New Cancer Here

This is a great site! Dating an Aries female right now. Wow...what a rush and what a conflict in personalities! Looking forward to reading more posts on this board about Cancers.

huh? about cancers or aries?

Welcome. I'm pretty new myself but never made the formal introduction. Wondering if I should... 😉

Aries women DON'T PLAY! If you try to fuc@ them over or they BURN and THEY BURN BAD! If you like it HOT, you have got it! Step off your game and YOU will get BURNT!

be good to her and it should be great. Aries will keep you on your toes! N if your wondering to kiss her, touch her, spank her, hold her etc. YES! do it lol

i have alot of aries friends 🙂

HI!

"Try going to the aries posts and ask them, I'm sure someone will give you some insight."
- give you some insight + chew your head off about how clingy we are, and how you should give up while you're ahead. = I'm just kidding.

oh sorry about the previous post..

HI there!

lol - broken_shell, what exactly are you trying to say —! huh, huh— - sounded like you need some chewing out on your clinging to the previous chewing out 😛 😉

Aries and cancer is very workable with other compatible planets but I get along with Cancer guys very very WELL but know when to back off - we have completely different M.O. for life...

Aries guy and Cancer female - sounds tougher though.

Scorpqueen, it is a tough combination. I've been reading about Aries women and most of the personality traits seem dead on, especially when I read about Aries II. Aries females are very easily to become addicted to. Looking back on things, the best relationship I've had to this date was with a Scorpio. Unfortunately, things weren't meant to be.

Welcome TenaciousCancer !

I'm a male. She's very witty, doesn't hold onto things, a smile that kills and is very positive. She is very quick to judge and doesn't examine things, especially when it comes to her issues. She's an Aries II and really fits that description. She just accepts things for the way they are. Her temper flares up at times and can be very selfish, especially when she wants something. She'll go to any length to get it. Like I said, she's a great person to be with, I just don't know if she's the one. Emotionally, we don't click the way I'd like to. With my Scorpio g/f, we just clicked emotionally. We would analyze things, had the same morals and values, she was just very easy to be with most of the time. Secrets, however, killed things. The sex was amazing, it was beyond passionate. My Aries g/f is passionate about sex, but there is something missing, it seems that we aren't connecting, I don't know how to explain it. She is a loyal girlfriend and tons of fun, just not sure how it's going to work out in the long run.

GB,

Which Tencacious D are your referring to? That crazy music band or Tenacious D as in football? If it was a football reference, I was a hell of a Free Safety, big hitter that played with wreckless abandon. You are right, Tenacious C would have sounded much better.

Scorpqueen,

She kept secrets from me and crushed my heart. I broke up with her and it was really tough at the time. We were also pretty young, in our early twenties. I crawled right into my shell when we broke up and she became obsessed. I'm a loyal friend and boyfriend, but once that trust was violated, I bolted. But for the life of me, I will never forget her and what we had. It was an amazing time in my life. We just clicked and could read each other's minds. It was just a comfortability that I can't explain. The passion and emotional connection will probably never ever be matched by another. Everything flowed, but once she started keeping secrets from me, things just got worse rather quickly. I heard from a friend that she's doing well and isn't married or dating. Remember, if a Cancer is in love, they love very hard and fall very hard.

Yes, she did keep secrets and she admitted that to me. There was a lot of passion and intensity during our relationship. Emotions ran high and I have to admit that I was pretty immature at the time and couldn't handle my emotions. Love drives you absolutely crazy! I had an all or nothing attitude. At the time, forgiveness was out of the question. Do I wish I could have had more of an open mind and not have been so immature? Yes I do. When I think about her I still get butterflies in my stomach and smile. I don't know if I'd consider calling her or pursuing it again. It's been a long time. There is a part of me that would like to contact her, but we are in different places right now. She's settled into into an amazing career that she has a lot of passion for and we live on different sides of the country. Maybe I will try and call her now that I think of it. You Scorps know how to get into our heads. Stop it, Scorpqueen, stop it, lol.

TenaciousCancer, as a scorpio myself, currently fancying a cancer friend of mine, i'd totally go for it too!I am in a continuous state of awe regarding our connection.I have never met someone in my whole life that i could connect with so easily and that reason alone is why i'm encouraging you to try again - this time both of you are mature and handle things differently.Give it a try, love like you had is never easily forgotten 🙂

scorpqueen, what you said "
Here's what I think the problem is with cancers & scorps......we are so similar emotionally, suspicions & paranoia that I think most of the time we are so busy trying to figure out what eachother means & start analyzing everything. This causes more frustrations because instead of enjoying the relationship we're to suspicious."
is absolutely right!This is why when these two meet they have to be patient and take their time at knowing and trusting each other.I know how much of a suspicious scorp i can be when i'm in love, and i need to trust the other person very much in order to lose this kind of attitude.

Everything you ladies have said makes sense. Right now I'm with someone. I have to see where things go with my current girlfriend. I don't want to contact her while I'm with my current girlfriend, it just wouldn't be the right thing to do. The whole thing sounds like it could be a fantasy. Can you really go back? Things change, but you never know. When the time is right then I'll contact her, but not right now.

Bad combo... I can't even imagine

Perhaps you don't have what it takes to unlock the passion within a aries.....believe you me it exists but we don't perform for just anyone....we have a more decearning taste 🙂

I'm loyal to my Aries. She is passionate about me and I do have passion for her, but not like my ex Scorp. Cancers are very loyal and can be to a fault. I care for my girlfriend and do love her, but if I'm second guessing it, then maybe it's not right. Wow...I came here to say hi and now look what I got myself into. Subconsciously, I was probably asking for it. Scorpqueen, good job on your part. At a loss for words...duh...don't know what to say...

TC- i wonder when you post at first you wondering about the relationship you have with your aries and wanting to know more about cancer yourself.. but then where this all lead into now?

I am sure if i say something i would get bash with the scorp women on here since i did that once before...but to think of it.. you are absolutely right to say that you being a cancer are loyal to a fault (mind you i am cancer woman.) Why not you focus on one thing at the moment right now since you are well enough knew that us as cancerian would not likely ever forget about our past or exes that easily... Maybe something is really missing in your relationship and that makes you think and unfairly comparing your current girl with your ex..just a thought..