Really need help with my Cancer boy!

I'm a Libra girl who's got a major jones for a Cancer boy.

The Good Stuff:
1. We have SO MUCH in common. From tv, music and film to sense of humour and ways of spending time.
2. He's not into anyone else and is single.
3. HE'S HOT.

The Bad Stuff:
1. He lives on the other side of London from me. Thus being all cool and unavailable isn't really an option for me because I literally am unreachable and I'm the one chasing at the moment.
2. He has no idea that I like him and, because he's really sensitive, I am wary of seeming to pushy with him even though all I want to do is jump on him.
3. Since we hardly see each other, I have no idea how to let him know how I'm feeling without panicking him and making him retreat into his shell.

Any Cancer boys who've dated Libras or any girl who's not local...how did it go?! How did she tempt you out of your shell and get you to trust her.

And just so you guys know I'm batting on your side, I would never dream of hurting this boy. I've liked him since April, it's only grown and shows no signs of going away. :-)

im a capricorn and ive dated a libra before...so lemme try to recall :


it took me awhile to get it on with him (imagine, air and earth sign lol), the tango involved lotsa questions left unanswered, too many "maybe he is, myb he isnt?"
in addition to the seemingly long list of ''competitions'' haha


but thru persistence, it came to the point where he always sent me a text message at 9 pm every night or every other night. even after i moved abt 2 hours away, it was easy bcos we were friends in high school b4. we went out, just getting to know each other etc.



so i'd say, even if u love him to the death, take it easy first, and take your time but be persistent. allow him time to focus, like REALLY focus on you, make him go ,"who was THAT?


Mind you, during the process, there were signs that showed that he was into me, he just took his time to tell me that.

thanks!
it looks like i'm going to need a lot of persistance with this guy...

London_Libra

When was the last time you seen or spoke to (your crush) Moon Child?
How did you two communicate before?

Oh dear, Bena73. 😢 That is a woeful tale.
The last time we saw each other was the end of August. The only means of contact I have with him is facebook. That's how bad the situation is. We hardly know each other really.
It's sucks. 😢

😢 yeah, it's looking so difficult. wish i could fall for an aqua or gem, so much easier for a libra to figure out! but i've tried diverting my attentions from cancer and it simply cannot be done. he is captivating.
thanks, i hope it is worth it...