UPDATE: I'm crabless

Well my cancer guy decides to call me (geeeeez i thought the day would never come!) but get this...he sends me a text message first saying goodmorning baby! Then thats it...i wait but there's nothing, no calls, no texts, no emails...nothing. FOUR DAYS later he actually calls me (i started having a panic attack when i see his number flash up, something he will never know...LOL!). So i answer, he says hello in a quiet, slightly sad tone and asks me what i'm doing, i say i'm at home chilling and then ask him how he is, he then goes quiet and I ask him what's wrong, he pauses then says he's watching tv and will call me back....I'M STILL WAITING..that was two days ago....ok, so what was that about, why did he bother calling just to hang up after 2 seconds? all he's left me with are more questions....so does this guy like me? is this typical cancer behaviour? (because it seems like someone in need of counselling behaviour to me!). Is this something you would do when you like someone? when we first started he was quite outgoing and outspoken but it seems that everytime we talk he becomes more and more quiet and introverted, what is the problem?

UPDATE: I'm crabless

Thank God

Hi Venuslady,

Trust what I'm about to say as I, too, am a Libra lady. Your cancer is in need to counseling. Also, from my experience, don't expect him to give you anymore than you're getting now. There isn't much too this man. Don't get more into it than that. Whether he's attempting to be mystical or not isn't the point. The most important part here is that your needs aren't being met. He's selfish and is concerned for his own feelings and circumstances. Yours are and will probably always be secondary on his list of important things. I was involved with a Cancer many years ago. He's since come back into my life twice and both times he's been unprepared to reach my standards but thought I might have grown desperate enough to settle for him. Please don't settle. If he doesn't add up, walk away. No, better yet......run and run fast because when those crabs get their claws in you, they won't easily let you go. They make great friends even if they are immature, but if that is the case don't get involved, emotionally. It will be utter hell for you. Too much self-absorbed emotion and not enough consideration and care for the other partner's wants and needs. Many times the men want to be in charge but they don't have the leadership skills to do so and will berate and belittle you, as a woman, to feel in charge. The one I was involved with was and is a coward. He's in his 40's and still acts like a teenager, emotionally. He says he hasn't been in a relationship in 11 years because he never really let me go. Some might say I should be flattered but I think he needs counseling not my love. As I said he never made me happy and I don't think he would ever be able to bring happiness in my life. He's simply too immature. You can take my advice or not but from what you've said you're dealing with the same kind of nut. Run!