theater? Jeebus Crisps.

Can I start a gang/group called the bullet dodgers?

What's wrong with murder mystery dinners? I always wanted to go to one.

Nothing. In the OP she said derp ghosted her because she said she was on her way to one. People like that needto be cannon shot into space.

Oh you're the OP. Nothing wrong with going to anything like that. I consider this a close call of future immaturity. Regardless of zodiac.

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Yes I am the op. I was thinking why were you talking to me in that way like it wasn't me that made this post. I was confused.??

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by kissmygrits
Posted by kissmygrits
Posted by Mschaniam
Posted by kissmygrits
Over nerdy ass mystery dinner theater? Jeebus Crisps.

Can I start a gang/group called the bullet dodgers?

What's wrong with murder mystery dinners? I always wanted to go to one.

Nothing. In the OP she said derp ghosted her because she said she was on her way to one. People like that needto be cannon shot into space.

Oh you're the OP. Nothing wrong with going to anything like that. I consider this a close call of future immaturity. Regardless of zodiac.

Yes I am the op. I was thinking why were you talking to me in that way like it wasn't me that made this post. I was confused.??

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I don't think I was fully awake. 🙂