the cancerian I'm with righ now is awesome, I feel very strongly about it, going too fast?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ariessungoddess on Thursday, June 23, 2016 and has 6 replies.

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he is nothing like a textbook cancerian. he is completely honest, very outgoing, funny and courteous. probably the things I learnt about him to be "astrologically right" is he can be very indecisive and sometimes very passive and needing lone time. he is unsure about his career, he's always deciding on what to do or what else that he barely gives importance to his work in hand, I guesses it might probably be because his family is well off and his father is a very successful business person that maybe he measures himself up to it and feels he doesn't.

he is also very generous and great with animals. we usually have a great connection although he prefers touchy show of emotions mostly. this is just more than a month and I've been on more than 10 dates with him already and every one of it was very adventurous and romantic.

I'm just wondering is it all this natural? how is it that Aries/cancer is frowned upon normally? sure my aries colleague is a better storyteller and all but the cancerian is very romantic and fun.

I'm taking some serious steps in our relationship, as in I'm not seeing anyone else and starting to return calls with him everytime and planning on meeting his family in a month (on his insistence)

thoughts on it?

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Posted by Moonbutter
Seems like a whirlwind romance. Just don't get too caught up in the "fantasy" and maybe slow things down a bit. Are you guys intimate yet?

no not completely. it's like a mutual unspoken agreement that we've kept it off for a good time. are there any red flags so far about him apparent?

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Posted by ariessungoddess
he is nothing like a textbook cancerian. he is completely honest, very outgoing, funny and courteous. probably the things I learnt about him to be "astrologically right" is he can be very indecisive and sometimes very passive and needing lone time. he is unsure about his career, he's always deciding on what to do or what else that he barely gives importance to his work in hand, I guesses it might probably be because his family is well off and his father is a very successful business person that maybe he measures himself up to it and feels he doesn't.

he is also very generous and great with animals. we usually have a great connection although he prefers touchy show of emotions mostly. this is just more than a month and I've been on more than 10 dates with him already and every one of it was very adventurous and romantic.

I'm just wondering is it all this natural? how is it that Aries/cancer is frowned upon normally? sure my aries colleague is a better storyteller and all but the cancerian is very romantic and fun.

I'm taking some serious steps in our relationship, as in I'm not seeing anyone else and starting to return calls with him everytime and planning on meeting his family in a month (on his insistence)

thoughts on it?

Who says it's textbook for Cancers to be dishonest? I'm honest to a fault and I suck at lying (so I don't). Funny and courteous are standard Cancer traits, too (Tom Hanks, Robin Williams, Fluffy, etc). Stop reading catlady astrology stuff.

As for the relationship, enjoy and go with the flow, see how things go. 🙂

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Who says it's textbook for Cancers to be dishonest? I'm honest to a fault and I suck at lying (so I don't). Funny and courteous are standard Cancer traits, too (Tom Hanks, Robin Williams, Fluffy, etc). Stop reading catlady astrology stuff.

As for the relationship, enjoy and go with the flow, see how things go. 🙂

lol catlady astrology, maybe you do have a point