cancer men flirts?

so I've known this cancer guy for about three months now.. whenever we go out to eat or something it seems like he always flirts with the waitresses. Its always the younger ones, and its never males. He just gets more chatty to other girls around me, and it seems to be getting very noticeable. We're friends, but he knows how I feel about him, and I really believe he wouldnt waste his time with me if he didnt feel it were going some place. I never thought cancer guys were flirts but he really flirts with everyone.. is he trying to make me jealous or something?? I'm not sure how to react cuz I dont wanna make him angry, but its just so aggravating. He's never flirted/talked to me the ways he does with a lot of strangers, so it is very odd. I know a lot about cancers so maybe he's just protecting himself??

I've never understood the idea of a Cancer guy who's supposed to be this soft, shy guy.

Every Cancer guy I've known has been a serious flirt.
And they all deny it and just say that they're "friendly".
But then if I was as "friendly" with guys as they were with girls they'd have a fit!
lol

If by "protecting himself" you mean he's making sure he has back-up women in case things don't work out with you two, then I'd say yes. They seem to have a need for an inordinate amount of female attention(maybe it's the "mommy" thing that astrologers talk about?). So even if they're committed and monogamous, they still need a stand by to run to if things go south.

Not sure if that helped.
I'm sure there will be Cancers in here any minute telling you that he's just sensitive, friendly, and scared because of how much he loves you. lol

Good luck with everything. 🙂

yeah we flirt and yeah we always have a backup plan..

Yeah, BIG FLIRTS but he is just seeing what type of self esteem YOU have about yourself. If you believe you are a queen the hell with another woman, she cannot touch you with a stick. If you believe that and not get yourself so wrapped up into his flirty ways then he will believe you are a queen and that you are #1 because you hold yourself accountable as #1.

oh so I'm your back up plan huh? 😉

its the ones with fire signs rising or fire sign moons that are the big flirts from my experience. sometimes i might flirt but i dont really think so....more so if im single i think. and maybe if im really fucked up in that case i wont remember it 😛

ill treat someone like a queen till she shits on the king ...then off to the gallows.....

oh please....you're the biggest flirt on DXP 😛

whatever...just with u....🙂

nuh uh 😛
I was here the day you were posting racey pics for notso and redrover 😉

he did post those half-naked pics for me, rover, and m too. they were nice.

I saw them 😉

don't know him like you think huh? yup - he's a big ol' flirt 😛

notice he is not defending himself now 😉

okay well now you know he's a bad-boy and a flirt - so watch out ! keep your heart under lock and key - the man's a walking talking romance novel, complete with racey cover 😉

oh nevermind - I promised I wouldn't tease him anymore 😢

just for that......

" just for that" what? 😛

take a look see for yourself 😉

la,la, la,la,la

I figured out what you were up to 😛

huh? what? 🙂

I already checked before you even told me 😛

why does it look like she's talking/responding to herself? i can't see his posts.

you sure? you really have to watch yourself with him........

see...noones impressed....

that's because notso can't see your psots for some reason - so let me help you out and let her know that there are some um....pictures.... on your profile that you would like us all to see 😉

but I like the main one the best 🙂

u called me out....just rising to the occasion 😛

godamnit! i can't see. 😢

put them here, then hide them. pretty please.🙂

lol - see what a big flirt you are? 😉
oh and...a nipple ring? really........

can't you go into his profile?

really.... cuz im a nice guy ;P

i don't see him at all actually. what the hell?

too bad.......the temp is definately rising in his profile 😉

don't tease me. 😢

someone repost it here so i can see. i'll give you a cookie.

oooooh a cookie!!

yes, a whole one. oatmeal.

oatmeal is my favorite 🙂

can I have my cookie now?

I have to hide those in a minute....

hey....

lovely. thank you. i've had my fix, now here's your cookie.

those were big.....wait let me pull my unit out and then make them that big 😛

mmmmmm......cookie........

okay.....one more time...real quick

okay that's enough 😛

that six-pack is fulfilling. nicely done.

here's more cookies.

enjoy

i even threw in a medium glass of milk.

woo hoo!