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This topic was created in the Cancer forum by victoriagemini on Thursday, April 7, 2016 and has 11 replies.

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I texted my crab after silence from him and he was all flirty in his reply and even told me he misses me which he never said that before and that he might visit me soon. Thing is he still doesn't text me first after that intimate issue we had. I'm confused is he taking it casual, would he just say miss you just because? Is he going it sideways?

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Posted by akatsoup

Posted by victoriagemini
I texted my crab after silence from him and he was all flirty in his reply and even told me he misses me which he never said that before and that he might visit me soon. Thing is he still doesn't text me first after that intimate issue we had. I'm confused is he taking it casual, would he just say miss you just because? Is he going it sideways?

That's how I act when I'm playing someone

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Thing is miss you is a strong word. Why would he say that? To make me emotional? Plus our synastry is off the charts. We even have Juno conjunction sun

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Posted by Ozymandias92

Posted by victoriagemini
I texted my crab after silence from him and he was all flirty in his reply and even told me he misses me which he never said that before and that he might visit me soon. Thing is he still doesn't text me first after that intimate issue we had. I'm confused is he taking it casual, would he just say miss you just because? Is he going it sideways?

Fuck that Cancer, Gem. You're way too great and far too intelligent for him, too. He never deserved you.

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Sucks cuz I really liked him

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Posted by Koniucha

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Posted by victoriagemini
I texted my crab after silence from him and he was all flirty in his reply and even told me he misses me which he never said that before and that he might visit me soon. Thing is he still doesn't text me first after that intimate issue we had. I'm confused is he taking it casual, would he just say miss you just because
? Is he going it sideways?

That's how I act when I'm playing someone

Thing is miss you is a strong word. Why would he say that? To make me emotional? Plus our synastry is off the charts. We even have Juno conjunction sun

Yes, people lie all of the time. Guys will lie to have sex, sure. It's sad, but reality unfortunately.

You
can't blindly go by astrology. Its not a guarantee

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He stringing me along..

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Posted by FutureSeeker
Best predictor of future behavior is past

Welll he was all over me before and after we didn't have sex he doesn't text me that much but is all over my social media. So I text him and he replies very flirty to me but nothing sexual just nice convo that he misses me. But that convo was a month ago and he still isn't texting even to say hi. We don't live close to each other btw

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Posted by victoriagemini
I texted my crab after silence from him and he was all flirty in his reply and even told me he misses me which he never said that before and that he might visit me soon. Thing is he still doesn't text me first after that intimate issue we had. I'm confused is he taking it casual, would he just say miss you just because? Is he going it sideways?

That's how I act when I'm playing someone

Thing is miss you is a strong word. Why would he say that? To make me emotional? Plus our synastry is off the charts. We even have Juno conjunction sun

Yes, I know it's bad, but I when I used to play with someone I would say "i miss you" too.. A couple of sweet texts and then never contact again. If she did, I'd have been
sweeter than the previous time and then disappear again. Never meant one word.

Trust me, if a C. is properly into you, you Gemini would ask him to leave you alone from time to time haha
Cancer is a strange sign. Most of them (us) believe that the world owes them something. And as we are very emotional, the majority believes that it's a duty to be mean this way, to balance our suffering.

I can feel by your posts
that you are very sad about this and I don't want to discourage you with this reply. I don't know your situation with him and maybe he's just busy.
But I have learnt that when things get at this point since dating, then let go. Look at your sadness and know that you'd feel like that every one two weeks if you keep chasing him.

Cancerians have flaws but they also have good qualities. If you really like them, keep looking

, you'll find one.
I have two Cancer cousins (F and M) who are married to a Gemini and they both have 1 (beautiful) kid - they are very nice couples. I think that the Cancer girl is very tricky but her husband is very patient.
Another cousin of mine is Cancer and has been with a Gemini for 4 years, but they always argue (because of her, the Canc., she would argue all the time
with her ex too who was a Virgo).
And last Gemini-Cancer couple I know is a lesbian couple, they come to my gym. The gemini was in a relationship for 9 years and left her girlfriend to be with the Cancer. The Gemini in the beginning didn't want to date her, but then she fell.

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Basically we went out twice, he wanted sex but I stopped and we had forplay only. After that he stopped texting first only is active on my fb. So I decide to text him and that's what he said. He's 37 I'm 24

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Posted by thinktoomuch
.. Probably he thinks it´s exiting, that you´re so young, but at the same tie knows it´s wong, because he isn´t interested in you.

I would think, that you are better off without him.

Ugh....really believed he was. I'm mature for my age. I can do sex buddy but wanted to see if he wanted more

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Posted by Koniucha
Being active on fb doesn't mean anything. That takes no effort.

You are only striking his ego at this point.

M not chasing him. I just texted him once. He replied righ t away saying pet names and crap