Revenge on a Cancer Man

What buttons do you press to really piss off a Cancerian Man who is using you to suit his own purposes 'fuck buddy' with no intention of progressing the situation to anything more' I'm mad right now transferring my angst into anger and I want to turn the tables!!

Posted by sugaries
I wouldn't really want to do that...they're really good at mind games.

Have you tried and what were the results —

This is how it went for me..


Me- You are a real @ $ ^% *()_)
Cancer- Oh yea well you are a !@&😉% _)#__#% *#% &^Y $ +@ $ )+% #% ^YQ& $ Q $ _)Q+% RTN VRY_ R NR(E
Me- Wow that was really mean.
Cancer- I know.
Me- Did you mean that?
Cancer- Yes.
Me- My feelings are hurt
Cancer- Good
Me Why did you say that.
Cancer- Because you made me mad
Me- I'm sorry
Cancer- You should be

In the end I am the one that ended up wanting forgiveness. The mind games are brutal.

Posted by BikerCh1ck
If you find an answer pls tell us.

What was your experience??

Posted by Nala13
This is how it went for me..


Me- You are a real @ $ ^% *()_)
Cancer- Oh yea well you are a !@&😉% _)#__#% *#% &^Y $ +@ $ )+% #% ^YQ& $ Q $ _)Q+% RTN VRY_ R NR(E
Me- Wow that was really mean.
Cancer- I know.
Me- Did you mean that?
Cancer- Yes.
Me- My feelings are hurt
Cancer- Good
Me Why did you say that.
Cancer- Because you made me mad
Me- I'm sorry
Cancer- You should be

In the end I am the one that ended up wanting forgiveness. The mind games are brutal.

I don't intend to be confrontational in anyway I am a Gemini with a Cancer Rising I want to play mind games with him! So I am not going to call him 'anything' in order to provoke a reaction I'm going to play him.

Sophia did this guy actually tell you that you guys would progress into something else?
If not just forget him and get someone who will give you what you want. It will probably be enough of a blow to him anyway that he can't use you anymore as long as you really commit to yourself and not go back to that situation. If you hold on for the sake of revenge or to try and make a relationship out of something that isn't there you are the only one who will pay.
I think you should put yourself first and move on.

In order to push their buttons, ignore them, and that makes them so mad.

You will only be able to seek revenge if he cares about you. Otherwise you are wasting your time. You want to hurt his feelings. Revenge is an action oriented application. So the best revenge would be for him to see you happy without him.
I'm afraid you are going to be viewed as rather pathetic. Walk away now with your head held high.

Posted by Nala13
You will only be able to seek revenge if he cares about you. Otherwise you are wasting your time. You want to hurt his feelings. Revenge is an action oriented application. So the best revenge would be for him to see you happy without him.
I'm afraid you are going to be viewed as rather pathetic. Walk away now with your head held high.

This probably explains why one Cancer I know is always hurt every time.

is this a joke?? you've got to be kidding...what are you interested in getting revenge on? what egregious misstep did he take that wronged you to the point wherein you feel you must retaliate with such vengeance? there isn't a person here that's going to support you without just cause to why you are seeking retribution. revenge is when someone tries to control karma. it is rather pointless and futile as no matter what you do you cannot make someone see things the way you see them.

revenge can be done in a good way, take them as a challenge, by proving yourself. prove to those people who have let you down that after all that they have done to you, you are able to get up. by that they may now bear in mind that they have messed up with the wrong person.

*cosigns with nala*

Posted by crabcakesandmayo
Don't bother. You will never win that battle!!

Would you like to elaborate on that for me please ??x

Posted by wineauxisback
is this a joke?? you've got to be kidding...what are you interested in getting revenge on? what egregious misstep did he take that wronged you to the point wherein you feel you must retaliate with such vengeance? there isn't a person here that's going to support you without just cause to why you are seeking retribution. revenge is when someone tries to control karma. it is rather pointless and futile as no matter what you do you cannot make someone see things the way you see them.

revenge can be done in a good way, take them as a challenge, by proving yourself. prove to those people who have let you down that after all that they have done to you, you are able to get up. by that they may now bear in mind that they have messed up with the wrong person.

*cosigns with nala*

I think I am already in that space Wineaux I have the strength to do this but it won't be easy (please read my response to you on confused over cancer) you speak alot of sence and could you let me have your comments asap please.
Desperate Schizo Gemini x