@cheeky14u
19 Years
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Sorry felt the need to vent.....apparently god is getting even with me for some reason, was at my cousins this evening....really haven't talked to her for quite sometime but ran into her recently at a shag....
blah blah blah.....to make a long story short......we got talking about relationships and how some people are really screwed up when it comes to them.....so I recounted my story of love lost......(karma) to my surprise as I am telling her the details she says a name.....his name isn't_____......and I like am ready to have a heart attack and say yah it is.....seriously it is....apparently her husband and this guy I had a thing for are like best friends....
So we discuss him further and she tells me that his ex girlfriend was a real psycho and that he was off and on with her for quite sometime.....finally made the break totally this last fall/christmas......I tell her about my most recent encounter with him and that we talked on new years and he told me what a nut she was......
Anyway apparently he is now with someone new and they went on a trip fairly soon after our last conversion and are now moving in together......she thinks its very fast for him but hey.....who can question love......
She insists he is a great guy but flaky and that he is easily taken advantage of......by woman and his friends.....
I tell her that I thought he was also a good guy but by the way he treated me I cannot keep that same rosey picture in my head......again he is a flaky guy and means no harm but has terrible luck with woman.....
I say I don't think it has anything to do with luck I think its the way he treats them whether intentional or not......he probably doesn't even realize he is doing it.....
So again just venting as it seems like god is just playing a game with me......I looked up the girl he is seeing and she is cute and I have to say that she does resemble me some.....however he has a past with her so I probably resemble her.....lol
Hope it works out for them, as even flakes deserve to be happy!!!!!!!