Pisces and Cancer... I'm just not sure it works well.

I'm a Pisces/Aqua cusp with a Sag moon & Aqua rising and he's a Cancer with a Virgo moon & Aries rising.

I'm separated. Not divorced. He's single. He jumps around from being totally invested, wanting something, to backing off and cutting off contact, saying he's doesn't trust I'm going to leave, then comes back and says he doesn't care if I ever get divorced, to jumping back saying this doesn't feel very moral to him, he's not "that guy."

We have these infrequent, long, intense, for-hours conversations, one of us cries, usually, and it's scary how similarly we view ourselves/the world/how the world/family/people see us. And then poof... he's gone. Emotional outpouring, then heads for the hills, and here I am thinking we're closer after the talks and waiting for the call or text he promised that then doesn't always come.

That silence kills me. He knows it. I've told him. It's not three days, or a week. It's a month, sometimes more. I start to do my own thing and it's like he senses it, and he's back. I lash out because I'm hurt - I'm sarcastic or snarky to his advance to smooth things over and pretend like he was never gone - and off he goes again. And we mirror each other, which is stupid, because we're not being 100% authentic.

We're just too sensitive for each other, I think. On the same page too seldom.

And we never got around to the sex.

I think under the circumstances, his behavior is understandable.

Posted by GalOnTheCusp

And we never got around to the sex.

The sex is what makes it worth it.

Posted by rabidtalker

Posted by GalOnTheCusp

And we never got around to the sex.

The sex is what makes it worth it.

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You ain't kidding!

I was hoping to see if he'd behave differently once it happened. There was a very frustrating set of circumstances that prevented it. We saw each other once again in public, and then not since.

Maybe it's just a case of the timing being bad, and passing.

Too bad. We would have had some stellar sex. I'm still hoping.

Yeah... so fuck Pisces. Can't stand most of em.

Never met a Pisces girl that I liked really. Never understood why people say that it's the perfect match. The last Pisces girl that I dealt with was rude cunt. Always criticized other people, but could not handle even a bit of that criticism against herself. Most pisces people I know are manipulative snakes as well.