Update guys- on my cancer guy (Page 2)

Well it is not saying he doesn't want me. The man is hot and cold

YES HE IS, you are not listening, hot and cold means I don't want you and when I do want you I only want you on my terms which is not wanting you at all... men that want you DON'T DO THIS KIND OF SHIT TO THE WOMAN HE LOVES, no wonder this guy targeted you, he knew you don't have a clue when it comes to men and would be a great candidate to put up with his BS. And on top of that you keep asking him questions about the relationship, stop nagging the man, he can't even commit to being with you none the less give you a straight up answer, this guy is clearly telling you what you wanna hear..

Listen you have all the info you need, he's deleted you from myspace, you read were he took another woman out for drinks and god knows what else he's done with her, HE IS A LIAR, he said he didn't want to date other women but it's clear he's dating other women, he's back on the dating site with an active profile, he deliberately started a fight with you on Valentines Day to most likely spend it with someoene else...

stop LISTENING to his words and look at his actions, he's a hot and cold lying clown, when you first met him he was so hot you almost had to beat him off with pit bulls and pepper spray now he can't stand being around you...I know his mixed messages are confusing but to stop all confusion, stop listening to his words, stop believing what he says AND go by his actions...he said he would call, he didn't so his actions says he's a liar, he said he wouldn't date anyone else but it's clear he has been dating other women, his actions don't match with his words, HE'S A LIAR

Get out of the past and look at what he's doing NOW, right now he's lying which means he doesn't respect nor love you enough to offer you the truth so you can make a sound decision, your stuck because he's a liar, if he would tell you the truth which is he's over you, over the relationship then you wouldn't be stuck, don't give him more chances to reject and discard you...

Relationship crack or jus plain ole crack?

Um sweetheart I know you really liked this guy. However, I think he only thought of you as a transitional girl.

Oh yeah, cancers seem so innocent on the outside. They'll tell you what you want to hear, they are so sensitive and can feel you out. It's their gift. And they can use it for good or evil.

''who cares your a dumb hot blonde who can get whatever man you want.''

Sure she can GET them but she doesnt get to KEEP them.

Most men would go for a dumb blonde type but it takes a real strong woman for a man to fall in love. It takes far more than 'hot' looks to maintain a relationship with a Cancer man.

Haha damn ouch!

Some of the women of that sign can be really shallow and light. But not all.

I didn't say she was. I said sometimes the women are.

sometime women have to go through tons of BS in order to understand that yes once again I chose a lazy assclown loser, yes he fooled me and made me believe in him and yes I was stupid once again for believing in him...some women need to ask the question why am I creating drama for myself? What is it that I am doing subconsciously that is attracting emotionally unavailable morons?

libragal had many clues and keywords that should have made her do an about face he's newly divorced with child restraining order in place, overly charming over giving, gave phone asked her to get rid of her phone equals controlling arrogant over bearing, there is just so many things that women miss or choose to ignore, they are too busy being deep in there own personal dream to see the clowns with evil grins dancing around outside the door.

No I did not take him back guy's...I have just been really busy. I caught up on the comments and all I can say is the ones with the shallow rude remarks as to what type of person I am is not showing you as a intelligent person. You can not judge a person until you really know a person, and before you point fingers make sure your own hands are clean!

To the ones that have followed this from day one, yes I saw all the red flags going in but chose to ignore them. I guess I just wanted to believe in this person, and now next time I know better to follow my gut instinct as apposed to reacting all on feeling. Now come on people we all have been there at some point in our lives. I admit I made a foolish mistake, and I made my bed and laying it. The funny thing about this is I was so upset at him, when really the fact of the matter is I was upset at myself for allowing this person to make a fool of me. When you have time to step away from the situation at hand you begin to realize a lot of things. I just can't stop shaking my head going how stupid can you have been to buy into his bullbutter, but when you are vulnerable I guess butter like that happens.