Tom Cruise. The grip of death. Will Katy live?

That's a weird online ad I saw. Do crabby men really give the impression of suffocating the partner?

I wish mine was more clingy!!!!!

Interesting. I think those are reasons why I like strong women who are not afraid to put me in my place firmly and not stay mad after that. Just like a slap that fixes stuff. Hard to find. Women tend to accept and suffer and eventually they have enough.

Small breasts are ok if they are cute. I don't need massive, but if the whole thing fits in my mouth, it's just not enough.

No mention of OJ yet?

*relief*

Its true that we tend to accept and suffer and you crabs like things your way!!!
It is frustrating sometimes!!!
It is indeed difficult to find a woman who would not stay mad..we tend to accumulate stuff and then we just blow. It is not good though..

Posted by MegStings

Posted by mr.crabby
like a slap

Like a slap in the face? I threaten to slap my best crab in the face he says "go ahead" ... I never have slapped him, but I sure want to sometimes lol

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From someone I love, it's ok. 🙂

My first bf was a crab and we were in love then one night he decided to burn me with a cigerette and i made him regret loving me.

I'm actually moving in with him this weekend Its been 3 years since we were together. He got a new place in the city and offered me to stay.

were still friends and I pride myself on the fact that I forgave him and were still friends.

but if he ever fucks with me again i dont know what ill do.....heres hoping i dont go crazy

Posted by Aphrodite Bull
Mr Crabby---

I always hear that Male Cancers want a strong woman despite their repeated attempts to dominate. It is much easier to dominate a woman who has a passive personality who will allow a man to navigate that entire relationship. But with a strong minded woman who has a strong sense of who she is....that can be quite challenging. How do most Cancer men balance that?

(Without looking at her boobs) Laughs.

I don't have "partners", things never really work out.

But no, I don't suffocate, I've been told I'm too detached and cold. I don't smooch and I don't want to control or have to "take care" of someone else. No PDA, etc...

I just want a woman that can stand up to me when she doesn't like something, be her own person without making a big deal about it. "Strong" women are mostly annoying bitches that want to feel superior. I can't stand that. I have a tendency to dominate and rule, but I can't stand weaklings, I don't like puppies.

Strong minded = bitch.

Solid and independant = sensational.

I just want a sexy rock with nice tits, is that too much to ask? Taurus, maybe?

I noticed that too, with cancer men. They are afraid of strong-willed women but are attracted to them? A strange paradox; so it's easy to choose the passive ones, so they can bend them to their will? So as websites say, the lazy quality in them, as an example, in relationships - they will choose always the passive ones.

Again, if you can have am authentic strong personality, it's great. Being a bitch and calling yourself strong just doesn't work. There are a few of those on the Scorpio forum, I think. Scorps are good at that.

I always hear that Male Cancers want a strong woman despite their repeated attempts to dominate. It is much easier to dominate a woman who has a passive personality who will allow a man to navigate that entire relationship. But with a strong minded woman who has a strong sense of who she is....that can be quite challenging. How do most Cancer men balance that?

IM FINDING THIS TO BE ABSOLUTELY TRUE...I am entering the third month of a relationship with a Crab....and it is this!!!
Anyway he likes to have his own way and control things, Im ok with that to an extent and he gets fighsty when I challenge him, but deep inside he likes it..He is domineering indeed..Im more relaxed but stand my ground when I dont agree...
Crabs are strange creatures, one moment caring and loving and the other sarcastic, vindictive, cruel....wow Jekyll and Hyde must have been a crab!

So the 'method to the madness' of a male Cancer is to dominate and rule a solid independent woman? She is entitled to have her own opinion, but in the end, a male Cancer prevails ....is that true? (Sort of like Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes).

Oh no, I have a pushy personality, I just don't want "her" to bow to it, that's all. If she stands up to me, that's perfect, but I'm not going to try to change.

Posted by MegStings
Crabs seem to dominate me... All the ones I have close to me in life do anyway... I'm fine with it. I guess it depends on the Scorp.

I think Scorps can be very submissive when they trust and love. It's just very difficult to get to that point. I wish I had known how to.

It is difficult to open up , trust and love , if the other person doesnt TRY to do the same....
I love the Crab Im dating but I am hurt by his constant mistrusting...I try to trust him but he doesnt trust me or anything I dois ever enough to show him I care...it is frustrating to love you guys..is anything we do ever enough to convince you that we care—??

The trials are long and painful, but the reward you cannot find anywhere else than inside the heart of crab people.

craaaab people
craaaab people
taste like crab
talk like people

Well it is out of that sheer conviction that I go on with him...he will eventually realize how I feel about him..with him its baby steps but well..Iknow the reward will be there, I don't know why but it is out of pure intuition that Im dealing with this...
Dont misunderstand me, he does show me affection and love but mistrusts me..feels I can deceive him, imagines things, wow...he is so jealous...and believe me I dont give him any reasons to be but still he is...
Today we had a chat and I told him..let yourself be loved and believe you can be loved..anyway he needs demonstrations of love and Im working on that, fortunately us Pisces are very resourceful and romantic when it comes to that, so guess what I did for him? I stuck paper hearts in his tree..and today I left a love letter with my perfume in his house.he loved it. I will insist until he believes me!!!!!
I hope he does 🙂

Controlling? Proably. Psychoticly insane? Assuredly.