Need help on Cap/Sags cusps male

Hi,

I've been a lurker for a long time. Just now decide to ask a question over a dilemma I'm currently having. I wonder if any Cancer girl is in a relationship with a Cap/Sags cusps male. Do you find any compatibility with him? Would you pursue long term relationship? Is there any cancer girl currently married to a capricorn/sags cusp?

Sorry for so many questions.

Canceleo123,

My mom is a Cancer and my dad a Sag. It's a mess there. From what I observed, knowing several Cancer-Sag couples, it seems to work better the other way around. The thing with Sag and Cancer relationships is that the instant attraction is HUGE. They're some pitfalls though: Cancers admire Sags' independant nature but it also scares the hell out of them which rises possesiveness and jealousy over time. As a result - they get moody and emotionally cool off over time. Sags are often told to be blunt and tactless - males especially, and thus may not always notice the little sings of Cancers' disappointment.

Interestingly enough, the couples I know (besides my parents) love and support each other very much. Like they don't love each other "because" but "even though" 🙂 It could be a strong union, but the essential is communication.

sdaemon,

Thank you for your reply. I'm glad that there is some positive outcome from this combination. I wonder if these feelings I'm feeling is not just some passing fancy. I feel as though I am the only one who wants to make this work. I feel as though if given a choice, he will choose to up and left. I feel some time if I was given a choice, I will be up and left. Seven years gone and disappear if that were to happen. I feel like he loves me "because" and my love for him is "even though".

I am working full time, I keep our house clean, I successfully lose weight but nothing new happen with us. It's like he stops pursuing.