ok I have been enlightened!

I have been the culprit of pushing my cancer away......I have been pushy (maybe perhaps a little manipulative) too assertive and totally insensitive ...and looking back by pushing my feelings totally disregarded his.....(courtesy of psychologist friend of mine) so now she gave me the psychologist point of view ...but now I need an astrology point of view ...did I truncked this up FOREVER! Ay Chihuahuas!!!

Ok JJ141214... I know your OP and I asked you on that thread if you guys were still legally married? So are you?

Rachel ..have you seen ur cancer at all (in person) in the past 3 months?

Yes .....we are ......it not a quick process of you want it done amicably and proper...

So JJ141214 I understand being emotionally involved and following your heart...but at the end of the day it's wrong and you guys can't have a healthy relationship until its completely over with your spouses. There's just way too much unseen bullshit involved and misunderstandings. I hope the best for you guys but timing is everything and right now maybe not best time:/

Posted by JJ141214
I have been the culprit of pushing my cancer away......I have been pushy (maybe perhaps a little manipulative) too assertive and totally insensitive ...and looking back by pushing my feelings totally disregarded his.....(courtesy of psychologist friend of mine) so now she gave me the psychologist point of view ...but now I need an astrology point of view ...did I truncked this up FOREVER! Ay Chihuahuas!!!

She is damn right, being seriously objective here... my approach to that is... what if the roles where reversed? meaning you being manipulated and pushed to do something you are not quite sure... you wont like it...

I don't know if forever, but you have to back off a bit...