Should I or Shouldn't I

The Cancer in my life knows nothing about astrology and what being a Cancer means from and astrological view. So basically what I would like opinions on is if I give him some of the descriptions of Cancer men characteristics would it help or hurt? Would it give him a better understanding of himself and his emotions and empower him from a positive standpoint or would it just give him an excuse to justify some of his more unfavorable characteristics?

I can just hear him saying, "that's what a Cancer man does baby"....*rolls eyes*

To tell or not to tell...that is the question——?

Astrology is just going to point out what's already there. So if you show him certain things about his astrology character. You would just be labeling/stereotyping him with a certain image that he would have to fit. So my answer is a no because you would end up charging him as a Cancer rather than an individual person.

most people just think it's complete BS....of course it IS hard to understand something when you know nothing about it....

"I give him some of the descriptions of Cancer men characteristics would it help or hurt? Would it give him a better understanding of himself and his emotions and empower him from a positive standpoint or would it just give him an excuse to justify some of his more unfavorable characteristics?"

Knowing Cancers and the way they take EVERY little tiny thing as a personal assault .. I would say, don't tell him because he would likely see it as an accusation/attack about his character.

Points taken! I have decided not to say anything. Maybe if it ever comes up in a general conversation I will see if he's interested in knowing anything. Thanks everyone!!

you know my landlord is a cancer and he does strange cancerian stuff too - before he met me he knew NOTHING about astrology - but when he says or does something that is typical of a cancer I just laugh and say something like "that's such a cancer thing to say...." he doesn't take it offensively, he's just like "really? hmmm...." and now he's reading up about himself and asks me about astrology all the time - plus he tries to turn it around on me and say "that's a taurus thing"

I'm pretty sure you're not kidding 😛

hmmmm..... I could accept that.....or I could tease you....what to do what to do......

lol - haven't you realized yet he's not??

i am shy and she is gross,

u guys have no idea

okay then - shy but determined

"u guys have no idea"

well Kim did tell us that you avoid attention, as she said even when you deserve, so good for you stepping out of your comfort zone 🙂

when i find something i like yes........(ANGEL)

shes right......when i was younger she coulodnt figure out why i was so quiet and withdrawn

im not chasing anyone moon....just angel and i dont know if she is attainable??

and are you still?

goodnight moon

me?? attainable...of course silly...just cuz i had some drinks that doesnt change a thing except my IQ .lol silly

no no no.....that question was about you being quiet and reserved when you were younger

u wouldnt believe me if i told u...mail kim she will tell ya

hmmm....okay I will

I wonder then why so bold here? just because it's a chat room?

i am a bit older and i =d like to think i have relaxed some,,,,plus when i find someone that i gel with there are no inhibitions

okay - but you do realize I'm not the only one who can read your posts....... not that there is anything wrong with them, just that I'm surprised you would be that bold.

underground? are the republicans monitoring me??

🙂

??

who should i be worried about?

lol - no one, I'm just surprised you're bold enough to tell all of DXP how you feel.....

i tell it like it is......tghere shouldnt be anyone who has a problem with it...maybe u is all, and i hope thats not the case

no of course not, we've already had this discussion

well then im a happy camper 🙂 🙂 🙂

lol well obviously

😉 😛

as long as you're happy

it aint all about me....

oh?

im happy if your happy...it takes two...

you make being the level headeed on very difficult one me 😉

just for tonight sweetie.......

lol - hardly..... it's not easy to stay practical with YOU chasing me 😉

use private messaging dumb asses?

Someone has to do it. If you want to pry in their life so badly. Go dig through their garbage. I will also say the same thing I say to people like you. Eat shit

you know there is a very simple solution....don't read the posts.

You don't have to be an ass because you don't personally have the balls to show someone you care about them so much.

as a matter of fact we do message each other privately as well, but I guess he just wants to show me that he cares enough not to worry about what other people think.

so screw you

This is funny. You guys makes me laugh. Thanks for laugh you guys. I appreciate it.

oooohhhh scorpio up his ass has been here less than a month and hes telling other people what to do..fuck off retard. i really wish pussies like u had the balls to say that shit to my face.....just another cyber strong man right? and u better beleive i would embaress u in front of eveyone if u got in my face....go back to myspace fuck tard.

thats why this world is so fucked up because assholes like u have nothing better to do than to fuck with other people....get a life shitface

who are you refering to bling?

he is just sad......(his stinger is really small)😉