Passive aggressive then love bombing

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by LibraAriesScorpio on Sunday, September 19, 2021 and has 4 replies.

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@LibraAriesScorpio
6 Years

My boyfriend (cancer) has been showing me a lot of passive aggression lately, and also tried to make me jealous a few times (which I did not fall for).

Now when I said he was being mean to me, he started showering me with affection and love, also asking me if I still love him. It was genuine. But it is super confusing.

Can someone explain this behaviour to me?

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

He seems resentful, for some reason. If you don’t know why, just ask him. Him showing regret and making amends is not enough, if you want to understand what’s going on.

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@GemMay
4 Years

Posted by SassyKiwi

Dump him and get someone more mature

Sure, its so easy to find mature man at your age! You have gotten one. How mature honestly is he?

I am hearing every day how there arent no man left unless someone wants one that identifies as shim...

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@GemMay
4 Years

Posted by LibraAriesScorpio

My boyfriend (cancer) has been showing me a lot of passive aggression lately, and also tried to make me jealous a few times (which I did not fall for).

Now when I said he was being mean to me, he started showering me with affection and love, also asking me if I still love him. It was genuine. But it is super confusing.

Can someone explain this behaviour to me?

Your combo - 3 of my favorite signs! You must be very special person. Teach him a lesson until you made him into your dream ma. Because YOU CAN!