so I've known this cancer guy for about three months now.. whenever we go out to eat or something it seems like he always flirts with the waitresses. Its always the younger ones, and its never males. He just gets more chatty to other girls around me, and it seems to be getting very noticeable. We're friends, but he knows how I feel about him, and I really believe he wouldnt waste his time with me if he didnt feel it were going some place. I never thought cancer guys were flirts but he really flirts with everyone.. is he trying to make me jealous or something?? I'm not sure how to react cuz I dont wanna make him angry, but its just so aggravating. He's never flirted/talked to me the ways he does with a lot of strangers, so it is very odd. I know a lot about cancers so maybe he's just protecting himself??
I've never understood the idea of a Cancer guy who's supposed to be this soft, shy guy.
Every Cancer guy I've known has been a serious flirt. And they all deny it and just say that they're "friendly". But then if I was as "friendly" with guys as they were with girls they'd have a fit! lol
If by "protecting himself" you mean he's making sure he has back-up women in case things don't work out with you two, then I'd say yes. They seem to have a need for an inordinate amount of female attention(maybe it's the "mommy" thing that astrologers talk about?). So even if they're committed and monogamous, they still need a stand by to run to if things go south.
Not sure if that helped. I'm sure there will be Cancers in here any minute telling you that he's just sensitive, friendly, and scared because of how much he loves you. lol
Yeah, BIG FLIRTS but he is just seeing what type of self esteem YOU have about yourself. If you believe you are a queen the hell with another woman, she cannot touch you with a stick. If you believe that and not get yourself so wrapped up into his flirty ways then he will believe you are a queen and that you are #1 because you hold yourself accountable as #1.
its the ones with fire signs rising or fire sign moons that are the big flirts from my experience. sometimes i might flirt but i dont really think so....more so if im single i think. and maybe if im really treetrunked up in that case i wont remember it